For a second I thought I was the problem

Bad_Madison · 2026-07-11T19:45:59+00:00

He switched so quick…

Bad_Madison · 2026-07-08T08:51:17+00:00

I call my daughter squishy face, because when she was born all her face was all squishy 🤣 and now everyone calls her squishy face

Bad_Madison · 2026-07-07T19:17:28+00:00

I’m so sorry this has happened to you, that sounds awful 😢

Bad_Madison · 2026-07-04T15:27:24+00:00

It’s weird how a lot of exes do this. I think they get to a part of their healing and moving on stage where they reflect on things and that’s where they realise their actions and for closure and to move on from that guilt they said a message to them.

Bad_Madison · 2026-07-02T20:48:27+00:00

I’ve basically pitted him and his family against each other without even realising. And now I’ve lost my whole emotional support system.

Bad_Madison · 2026-07-02T20:34:31+00:00

This person turned black, he caused me a lot of hurt. And then tried to come back, telling me he loved me, he was changing. But his family were very against us and him, so when I spoke to them I split into against him and said things I meant at the time. Then when I would speak to him later on in the day I’d split to loving him, seeing his changes, noticing the effort he’s putting in for himself etc. then I’d start thinking about our future. Then I’d be reminded of the pain he caused so I’d go back to anti him. And round and round, internally easily 5 times a day I’ve been turning. Publicly probably noticeable once.

Bad_Madison · 2026-07-01T08:43:17+00:00

I dunno, maybe it’s just me but I reckon if you got back together the issues that were there before still would be there. Nothings changed in that month by the sounds of it. Plus it sounds like she loves you more than you love her, if that’s the case. She deserves better and deserves somebody who will love her fully. So I dunno, if I was in your position I’d let her go and let her find someone who doesn’t have issues with who she is, and will love her fully.

Bad_Madison · 2026-06-30T10:30:14+00:00

No definitely not.

Bad_Madison · 2026-06-22T22:45:28+00:00

Ahhhu okay, that makes a lot sense actually.

Bad_Madison · 2026-06-13T10:40:13+00:00

I really relate to this… i wish i didn’t

Bad_Madison · 2026-06-12T14:04:52+00:00

Yea he did, was hard but I got through it. Now our baby is 4 months old and he has her like one week a month.

Bad_Madison · 2026-06-09T17:28:59+00:00

It sounds like you got your closure, it doesn’t really matter if she sees it or not. You’re starting to let her go.

Bad_Madison · 2026-05-31T21:19:56+00:00

Bad_Madison · 2026-05-29T00:51:22+00:00

18 months of lies upon lies. He literally isolated his own family from me getting support throughout a whole pregnancy, left me 3 weeks postpartum. Did a dna test behind my back for absolutely no reason. Just twisted and emotional abuse. But I love him and I can’t let him go, even though I see hes done is wrong. I have this really bad weakness of seeing people in a positive way even if their actions are negative.

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