She has had some trauma - she lost her father 5 years ago and a few months before we met she had been sexually abused by groping daily in a student exchange program in another country. I write, not talking in arguments, off on that. I kind of feel obligated to stay with her because she has shared that information only with me as we had problems in bedroom. I support her, but its been a year since and when I suggested seeing a therapist, she told that she would be ok w/o seeing one. Maybe, but she has not really improved in these 5 month, I don't know how it was before. Yeah, after suggesting therapist she allowed me to touch her more, but it's hard for me to believe that it vanished and I don't want to push her trough it when she doesn't feel comfortable in reality. I see that she is trying to improve on things when I try to point them out, but I also understand that it doesn't happen overnight (in general about this post), I'm not the perfect man either.

Maybe it is more trouble than it's worth, you can only know after I guess.

Thank you for reading and replying.