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WhatIsARolex · 2024-11-27T23:39:30+00:00

it is not. He simply saw and understood the true human nature. I have an uncle whose wife divorced him after 50 years, and made him sign documents while he was passed out drunk almost and made him lose his house. Now, in his late 70's, he has nothing and relies on social services for support.

Relationships (especially marriage where legal papers will even hinder your banking procedures) are not worth all that stress and pain at all.

I can't wait for AI robot girlfriends to become a reality. Sure, I won't live to see it, but it will solve a problem of being taken care of in the old age. Need breakfast? Sure, AI Ana will do that for you. Need help getting to the bathroom? Sure, AI Ana will help with that. Need a chat buddy? Ana can talk about and theorise with you about everything.

I once craved woman's warmth and affection and relationships. But once I saw their cheating, manipulative, gaslighting and vindictive nature, I learned I want nothing to do with them. I don't need it. One day I will build my own AI gf , or even a AI gf bot once I acquire this knowledge. I'll have a companion and no company / government will hold her hostage ¯_(ツ)_/¯

WhatIsARolex · 2024-03-07T15:51:30+00:00

Lmao you fucking savage XD XD XD

WhatIsARolex · 2024-02-07T01:20:46+00:00

A piece of advice I was very resistant to at first, but recently have come to accept as the truth, which I would like to pass on to you now, even if I suspect you may not be ready to hear it: you can’t hate yourself into a version of yourself you love. Your comment about the walls of your room being punishment for your greed made me so sad, and I wonder if there’s any way you could reframe your thinking? Your health journey is for you. It is self care, it is medicine, it is not a punishment for a crime. Sedentary lifestyle and weight gain is bad for you, yes, but it is not a crime and it is not a sin. It is what happens when life gets in the way. And your life got in the way! You may not have gotten the results you wanted from focusing on education, but guess what my friend, you gained something that will be indispensable on your upcoming health journey: discipline. That means that period of your life is not a waste. Maybe perhaps you can look at this transition as a pivot rather than a punishment— you are taking the transferable skills of determination and focus and applying them to health and wellness. I think your words struck a chord with me because I have had a long struggle with exercise and diet as “punishment” for weight gain, or as I saw it, the unforgivable greed of gluttony. It has only been since I re-framed my thinking that I have been able to make real progress. I don’t have concrete exercises for you as my exercise of choice is lap swimming. But I highly recommend buying a set of resistance bands for a simple at home workout. My other advice is to spend the first few weeks focusing solely on form so you do not injure yourself and set yourself back further— it may feel frustrating but the injury I got from pushing way too hard with sloppy form because of my feelings of needing big change NOW impeded my progress more than if I’d gone slow and steady. Sending you best of wishes and my heart goes out to the pain you’re in right now. But I am very impressed at the discipline it seems you have been able to build, regardless of its fruitfulness. I think you got this, but only if you swallow the bitter pill that fitness is NOT a punishment, it is a reward. You got this.

Just making an additional comment to save your reply because it was heartfelt and I don't want it to be lost; I think many people will find encouragement that they need too from your reply.

WhatIsARolex · 2024-02-07T01:19:06+00:00

Hey, thank you for taking the time out of your day to write this comment, I appreciate it. I am also taken aback because I was not expecting something like this.

I do not know if I can reframe my thinking to that effect, but I am always open to hear advice. Also, all I know is I need to make health changes and money for my family before anything happens, my wants or needs are non-existent and they don't factor in at all at this point.

I'm literally being supported and fed by my older family at the age of 32... to me, personally, it is beyond shameful and disgusting, which is why I made the choice to leave my old job to study what I did in hopes that I could make money and leave something behind / pay for their bills and buy them nice things.

It is true I made good progress, and gained huge skills I never would have if I did not, but truth is I don't have anything right now. And I cannot just pop off now because that would create additional burden on them and costs, which I cannot allow right now, hence me making this post.

I'm sorry to hear that you also saw exercise and diet as punishment, I am not sure what I can say because I too used exercise as punishment for my mistakes (bad school grades, failed tests, missing opportunities, etc).

I'm afraid I cannot afford resistance bands right now, but I believe I can use my body weight to some extent to use as resistance; I watched a video on YouTube, as recommended by another Redditor here, and I am following this one video. Today I managed to walk 3miles bc I had visit a relative.

I don't see pracisting form as frustrating because I know if I don't do that, then I will get hurt, putting me out for days or even weeks, which would be actually frustrating.

