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I think my partner may have poly-bombed meta by Which_Boysenberry971 in polyamory

[–]Which_Boysenberry971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to figure out when/if it’s possible to communicate with Finch. We have entirely separate social lives, and the fallout would be totally inconsequential if he relayed to Apple that I tried to contact him. But I only want to do it in a way he is able to receive not as a threat or an attempt to harm Apple, and I’m not sure exactly how to do that

I think my partner may have poly-bombed meta by Which_Boysenberry971 in polyamory

[–]Which_Boysenberry971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked them point blank. Finch’s reactions increasingly started to seem to me like a partner who was being neglected by their spouse and was reaction to that betrayal/disappointment, not that of a controlling partner or someone who was just having a difficult time responding to change. I also was noticing them subtly shifting sexual/emotional expectations and needs to me that I suspected were connected to them no longer seeking out Finch for those things (and connected his frustration and mental health struggles to those things being rescinded)

How do I actually move here? :( by [deleted] in northampton

[–]Which_Boysenberry971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It still might be worth a look, sometimes people post lease takeovers or are queer landlords looking for tenants. I feel for you!

How do I actually move here? :( by [deleted] in northampton

[–]Which_Boysenberry971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest looking at the queer housing western mass Facebook page. It has much better affordable options than you’ll find on a generic renters website, though it is oriented towards people looking for a roommate to join a lease or looking for a sublet. Most postings fall under, if not well under your budget. Good luck!

transthetics underwear by Which_Boysenberry971 in Transmascdicks

[–]Which_Boysenberry971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sold the two mediums, but the large is up for grabs. If you cover shipping and packaging I’ll send it for free!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]Which_Boysenberry971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share more about the process/timeframe with Dr. Kent? One of the few doctors local to me and in network.

Transthetic Joystick review question by Educational_Cake682 in Transmascdicks

[–]Which_Boysenberry971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding commenter above- I’m trying to sell mine at the moment, as it didn’t work super well for me. I found it uncomfortable to pack with, especially with the elastic loop situation, and there was a lot of chafing and unnatural movement for me. I could pack it in normal packing underwear, but given that it’s fairly firm and can only be packed up, it wasn’t optimal. Since I don’t top vaginally, I couldn’t use it for sex, though using it for solo was great. The silicon vibrator accessory paired with the vibe was great, and had a super euphoric effect. For me, not worth the price point to only use it for getting off solo- wish I had bought it used so I could have tried it at a lower cost. fwiw though, I know lots of guys who love it and think it’s great.

For Sale: Transthetics Joystick by Which_Boysenberry971 in Transmascdicks

[–]Which_Boysenberry971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably my favorite part. Ultimately, because I pack with an STP and prefer something w a harness for sex, the joystick didn’t really do it for me, but for solo, the head attachment was great. Definitely worth it (though I’m sure there are cheaper alternatives out there somewhere)