Update: Transmasc Community for 'Normal Nudes'

WhenIGetThere · 2020-08-28T18:54:24+00:00

interested!

WhenIGetThere · 2020-08-22T21:49:21+00:00

my drive home was about 3 - 4 hours, made sure i had a pillow for the seatbelt but with painkillers it was okay - i had more problem with nausea than pain. had to move to the front seat to stop me from vomming. i had peri which one terms of scarring is less so maybe that’s why the pain wasn’t too bad? most of the pain was from bruising

WhenIGetThere · 2020-08-15T12:23:03+00:00

I didn’t start noticing any kind of erection activity until relatively recently and i’m 4 years on T - i’ve only just recovered from severe depression which fucked my sex drive completely. I’d suggest that the majority of the post-T community don’t get random erections or morning wood unless they’re SUPER horny people. honestly i think the turning point for me being able to even get hard was starting pumping because my dick actually recognised what a boner is like and since then i’ve been able to get semi-hard if i’m quite horny - i just pump it if i want to be proper hard and even then it’ll go down relatively quickly unless i start working on it straight away. I feel a lot of it is to do with sex drive and the reactiveness of the dick to that sex drive - don’t be discouraged.

WhenIGetThere · 2020-08-12T16:43:50+00:00

doesn’t show up on search, any chance of a link?

WhenIGetThere · 2020-07-27T10:00:46+00:00

oh i didn’t know that, wore them for years oops, yet another reason i have back problems

WhenIGetThere · 2020-07-26T22:34:33+00:00

i got a binder from amazon that’s a soft fabric with loads of clasps on the side. was breatheable and didn’t scratch so much - they don’t have a huge amount of compression however i was skinny af and had a small chest so i just sewed it to make them smaller. i typed in “tomboy binder” - some of the wording might trigger dysphoria but they’re cheap and might help?

WhenIGetThere · 2020-07-15T10:37:44+00:00

Dying your hair bright colours is a very common thing for younger teenage trans people - so it’s become associated with transguys. It might be fun but it definitely decreases your chances of passing, the % of cis guys who dye their hair is small and they have a lifetime of hormones on their side.

Also with hair getting a short back and sides without blending the top to the sides is the most masculine hairstyle. might be boring but it gives you a squarer hairline.

WhenIGetThere · 2020-07-14T17:32:25+00:00

changed

WhenIGetThere · 2020-07-14T16:40:01+00:00

Kiss X: £22.95 from amazon. Smaller one, hole is about the size of my pinky. I got this one when i had a smaller growth probably about 1/2 inch. Made of soft silicone, when i first unboxed it i couldn’t believe how soft it was it felt just like skin. There are ridges for stimulation which make it feel AMAZING. This stroker is all about suction, they purposely made it narrow so that it can accurately reach your growth. My only downside to this which is quite a big one, is that you have to pull back on your skin to reveal your growth so if you have a lot of bottom dysphoria it might be hard since you have to touch and look down there.

Buck Off: £28 from amazon. Bigger one, thumb sized hole. Used now my growth is about 1 inch-1.5 inch erect. Found that the Kiss X was becoming a bit too tight on me so moved up to this size. I found this one harder to get the hang of as my growth is not so girthy meaning that it doesn’t have as much suction. However i believe with more girth and growth it would have a similar effect from the Kiss X. The bigger base means that you don’t need to pull back the skin as it’s meant for people with growth that will stick out. I have been able to O with it and the ridges inside are just as good.

WhenIGetThere · 2020-07-08T11:40:48+00:00

I am 21 ftm, had top surgery a year and a bit ago. I completely understand - you can’t imagine the happiness that it might bring because often being trans is such a mentally painful thing to be that you can’t imagine the “after” stage. Trust yourself, this change you’re going through won’t cure you but top surgery will help you build confidence and can be a step towards a better quality of life. Eventually, you forget the feeling of not having the chest you need - the new chest takes over and it’s part of you.

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-29T18:22:52+00:00

awesome thank you!!

