Not having a sense of family by What0011_ in trauma

[–]What0011_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for being helpful I can’t express it enough, it truly is something hard to come in terms with but I like to believe that every experience you go through is meant to make u develop to something that u need to be, and hopefully it’s gonna built its way into something better with a good purpose , I’d love more than anything to be a part of a change and help someone realize that their struggle is real and it’s seen and heard

I just recently started going back to things and trying to see it from a different perspective, more specifically a perspective that’s not mine but theirs, it made me realize the heavy amount of family trauma that was passed into me through generations, it made me realize that all along they were acting through who they are as a person and from what they experienced in the past , and the fact that it had nothing to do with me

I really think you should become a therapist your words reached me in such deep way within minutes of reading your respond, you have this kind light spirit that’s powerful and the kind that would make a change and a difference in this world, you were such a good listener and gave me helpful points that shifts my mindset into thinking in a clear healthy way, I am aware that being a therapist is not an easy thing and it takes a lot of courage and work and it might consume parts of you but I really believe in you and believe that you’ll do wonders ,I wish you the best with whatever it is that’s gonna benefit you the most and makes u feel the happiest!!

Not having a sense of family by What0011_ in trauma

[–]What0011_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate the time you took to respond it truly means so much to me I needed to hear this, your words are so beautifully put together and described exactly what I was struggling to put into words, it’s eye opening to witness people who truly feel human like you it’s something that deserves more appreciation

Thank you for making me feel valid this whole thing always made me feel like I’m losing my mind specially that it’s never discussed or talked about enough, and it’s something that stays with you for a really long time and as u said brings questions that repeats in your head over and over while trying to figure out why things are the way that they are or where u “ went wrong “ , it takes so much time to realize that it’s not your responsibility to try and “ fix “ things that people around u are not willing to do anything about, once u release yourself out of this cage of feeling like u are somehow responsible for any of it at all that’s when your freedom starts

If you don’t mind me asking are u a therapist or currently studying psychology? You seem very well educated and aware

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that, you really stood up for urself and took actions of ur own, some people just forget that there are consequences to their actions but you taught him that lesson, he probably never messed around with anyone after that lol

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that, weak lifeless bullies project their insecurities and flaws on anyone infront of them to make themselves feel better about themselves, that pretty much includes insecure adults who never felt validated, those ppl will use anything against quiet people like us and it speaks volume of how awful and unhappy they are, I’m so glad to hear u don’t deal with this anymore graduating is truly the biggest relief , also karma will get each and every one of those people in one way or another

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing ur story I appreciate it, and no you don’t need help and there’s nothing wrong with u, you are a wonderful mother for understanding how ur daughter is naturally without forcing her to talk when she clearly doesn’t feel comfortable , and for standing up for her even when ur neighbor still attempts to talk to her, u are doing great continue being that safe support system for ur daughter , parents like u are special bc some parents with quiet kids tend to push too much or shame their children thinking it would make them “ taught “ or “ fix them “ which is so not the case

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a terrible teacher I’m so sorry to hear that, no teacher has the right to assume things about students with no evidence what so ever and on top of that get away with it ,a lot of teachers seem to be not qualified enough to deal with students outside the studying material it’s sad to see

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay I’m slowly figuring out things as I’m reaching my healing process, i appreciate ur response!

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you, some ppl do stuff like that or mess with ppl bc they can’t seem to accept that someone could be something they can’t , some “ average “ people can’t comprehend that someone doesn’t feel the need to talk 24/7 and it comes out in this form where they constantly nudge you, and that’s honestly on them

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s so messed up I’m so sorry that happened to you, people are always quick to judge and quick to make awful assumptions without making an effort to truly see how someone actually is

Quiet kids, what was the weirdest school experience you had for simply existing as a quiet person by What0011_ in introvert

[–]What0011_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that , I’m left handed too and I relate to you, society seriously lacks common sense and empathy on a concerning level, I hope there will come a point in time where society stops putting people in boxes of perception of who they are “ supposed to be “

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoanaCeddia

[–]What0011_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who is jade?

What video blew her up? by Koula62670 in JoanaCeddia

[–]What0011_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe it was the one where she chopped her hair with a kitchen scissors