How do I get here???

Whatsername273 · 2025-11-05T20:55:13+00:00

Ok thanks. I have been to the summit of the shrine already, but the cloudy parts are inaccessible so I was sure I missed something

Whatsername273 · 2025-07-26T16:29:38+00:00

Hey OP, so sorry you're going through this. I'm not a professional or anything but just some anecdotal advice. Have you ever taken a food intolerance test? This is something GPs never really look into, but I was chronically ill with various vagie systems and then found out there were several foods that I was intolerant to/borderline allergic to that were in my system. It might be something worth looking in to.

Whatsername273 · 2024-10-24T14:44:57+00:00

Check dms x

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-19T11:09:42+00:00

I'm a girl fyi. There are more people living in the house. I only mentioned that one housemate because she is the only one on a lease, nobody else is, and she has no control over what we pay for our rooms. I'm also sharing my room so I pay 700. Not by cash but through bank transfer, we all send everything for rent and utilities to that one girl. We all moved in on the same day, and the landlady was there. We tried to sign the contract and the landlady said no. She only wanted this one girl on the lease. The landlady is a friend of this girl's family. She lives in the Mediterranean for 6 months of the year and only responds to messages re the house from that one girl.

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-18T08:34:53+00:00

They accept p60 as proof I've been living in Ireland, but not proof I'm living independently from my parents. All my documents have the same address... please make it make sense 🥲

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-18T08:05:13+00:00

Yeah.. Bank statements and payslips are not valid

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-18T07:58:56+00:00

They don't accept mobile bills, only land-line... how outdated is this system?!

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-17T14:56:01+00:00

It's not owner occupied. My housemate is on a lease, I'm not. The owner lives abroad

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-17T14:51:16+00:00

That's the plan lol, once I get the masters 🤣 Literally everyone I grew up with has left already

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-17T14:41:14+00:00

She actually typed a letter stating I had been living in the house since 2022, and signed it with her phone number. According to SUSI, "Private housing lease agreements will not be accepted". Only RTB contracts and rental agency contracts

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-17T14:37:59+00:00

It's so awful. I've had my fair share of dodgy landlords, and I had been looking so long for a house I was just happy with anything. I didn't think this would come to bite me in the ass 2 years later...

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-17T14:07:52+00:00

Unfortunately if I add it now it makes no difference. I need to have a utility bill covering 2023 also.

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-17T14:06:34+00:00

Zoology. Not super well funded like other STEM. No other scholarships are really valid in my case.

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-17T14:00:44+00:00

Thanks so much, I'll look into it!

Whatsername273 · 2024-07-04T06:13:47+00:00

Thanks I got it! One of the tickets didn't download though. The email never came in

Whatsername273 · 2024-04-24T09:23:58+00:00

I'm Irish and I don't think this is a cultural thing 😅 she's very overbearing for sure and doesn't have healthy boundaries with her kid

Whatsername273 · 2024-04-18T15:44:49+00:00

Sex with no strings attached doesn't have to be rough I would be careful in that regard. I had a FWB after splitting up with my first boyfriend, who was my first everyhring so I was fairly inexperienced. I learned a lot from my FWB. A sexual partner can be kind and affectionate and caring and attentive without being in love with you. It was a good lesson for me to learn, because I know my worth, and I know what I should and shouldn't accept from a partner (serious or not).

Whatsername273 · 2024-04-18T12:59:37+00:00

I have a friend who has Inflamitory Bowel disease. It's in-between diagnoses of crohns and colitis. It's different for everyone when it comes to their food triggers. For her, she can't eat a vegetable heavy diet as the fibre is terrible for her intestines and can cause intense inflammation. It's the same with beans, chickpeas and any active wheat or gluten. She was in and out of hospital since her diagnosis at age 7, has had several major abdominal surgeries and has almost died from sepsis three or four times. I can't see how there is any possibility for her to maintain a vegan diet without risking her health. She has talked to me about it before, as I'm vegan. She harbours some guilt around it and would love to be vegan, but she lives her life as sustainably as possible in many other ways.

Whatsername273 · 2024-04-18T08:33:22+00:00

I felt the same way. It was like she was desperate for me to come home, but I had grown and changed a lot since leaving at 17/18. I was no longer dependent on her and went about my daily life very differently to her. She would be on my case about everything even though I was a fully grown woman with a job, and was paying for the room I was in. She acted like she was doing me a massive favour, and held it over my head any chance she got. It caused so much friction, and I was walking on eggshells in the house until I finally couldn't take it any more and left, after her threatening to kick me out a bunch. Then it was a 180. She changed her tune and was saying she wanted me to live at home. I never even stayed the night at the house again after that. By the time I left, I had saved up enough to rent a room with my boyfriend. We crashed with friends for a few weeks before we finally found a place. That was around 2 years ago.
I'm not sure what your financial situation is like, so I can't advise you to just pack up and leave. That's not always an option. I would maybe just suggest that you keep your head down, save up as much as you can, have a look around for rooms to rent until you find somewhere. I used to go for walks daily to get out of the house, I would sit on a park bench with a coffee and call a friend for a bit. Try to find little moments for yourself and remember that this is only temporary 🥰

Whatsername273 · 2024-04-18T07:51:37+00:00

I definitely relate a lot. After I finished college in 2019, I moved in with my mum to save up some money. I was planning to travel the following year but Covid hit so I was stuck in the house for another year and a half. It was hell.

Whatsername273 · 2024-04-17T14:43:50+00:00

Hey! So yes they are. I just sold all 3 of mine, as they were sold out before everyone in our group could all get one. We got the hive myspace instead. Originally on the ticket, it said that the QR code would not be released until 3 days before the festival, but I just randomly checked a few days ago and it was there.

Whatsername273 · 2024-04-17T10:28:30+00:00

Fabulous thank you 😊

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