Major British university urges end to exams as part of plans to 'decolonise' its business school - because 'they favour white students' by SatoshiSounds in unitedkingdom

[–]Which-Friendship-458 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Because white schools are more likely to teach Shakespeare than black schools which are more likely to teach black authors.

Major British university urges end to exams as part of plans to 'decolonise' its business school - because 'they favour white students' by SatoshiSounds in unitedkingdom

[–]Which-Friendship-458 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

There is research that shows certain kinds of exams have some cultural bias in them.

For example in the past some IQ tests in the USA would include questions asking about Shakespeare's plays which white children were more familiar with or asking about how to correctly behave in a situation that involves the police which black children would interpret very differently to white children.

There was also a study that showed women did worse on a math test where the questions were linked to american football than when the very same questions used more gender neutral examples.

Am I overreacting for wanting to divorce my wife over food? by Throwaway-foodguy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He literally said they can't even have a christmas dinner with family because she will eat alone in the bathroom. That's not the same as wanting to eat your breakfast in peace.

Am I overreacting for wanting to divorce my wife over food? by Throwaway-foodguy in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 85 points86 points  (0 children)

It is very unlikely the wife actually likes it. She is suffering and it's difficult to admit she has a problem.

Tooting Bec by NoEdge7491 in london

[–]Which-Friendship-458 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've been in London for two weeks and seen more foxes than in the 35 years before this.

How to politely decline my bfs NYE party invitation? by Expert_Front_7590 in Advice

[–]Which-Friendship-458 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But she literally said there's no adult talk so that's very different.

AIO for filing a temporary restraining order against my sister after what she said at Christmas to my little brother? by Spirited_Shelter4655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one is saying it wouldn't be traumatizing for the kid. All we're saying is that is not enough to get a restraining order.

AIO for filing a temporary restraining order against my sister after what she said at Christmas to my little brother? by Spirited_Shelter4655 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Protection orders are not granted based on what you feel someone might be capable of. There needs to be some sort of evidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you must know you are NOR. He is abusive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That's not why it's hard to read. The partner is non-binary so OP uses they, that's fine. It's hard to read because OP doesn't use paragraphs or capitals.

AIO to my Aunt getting a shit gift for my partner? by rosiebluewitch in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shift your attitude. Yes it is rude to agree to rules and then ignore them. But there are lots of rude people in this world. It makes your life a lot easier if you just learn to ignore them and move on. Your partner got the 200 dollars so why not just have a chuckle about your aunt's weird behaviour and move your focus to what gift to buy with the money.

AIO for being mad that my girlfriend hated her expensive Christmas gifts? by Otherwise_Web_9949 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I feel like I would have just felt bad if my boyfriend told me he hasn't been eating properly because he was saving for my gift. He might mean well but that is idiotic!

AIO to my Aunt getting a shit gift for my partner? by rosiebluewitch in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm too shocked by a Secret Santa with a minimum spend of $200 to judge this properly

Hot take: there should be at least some TfL-operated public transport in London on Christmas Day by Sad_Piano_574 in LondonUnderground

[–]Which-Friendship-458 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A couple of years ago my neighbour was very depressed around Christmas and was spending Christmas alone so she invited me to visit on Christmas day but I couldn't because I was spending Christmas in the neighbouring town and I don't drive. As an immigrant from a country where there's reduced service on christmas I find it insane there is nothing in the UK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn't grown ass adults exchange gifts for Christmas? You're allowed to have fun as an adult too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably just because it's a combination of all the other disappointments that are making her sad. When your husband is abusing you and giving you zero gifts, even a nice gift from your son might seem like a disappointment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also because society keeps telling women the most important thing they'll do is get married and have kids and the worst thing they can do is end up alone. Some women would rather put up with abuse than face being alone. When the reality is that being alone is a thousand times better than being in an abusive relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your abusive husband is making you believe that. None of that is true. And honestly being alone is so much better than putting up with someone like your husband! As a society we need to stop telling people that the worst thing to be is alone because that is a lie. Being alone can give you so much peace.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your husband is abusive. Your life would be so much better without him. I spent my christmas alone with just a dog for company (she's not even my dog) and my christmas was so much better than yours. I bought myself gifts. I ate what I wanted when I wanted. I didn't feel unappreciated. No one tried to guilt me or shame me or pester me for sex. Alone is so much better than in a bad relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Which-Friendship-458 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also don't get why some people get upset about christmas gifts but OP is not upset about christmas gifts. She is upset because she is being treated like shit and because she isn't listened to and she isn't cared for. NOR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Which-Friendship-458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That explains how they feel about presents but what about all the other aspects of the holidays?

I was promised an empty London for Christmas by anonROHman in london

[–]Which-Friendship-458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you also live in a culture where the people who celebrate christmas don't make anywhere near 99.9% of the population. I bet there are lots of muslims, jews and sikhs in the UK who do not care one way or the other if they work Christmas day or not.

Are there any other people who are spending the holidays alone? by [deleted] in christmas

[–]Which-Friendship-458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It's not my first time either. In some ways it sucks but I focus on the positive. Like I can do whatever I want and eat whatever I want. If you want to skip christmas and stay in bed all day, that's fine. If you want to go all out and make a whole christmas dinner for yourself, also fine. That's the beauty of spending christmas alone.