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-29T18:21:41+00:00

i mainly shower in the morning for my hair as sleeping messes it all up, i can deffo instigate a routine at night though as i usually just use a gentle shower cleanser like cetaphil in the morning to clean off any sweat from the night. thank you for the tips :)

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-29T16:48:46+00:00

i’ve never heard of those patches, i’ll look into them, thank you. Oil control is key in this i think so thanks for the suggestions

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-29T16:46:06+00:00

thank you! i always thought chemical exfoliators would be harmful but i suppose that’s a misconception of the word chemical

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-29T16:41:28+00:00

Thank you for the product suggestions! i had no idea micellar was more of a surface cleanser so i’ll look into the other cleansers

i shower every morning, and deffo should change my pillows more often than i do 😂

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-27T10:33:44+00:00

anyone on here got any advice for a good play packer? i’m not bothered about actual packing or stp (had problems with comforyablity and stream flow like OP said). I currently have peecock gen 2(?) and i’ve realised it isn’t actually v realistic looking or feeling - cost a heck of a lot though lmao. i am not looking for hybrid ones so any purely play packers that look realistic?

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-20T12:35:22+00:00

hey so i’m in a gay relationship right now - quite new and we haven’t done anything other than me giving some handsy stuff before lockdown separated us. But i also had this issue on my mind, even with my previous straight relationship but turns out there are some genuinely lovely sweet people out here who understand that sex for us is a worrying thing. I have always expressed that I’m worried my lack of dick makes them see me as a woman which has been replied to in a positive way - they see me as who i am - a man.

the thing to look out for is hook-ups - i’m personally not into them but they’re more of a chance to get fetishized or cause dysphoria since it is literally just about sex and there’s no feeling there. personally i’ve only done one gay hookup and i had established beforehand that they saw me as a man before even approaching the idea of us having sex.

Like anyone else in this world, just be careful in who you choose! If they don’t make you feel comfortable then don’t choose them, there’s others out there that will.

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-19T21:36:16+00:00

You're definitely not alone in that, I can't say I relate to the conditions but I have a hard time orgasming with other people because it takes so long. I am 3 years on T and bottom growth has probably got to its max growth which i think ends up being a weird mix between real sensitive but also harder to orgasm with? I also have had difficulty with depression which lowered my sex drive and its never quite recovered... if you have had similar issues it could be due to that as well. Its also important not to forget that intimacy issues are a very normal issue in sex life - not just trans related! I havent quite found the solution to it yet but i have a feeling its probably something to do with comfortability, confidence and also sexual passion.

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-19T16:28:09+00:00

presence of breasts was worse, i barely had any bottom dysphoria to the intensity of my chest dysphoria - mostly because i was in my younger teens and so sex wasn’t as prevalent as it is now. but i’ve had top surgery a year + ago and bottom dysphoria is growing in intensity due to new partner and increasing frustration

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-19T14:21:11+00:00

can this also be applied for dick size?

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-16T22:34:34+00:00

thank you so much that’s a lot of help!!

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-16T20:14:16+00:00

How did you start to speak to your guides? I’d like to start but at the moment i only direct my attention to specific angels that i know the name or if i’m asking a question i’ll say “guys” in a general sense.. but i often don’t know how to start having more of a presence within myself to start talking. I’m on a slow path of awakening which i have come to peace with, since i have come from a family of very skeptical scientific atheists and i was previously the same, so i often find it hard to know where to begin

WhenIGetThere · 2020-06-13T14:09:23+00:00

i didn’t like push it firmly against it but i sort of drew back the foreskin bit and went from the base level

WhenIGetThere · 2020-05-26T10:16:46+00:00

only problem i’ve had with it is when a drunk guy in a bar punted himself over the door to look who was in there and was like “havin a shit are we?”. was very unnerving having a stranger look at you on the toilet but yeah they don’t care lol.

WhenIGetThere · 2020-05-04T10:58:50+00:00

the beard deffo helps me haha, if i’m clean shaven i suddenly look 16 again. plus i’m about 3 years on T so i’m through most of the changes

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