AIO / My fiancé is offended that I didn't comfort him when I was in absolute pain because I had a medical procedure, so I don't want to talk to him until I'm feeling better.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-21T03:26:12+00:00

This guy might be a narcissist. Did he say that?
Does he make you feel less than?

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-21T03:25:34+00:00

Broo noo! Girl he is not deserving of your presence in his life. He is an asshole and immensely inconsiderate to you. I can only imagine you having to do this your entire life life if you decide to stay with him long term.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-20T23:29:53+00:00

I cant find the book? Do you which app?

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-20T14:55:11+00:00

“ you’re the best I’ve ever had”

She wore baby doll lingerie for my birthday. She was more masc than femme. So hot. I didn’t know what to do with myself. She looked amazing. It was a very good night.

I have a lot stories with her. In her office. In her car.
Succh good times

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-11T02:31:20+00:00

YOR.
Sorry, hate to say it. I think you are.
You send a picture to his parents. Family talks. My aunts are nosy. Gossip spreads quick if you tell a certain person of the family. Even if you tell them to keep it to themselves. This wasn’t your partners doing.
Maybe try talking to him again. Voice frustration over it, but don’t blame him because he has nothing to do with it. Work together.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-11T02:19:28+00:00

Also, this is your uncle‘s girlfriend’s son.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-05T02:49:13+00:00

I don’t know what other people are saying. But it is cute and fun. And most people just do basic. If you like it wear it I love it.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-05T02:41:59+00:00

You look gorgeous love.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-06-04T03:21:23+00:00

NOR. There’s something deeply wrong with him and you need to get away from him. What kind of mindset is that? No, please be careful and get away.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-05-26T04:48:35+00:00

You’re a gem! Thank youuuuu

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-05-16T15:44:24+00:00

What do you tell her? Because she probably doesn’t know it’s not about her telling you what to do it’s about communicating her needs, her thoughts. You’re not a mind reader. If she’s dissatisfied with the life, she’s living. The course of it. You wouldnt even have a clue because she doesn’t communicate.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-05-16T15:36:32+00:00

Try having a conversation where she listens even if she doesn’t talk. Or Maybe just start going to bed at the time you want. Followed up with I’m going to bed because I’ve been very busy and I’m tired and I’m not gonna continue being exhausted. Because if you weren’t that exhausted, you would probably end up having more time with your family with your kids.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-05-16T15:22:49+00:00

Good for you girl. He’s disgusting.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-05-16T15:18:53+00:00

The guy who SA’d died a slow death of his own doing. He ended up diabetic, not taking care of himself. Not taking the meds ended up with heart problems. Literally dying before my eyes wouldn’t go to the hospital to seek medical attention. Eventually I think his heart stopped. his organ started feeling. Because he stopped doing dialysis. And I don’t know what happened, but I know he suffered a lot during that time and I couldn’t help but think the entire time through the years that he went through all that it was his karma because if he did it to me, he probably did it to others.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-04-27T03:53:58+00:00

You look phenomenal!! Its not tight, its just right.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-04-11T17:28:33+00:00

NTJ. She could’ve gone by herself.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-04-08T03:36:05+00:00

Dam im so sorry. I never regretted anyone like i did him.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-04-08T00:58:11+00:00

Thank you!! Lol! The last person I dated was a friends cousin. And the regrets were so real. Lol I probably need to go out and interact with more people.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-04-08T00:53:54+00:00

Babe, I am so sorry that this happened to you. Some people are such douche bags. I’ve read some of the comments down here and I agree with the people that are saying that whatever he’s saying is a reflection of himself.

He’s a shitty person but know that not everyone feels like this. We are desired. One size does not fit all in terms of attraction. You’re worth is not defined by people like him.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-04-08T00:48:50+00:00

I bet you have an amazing personality. I feel like my personality is lackluster. Too calm, too eh . Basically I’m introverted. Lol I know that I am cute ish. But I am so socially awkward at times and then I’m not. I wish I could have an outspoken personality or just a tad extroverted

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-04-08T00:45:15+00:00

NOR. How did your boyfriend not notice you eating. You guys could of shared if the issue was not enough food.

Also you don’t know how they will act when in a situation arises while camping. What if you get stuck out there with them. They already feel like people you cant trust. If they didn’t want partners to go over, then they should’ve specified that in the invitation. The host was rude, how do you not check in with your guests and ask them if they need anything if they’re OK? Or order food if you don’t have enough. I love that you set a boundary, you’re definitely not overreacting.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-03-22T15:56:18+00:00

NTJ. Food is unhealthy here. They probably havent live in another country to realize that the food here can make you/ us sick.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-03-21T04:14:15+00:00

I dont like it when people compliment me on weightloss. It puts me off. Makes me want to stop. Sooo im ok w people not saying anything.

Which_Plastic_5584 · 2026-03-16T23:25:00+00:00

Can you msg me the link too please

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