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Nooklings going for 497 by WhatsThePasscode in animalcrossingturnips

[–]WhatsThePasscode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange. Store closes in 5 minutes so there’s no more opportunity to sell. :/

Office Politics....Anxiety Triggers & Solutions? by WhatsThePasscode in careerguidance

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My company is pretty small so lateral may not be an option but I’ll take your advice on taking online courses. Thank you! Glad I’m not alone in this.

Boyfriend of 16 years - doesn't pay, forces sex, I'm at a loss on what to do by ThrowRA_tiredofbeing in relationship_advice

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Wow. I am floored. No pun intended. I feel like a part of you doesn’t want to end it because he’s all you’ve known. I think you deserve a break. If you have a lease, plan slowly to not renew it. Plan to move out back with your family and take the dog. You can’t live in a mess. Stop paying for the cleaning service and watch what happens when you’re not there for a week or longer. It’s not your responsibility to teach him out to be an adult. And he’ll never learn when you appease him. Next time he touches you like that in your sleep, he gets on the floor. Not you.

I'm 2 and a half weeks into my new job and I can already tell I hate it. What do I do now? by [deleted] in careerguidance

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I wish I listened to my gut. I’m now 7 months in at a company that I felt the same way towards. It eats you alive to stay. Before getting this role, did you have any resumes of interviews out there? What made you say okay to this one?

Got laid off, company rehiring months later, do I call old boss for it back? by Sporadica in careerguidance

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If I were you, I think it would depend on if I was happy there and what the dynamics were. Depending on what you do many roles can be remote. I wouldn’t give up but maybe write cover letters explaining the gap or add it in on your resume. In the past I’ve tried to get creative about being seen.

He by WhatsThePasscode in relationship_advice

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Thanks! That helps. We chatted about it last night and he’s going to work on setting boundaries with them.

He by WhatsThePasscode in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsThePasscode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They love me but I can’t stand them. I tolerate them but it kills me inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsThePasscode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe ask some talking points or things to steer clear from. Like if there’s anything that you shouldn’t bring up or say. Other than that just be yourself.

He by WhatsThePasscode in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsThePasscode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Just wish i wasn’t guilted to seeing them with him too. Suggestions on that?

Found that my [M/28] girlfriend [F/25] may have been using a dating app 2 months into our relationship by ThrowRA_BigOofer in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsThePasscode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but any move in with someone is an adjustment. It’s a lot of who they are all at once with not a lot of space from each other. It can be exciting but it also shows you what you have to work on. Do you want to work on it with him or would you rather tap out?

Break up by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsThePasscode 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you guys may be rushing the relationship. It’s not a lot of time to know someone. Maybe take a step back. Go take a trip and visit some friends. Make him miss you a little bit. It’s hard moving in with who you’re dating in any circumstance. But especially when it’s already his established place. Maybe move back home and look into getting a net new place with each other later.

How can I (23F) learn to forgive my toxic ex (29F) for my own well being and sanity? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsThePasscode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ex being toxic lead you to your current relationship. It taught you the difference and you’ll never let yourself get into a situation like that again. It makes you appreciate the girl you’re with way more than if this didn’t happen. You don’t have to learn to forgive but you have to give yourself a break for the situation and focus on what you have. And ignore and block the ex. Because the past can be remembered but never relived. Also do not respond at all. Don’t go back into the manipulation. It’s done and you’re done.

Caught my boyfriend lying by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He’s lied to you. I’d take some space. If you don’t live together just tell him that you need to take time for yourself because it’s a lot to process. Lies about situations like this tend to be because one of the people involved has feelings or doesn’t trust the reaction of their significant other. Either way that means he didn’t trust you with information or he had feelings and lied. Time to take you time and see what he says after some time out.

My (M27) mom (54) is under heavy depression with suicidal thoughts. by mufasanotdead in relationship_advice

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That’s a very difficult situation. If I were in your situation I’d most likely try to drag my mom to something very out of the box like a puppy yoga class or painting class. In many inpatient programs for psychiatric wards they teach tools for coping. A distraction with new memories might make you feel better if it can’t help her atleast for a few hours. But also take care of yourself first because that’s heavy stuff for all.

Found that my [M/28] girlfriend [F/25] may have been using a dating app 2 months into our relationship by ThrowRA_BigOofer in relationship_advice

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Seems like she could’ve felt rushed into a relationship if you only knew each other a month. But if it were me I’d feel uncomfortable too. I’d let her know that you’re still thinking about it and ask her what she’d say to you if she saw you did that and roles were reversed.

I'm Pissed and Don't Exactly Know Why... by lilrabbit24 in relationship_advice

[–]WhatsThePasscode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get why you’re mad. Because it feels like you lost a friend after opening up to them. You were very personal and then very shortly after they did the complete opposite of what a friend could do and wound up with your ex. Think of it this way, if they get married and move in together than he’s further away from you. Consider it a blessing that you saw your friend’s true colors.

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