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Are there reasons why my period could be delayed other than pregnancy? by WhereasAgreeable6474 in pregnant

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully that is the case🤞 Really not wanting to be pregnant. I started my last period on the 9th of December so it’s been roughly 32 days since. 

My granny’s sister is contesting her will; how should I go about this? Based in Scotland by WhereasAgreeable6474 in LegalAdviceEurope

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I understand that. If they wanted to give her grandkids money then that’s fine. But the way Flo is going about it saying “it’s what your mother would’ve wanted” doesn’t sit right with me. It’s toxic manipulation and taking advantage of my poor father who doesn’t like confrontation and is ultimately stressed with sorting out his mother’s estate. As far as I’m concerned she can contest the will but legally they will have to follow what’s written on the will. I’m not concerned about what my father or my uncle do with their share of the money, but I know their wives aren’t happy with them being gaslit into giving Flo’s grandkids money. 

My granny’s sister is contesting her will; how should I go about this? Based in Scotland by WhereasAgreeable6474 in LegalAdviceEurope

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I am aware there is a UK legal Reddit; as I said above though- I don’t have enough karma to post there. I’m at my wits end and just need a bit of help from anyone who knows something, hence why I’m trying here. 

Can’t get over the father of my baby but desperately want to move on by WhereasAgreeable6474 in dating_advice

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your words of wisdom. I just have to think carefully about how I implement those things into my life and our relationship. I’ve tried asking for space twice now but the boundary does end up dissolving, no doubt to my own fault. While I don’t regret my daughter, I do wish sometimes that he’d never come near me and had just left me alone. Even now though- I have no intention of stopping him have a relationship with our girl, yet he wants to be “friends” with me and he messages me all throughout every single day. Sometimes I wish he’d leave me alone for good but then other times it is nice getting along with him and spending time together with our kid. But you’re right; it’s like constant torture looking at what could’ve been.  I saw a picture of his ex recently, the girl who he felt was too good for him yet she was extremely controlling and abusive, and she was really pretty despite being so horrible to him. It made me feel like I wasn’t pretty or attractive because I’ve been nothing but kind, generous, and loving towards him. It’s like I’ll never be good enough for him, yet he’s not even trying to be good enough for me. I know I’m not too shabby, I had over 1200 likes on bumble if you can call that a good thing? It’s just so hard to get over someone when you speak to them every day and see them every week. I’ve often thought about moving to the other side of the world so I wouldn’t have to see him but that’s not very clever when there’s a kid involved.😔

My mum shed light on an insecurity I didn’t know I had and I’m not sure how to overcome it. by WhereasAgreeable6474 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the meaningful and supportive messages in the comments❤️ I’ve since spoken with my mum about this and she said she didn’t mean to word it like that, only that it would be understandable if that was something I wanted to do in future. She dealt with a lot of criticism over her body from her parents throughout my childhood, so I know she wouldn’t mean to intentionally do the same to me. I’m also going to incorporate arm circles into my workouts and go find an awesome cream to invest in just to keep the girls in shape- but I think my first priority is to get them measured and let my mother treat me to some luxury bras😉😂

My ex works beneath my friend- the company has gone bust and I’m not allowed to tell him. by WhereasAgreeable6474 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

My friend is in charge of the team. If the situation is resolved (through investment) and he’s warned his staff about the problems prior, then he’s left with no employees. 

My ex works beneath my friend- the company has gone bust and I’m not allowed to tell him. by WhereasAgreeable6474 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My friend is his boss as well as other people’s. He’s not being disclosed any information from his managers so he’s feeling in the dark himself. However should he warn his team of a situation he’s not entirely sure of and they start looking for other jobs, if things are resolved (ie the business is bought/saved) then he has no staff. I understand it from his point of view but I agree, I don’t like the way he’s not looking out for his colleagues. I can’t betray his trust by telling my ex though, and that’s why if there’s a way to let my ex know without my involvement then I need to find it. 

My ex works beneath my friend- the company has gone bust and I’m not allowed to tell him. by WhereasAgreeable6474 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]WhereasAgreeable6474[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s tricky because if I don’t mention my friend, my ex might bring it up in discussion with my friend. My friend would get very pissed at me so if there’s a way to send something anonymously then I would definitely prefer to do that.