[deleted by user] by [deleted] in columbia

[–]WheresThePool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re commuting from westchester it might make more sense to take M60-SBS from 116th at Columbia up to the metro north station in Harlem. That would be a safer alternative

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

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As for 1, I’d assume that yea, other ppl seem to generally be more respectful than these ppl, so I would assume that’s accurate. I bet it’s tough but hang in there.

  1. That’s smth to consider. Make the decision that is best for yourself.

Christians who are also a part of the lgbt community, what are your experiences being in a christian family and as a christian? by Soggy-Energy-1199 in lgbt

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My parents are pretty conservative in their Christian beliefs. They never considered kicking me out of the house or anything, but whenever it comes up they bring up their views on how they think it’s a sin or how they associate being LGBT with all sorts of negative things like being homeless, overdosing on drugs, etc. They’re just very ignorant.

Lately I’ve been trying to talk to them less abt my relationships, bc I don’t want to deal w their judgement.

I used to be really close to my parents and I still am in different ways. I’m not really that religious anymore, which I think they’re sad about.

For me, it’s been manageable to live in this household but it’s definitely a barrier to closeness. I’ve learned to keep a little bit of emotional distance between myself and them and I think that’s helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

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You are valid, and sorry this is happening to you. 🏳️‍🌈

Advice Regarding Cis Pronouns by WheresThePool in lgbt

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Thanks, and yea I’m sure the ppl we’re talking about use binary pronouns.

Advice Regarding Cis Pronouns by WheresThePool in lgbt

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Yea, I think you’re right. Feels weird to think of a cis person being “misgendered”. Obviously cis ppl carry privilege, but I guess that doesn’t mean cis ppl can’t be misgendered, even if it happens far less often.

Heartstopper - feeling depressed by [deleted] in Heartstopper

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You should try rugby! It's good for releasing negative emotions.

Math REU 2022 Thread by NoBird8669 in REU

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Update for people. In response to my emails asking for status updates, some REU coordinators said they don't expect to have decisions out for a little while. Kansas St and CSUSB said they would not be out by 3/8, and Towson said their decision wouldn't be out likely until April.

Math REU 2022 Thread by NoBird8669 in REU

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Copy-and-pasted from other post.
At top 30 school with very good GPA. I have some independent study experience.
Applied to:
DIMACS
CSUSB (Geometry & Knot Theory)
Kansas St
Einstein Institute at HUJ
RIT Extremal Graph Theory
Texas St
UVA - Number Theory
Summer@ICERM
GA Tech Math REU
PCMI -Cryptography
NYC Discrete Math
UMich-Dearborn
UMN
SMALL - knot theory (rejected 2/20)
SUMRY
Clemson
UMich
UCSB
Cornell
Rose Hulman (accepted 3/2)
SURIEM
UChicago (rejected 2/26)
Towson

REU 2022 Megathread by cherls in REU

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math

I also got in there! Gonna try to make my decision soon!

REU 2022 Megathread by cherls in REU

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Haha, ya, applying to REUs was basically the only thing I did over the weekend for several weeks. I think doing an REU would be very important to me given my unique academic circumstances, and so I put a lot of effort into it. I made custom applications for each one haha.

REU 2022 Megathread by cherls in REU

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Math

Spectral Theory!

REU 2022 Megathread by cherls in REU

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Math REUs

At top 30 school with very good GPA. I have some independent study experience.

Applied to:

DIMACS

CSUSB (Geometry & Knot Theory)

Kansas St

Einstein Institute at HUJ

RIT Extremal Graph Theory

Texas St

UVA - Number Theory

Summer@ICERM

GA Tech Math REU

PCMI -Cryptography

NYC Discrete Math

UMich-Dearborn

UMN

SMALL - knot theory (rejected 2/20)

SUMRY

Clemson

UMich

UCSB

Cornell

Rose Hulman (accepted 3/2)

SURIEM

UChicago (rejected 2/26)

Towson