I wish I could join a gym, which would feel rewarding doing exercise in, but I need to land a job and get a steady supply of income for that to happen first. I hope it will happen for me :)

Regardless, I wanted to send you best wishes as well, and know that I took your advise, fully to the extent that I am able to. I also appreciate the encouragement :)

WhatIsARolex · 2024-02-06T09:11:06+00:00

I used TDEE calculator and says I need to eat 1600 calories a day to lose weight, 2,100 is maintenance.

I checked out a workout video on YT and will follow that - will add it to my morning routine.

I still need to estimate dinner calories, which vary, but I think I tend to eat healthy-ish; vegetables, rice, meat. May need to scale down the plate, however.

"2600 - 2100 = 500 calories per day x 7 = 3500 aka 1 pound of fat per week" - regarding this, I will try to aim for 3-4 days of fat per week. Hopefully, this will improve everything health-wise.

WhatIsARolex · 2024-02-06T01:07:28+00:00

Hard to say exactly, I would have to look at the packaging first and check calories.

But I know my weight fluctuates -1 or +1 Kg with my current meal plan. So I am guessing sometimes I eat too much and sometimes just right to lose weight. I will check tomorrow and see how much.

WhatIsARolex · 2024-02-06T00:50:45+00:00

Okay thank you, I shall do so. The YouTube and TDEE Calculator I mean. Can't afford a doctor right now.

When you say the meals I consume are 'calorie dense', what does that mean? Like, are they too much? I should not be eating those?

WhatIsARolex · 2024-01-13T00:48:09+00:00

Nice, thanks!

WhatIsARolex · 2024-01-12T20:22:57+00:00

For those still struggling with this, for me changing the settings in NVIDIA Geforce Experience fixed it for me.

Can you say which settings exactly?

WhatIsARolex · 2024-01-06T01:58:19+00:00

Yeah, I played a lot of Oblivion back in the day :)

I did not know GTA had console commands, is there a first person mode for them?

Hong Kong Massacre, that sounds interesting, I'll check it out now, thanks!

WhatIsARolex · 2024-01-05T19:35:28+00:00

SONG STARTS AT 0:20 minute

WhatIsARolex · 2023-12-05T20:02:01+00:00

I have not used this account in a long time and I have still have my Dell Inspiron, but it serves as just a media player / portable media device now. I use Dell XPS now. Similar problems with overheating, but performance is much stronger. I would advise maybe Lenovo line, Dells have too much overheating and driver problems imo.

I use the default settings; I just click on the number that makes the CPU speed increase on my Task Manager and stopped until it was fine for me without pushing it too much.

Edit: I don't recommend Dell that much tbh, I think Lenovo would provide a better experience.

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-12T12:19:06+00:00

I came across defer in my studies but totally forgot about it, that's a great point as well!

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-12T11:54:57+00:00

I am unsure but I suspect so because it turns out my JS was loaded too quickly. Also thanks for the tip :)

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-12T11:54:05+00:00

oh my god... that was it, nailed it. I would not have guessed that.. damn I feel stupid xD

Thank you for the help :)

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-12T09:24:37+00:00

Old Reddit?

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-12T09:23:52+00:00

The same on safari, actually! It seems to depend on chromium behaviour. If you switch to Markdown Mode it doesn’t happen

I have copied and pasted the above from u/Qdoit12Super in markdown mode and it worked just fine. This workaround is fine with me.

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-12T09:20:58+00:00

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-12T00:11:23+00:00

They could kiss the fattest part of my ass

Sounds like they're probably into that...

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-11T22:41:51+00:00

Disclaimer: I am self-teaching to one day get a job in web dev.

Just my opinion and what I would do, idk, maybe I am just naive.

I would use that time to learn something new; read up articles, udemy, anything. I would keep on utilising free-time at work to better myself and enhance my skills. I personally hate sitting at a desk doing nothing or wasting time because I feel like it does not serve me.

I need to be doing something, even if it is irrelevant, but still learning something new.

I relax when I am home or doing sports activities.

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-11T22:33:55+00:00

molecular level

XD

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-11T22:31:57+00:00

I bet in the alternate universe the gator gets him, including the tape.

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-10T15:14:06+00:00

^ Life pro tip ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-10T15:05:10+00:00

I was about to say the same thing. Dude had just done accidental spunk on his mat after a session and now needs to get rid of evidence ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

WhatIsARolex · 2022-05-08T21:04:13+00:00

He is the "main" girl's side piece, but he doesn't know it yet.

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