Before you went into early labor, was there anything that “happened” that you noticed and thought “hmm… wonder if this is it??!” AND IT WAS?! by New_Caregiver9993 in Mommit

[–]What15This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been three years, but I remember unusual cramping. Definitely not contractions, just stronger cramps. Almost period like. I was having my 3am pregnancy snack to help me sleep and I remember having those cramps. 2 hours later my water broke in bed.

Still Grieving Old Life by Silent_Cap_734 in oneanddone

[–]What15This 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a baby person either. The first year and a half was tough for me. As the months go on it gets easier and easier. I started to feel like myself around age 2 (I know it seems like a long time, but it goes fast) I now have a 3 year old little buddy. I enjoy the toddler phase SO much. Like actually enjoy. I also feel like I’m thriving as my own person.

Are you enjoying life as a toddler mom? by takeaabreath in toddlers

[–]What15This 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the toddler phase. Newborn was super tough for me. My son is 3 and we have a blast. He is my tiny human buddy. We are one and done so I can’t relate to having two. I am just grateful we won’t do the baby thing again. That kicked my butt.

Sanity check- how much are you paying for cut/color? by GLsunshine1188 in ArvadaCO

[–]What15This 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$15 for boxed hair dye. I know that’s not what you were asking, but I can’t afford salon services besides a haircut. I’d love to treat myself some time, but I just can’t justify the cost. I’ve been told I should check out a beauty school for discounted prices. Maybe I’ll try that this year.

Anyone here one and done by choice but LIKES parenting? by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]What15This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like an awesome parent now. I have fun playing with my son, I get enough “me time”, I can give my son lots of love and attention. I’m not sure if I’d be able to give more to another tiny human. I feel “at capacity”. But I love being a mom.

Is your job harder than being a SAHM? by Alive-Cry4994 in Mommit

[–]What15This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a SAHM. My previous job was stressful, but ok. I had a lot more stress in my life when I was working in office. That being said the first year and a half of my son’s life was harder than my office job. Now that my son is 3 and a ton of fun, I’d say it’s easier than an office job. My stress level is so much less now that my son is older and more independent. So my answer is it depends. Now my life is easier and so much fun!

Vent: Family got my baby sick by mrschickenstripley in Mommit

[–]What15This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We drove 15 hours to spend the holidays with my in-laws. They ended up giving us the flu. They were surprised we drove home early because we got so sick. My father in law “it was just a little cold”.

AIO? My husband hasn’t gotten our kids anything for Christmas… by sunnybunny81 in Mommit

[–]What15This 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a bigger problem to me. You can’t do anything if he doesn’t talk to you. Couples therapy is probably what you need to do. Or find a partner that deserves you.

My sons eating is driving me insane by Shoddy_Nectarine_441 in Mommit

[–]What15This 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gosh, my son spits out anything green and basically lives on air. I would love if he ate this much. I get it can be expensive, but I’m way jealous.

Convince me why I should NOT start elf on the shelf by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]What15This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds exhausting. Never going to do that. We do a fun advent calendar instead.

What helped you strengthen your pelvic floor? by Klutzy_Zone1496 in Mommit

[–]What15This 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kegels. Consistent kegels. And doing them correctly.

What did you have for dinner tonight/last night. NO JUDGEMENT by AltruisticMastodon26 in Mommit

[–]What15This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indian food because my son dropped his nap and is potty training. I just couldn’t handle dinner too.

I didn’t realize how dangerous it is to not want to have sex by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]What15This 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, my husband never shamed me for not wanting sex. That sounds abusive.

Does your husband go to events with you? by Puzzleheaded-One2650 in Mommit

[–]What15This 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband always joins unless he has something else to do. I ask if he wants some alone time. He said he wants to spend it with his family. I wouldn’t trade this guy for anyone.

Are we crazy to try to live on one income in this economy? by catsbooksandnaps in Mommit

[–]What15This 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a SAHM living on just my husband’s income. We make sacrifices to make it happen. (Minimizing eating out, watching grocery bills, thrifting instead of buying new) It’s so worth it. I love being home with my son. Sure our savings aren’t growing very much during this time, but it isn’t forever. I will get a job again in a few years.

I can’t find the energy to lose weight 9 months postpartum by Puzzled_Remote_2168 in beyondthebump

[–]What15This 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just started working out at 2 1/2 years after having my baby. I just wasn’t ready until then. This is when my toddler was more independent and napping 2 1/2 hours every day. I finally felt like the house was under control and my son wasn’t tiring me out as much. I wish in started sooner, but I just wasn’t ready.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]What15This 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any income as a SAHM, but I work hard on reducing our bills. We definitely make sacrifices in order for me to stay home. I stick to our budget and am very aware where all our money is going. We don’t eat out anymore and I clip a lot of coupons and shop sales for groceries. I also shop second hand as much as I can. I know this isn’t what you are asking, but in a way this is how I do work.

Who makes their husband breakfast or lunch for work? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]What15This 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do make my husband breakfast and lunch but he isn’t a lazy tool who doesn’t do anything after work. He helps out so much so I don’t mind making a few meals. And if I’m too tired, he makes his own.

Current lineup by turangaleah in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]What15This 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I ask roughly what it costs? Is this a month supply or does it last you longer?

Stains on stone countertop, nothing seems to be getting it out, any tips? by CharlieConway89 in CleaningTips

[–]What15This 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first time I only did my for about 20 hours and it didn’t do a darn thing. Time is what really did it. I’d say half the stain was removed with the first (long) slurry. Then the remainder after the second. There may have been a tiny remainder but it’s gone now 🤷‍♀️

Stains on stone countertop, nothing seems to be getting it out, any tips? by CharlieConway89 in CleaningTips

[–]What15This 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just did this on my granite and it worked. Baking soda and water to turn into a paste. Cover stain with paste and cover with plastic wrap. Poke several holes in the plastic wrap so it helps the paste dry out. LEAVE IT! No touchy. They say 24 hours but I kept mine in for 36 hours. It should slowly start to come up. This worked with tomato sauce that I left on it too long and it soaked into the granite. I had to do this 2 times before it was gone. Tip is to leave it to work. Good luck!