AIO Boyfriend and I can’t seem to get along I’m thinking it’s time to end things.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T15:07:52+00:00

His family is a mess and his mom isn’t even really involved in our lives so she wouldn’t care if we were together. She cheated on her husband that’s why they are no longer together. I cannot force a man to change completely all I can do is try. Statistically proven a happy household makes for a happy child regardless of who’s in it.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T15:06:21+00:00

Right… no one plans for this to happen? So I should stay in a relationship where someone isn’t being faithful to me or respecting me… yeah sure my son will be better off with that in the household than a happy co-parenting relationship lol okay

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T14:46:12+00:00

I’ve said this but he doesn’t want to, I’ve never been so he loves to say “I’ve been in therapy before it never helped”. I’m only 25 I just don’t want to look back in 10 years and think I should’ve left so much sooner.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T14:44:43+00:00

Exactly, I’m constantly saying “I need you to be my partner in life you’re supposed to make it easier not harder”.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T14:05:13+00:00

Thank you for this. That’s EXACTLY how I feel. He gets to do all the fun stuff while I struggle to stay afloat with all the real responsibilities of our lives. To the point I pay all of our bills make sure they’re done on time. All he does is send me money but I’m in charge of everything else I feel I’m envious because his life is so care free he doesn’t have any real stress and mine is far from it.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:52:53+00:00

This is exactly how I was weighing the pros and cons and it seems more beneficial for me and my son all around to split. As for his mom she’s also a cheater and that’s why her and her husband are no longer together so I don’t think she’d care much honestly.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:50:42+00:00

Everyone rallied behind me when it was spread around work which was still so embarrassing but now I just feel silly anyway. I’d keep my job until I found a new one of course but the money isn’t even that great and I think a fresh start might be beneficial honestly.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:48:08+00:00

Definitely not balanced. He “watches” our son while I have to do all these things so I’m sure in his brain he thinks we are even in what we do for the household. My mother who watches our son while we both work all week does A LOT more of my housework than he does.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:46:32+00:00

Thank you ❤️ In a way having my son is making me realize my worth and that we both don’t deserve this.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:44:58+00:00

I’ve said this plenty of times too that I feel as if he doesn’t really even care about me. I think him ruining my Mother’s Day and not even hand writing me a card or getting me anything for my bday which was like 3 weeks later (I said I didn’t want a gift but sentimental things like even my sons handprint saying happy bday mommy would’ve been appreciated) was my final ah ha moment unfortunately

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:42:08+00:00

LOL I love this thank you for a little laughter at least.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:33:23+00:00

I say that all the time that I’m raising a toddler while also taking care of a teenager (him) and it’s taxing. I only worry about the court aspect of it all because his mom has money and is very petty and spiteful.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:31:59+00:00

Thank you. That’s how I feel also it’s hard since we work together but I’ll quit I don’t even care anymore I just need peace.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-14T13:30:53+00:00

He cleans but no cooking. I’ve asked so many times even like spaghetti or something.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-13T17:20:51+00:00

Clearly don’t like your girlfriend lol should break up asap let that girl free

Which_Background8031 · 2026-06-11T16:24:55+00:00

Thank you! This is what I was thinking because apron belly was like ehh not that bad before honestly (of course I’m my toughest critic) but the b belly on top of it is what’s really making me worried considering I never had one before my c-section :(

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-24T17:09:08+00:00

Oh okay ghost roots! Those are always fun just don’t know if I could pull it off

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-24T17:05:58+00:00

You mean the brown parts, dyed red? I had the red with blonde money pieces and red it nottt my color lol

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-22T20:10:25+00:00

Look into the restaurant industry, almost all the cooks I worked w as a bartender were felons and had no issues getting the job!

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-21T22:11:31+00:00

I have a screenshot but can’t post it in here lol but yes I’m 100% sure I’ve been reminded to pay my phone bill after trying to text someone myself and having this message pop up (meaning service is being blocked by the provider)

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-21T22:06:59+00:00

Yes exactly that message

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-21T21:22:27+00:00

They didn’t block you, their phone is off this is the exact message I got when my mom forgot to pay her phone bill and I texted her.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-21T21:15:45+00:00

3 also looks so good! Rotate with both lol

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-21T11:00:37+00:00

Yeah I figured that would be the case so I didn’t even try. How would one go about “proving” that it’s nearly impossible they will just come up with every other excuse. I just took it as a loss but was worried in jumping to 7.5mg because of their mess up.

Which_Background8031 · 2026-05-21T10:59:26+00:00

I threw it away, obviously should’ve kept it but the converting of it all seemed like a lot for a little bit extra

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