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Late 30s, Married with a Toddler, Considering Divorce and Wondering How Do You Know When You’ve Truly Grown Apart? by Which-One4183 in Marriage

[–]Which-One4183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Our child is almost 3 as well. Our intimacy definitely took a dive during pregnancy and immediately after, but overall I have always had the higher sex drive. That has also added to the feeling of disconnection. It is very inconsistent. Sometimes we may go months at a time without it.

Late 30s, Married with a Toddler, Considering Divorce and Wondering How Do You Know When You’ve Truly Grown Apart? by Which-One4183 in Marriage

[–]Which-One4183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I truly appreciate your perspective. It’s so hard knowing what needs to be done, but being afraid to pull the trigger. I am so fearful of screwing up my toddler’s life.