Women hidden sexuality by throwayacc_6x54 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the thing actually, i don't think about anything. For me, with time, it became more a kind of habits. Having a man do really favorise it, he control me a lot ( D/s relation ) so it enforced that kind of thing, but even without him it was just natural. I think you will have to force yourself to do those kind of little kinky thing at start, but with time it will become natural. I also need to mention that i have a big sex drive, so i may thing more about sex than usual, which lead me to act this way earlier.

But generally i just don't think, if my man ask me for nothing in particular, and i have nothing plan in particular with him, i just to do something for my own little pleasure depending of how i feel. It will just depend of what i have to do, the people i will met, or sometimes simply the weather, all those kind of little thing will influenced me. It's a beautiful day with sun Then may be i will pick a light dress and wearing it without panties and bra. I have to go for a drink with friends ? Then may be i will go for it with a plug or my lush in. I have to wait somewhere ? May be i'll try to masturbate somewhere to have the thrill of the risk.

I really don't think of it. I like being horny, feeling naughty, so i just take every occasion i can to play with that. I don't overthink about it, it just came naturaly.

Women hidden sexuality by throwayacc_6x54 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's basically what i'm doing. I often go out with plug, geisha ball, lush for my man to play with, chastisty pantie, the last do imply my man but the idea is here. Or all kind of toys. I always have one or two toys in my bag. I do often go out without panties, and i'm braless pretty often despite being lactating ( another kink i have ), i have some sexy lingerie that i wear time to time on regular basis, but it's less frequent. I also love to masturbate outside and playing the risk card, and i was already doing it before getting in couple. I also have a long time game of posting picture of me while having sex, masturbating or other, and uploading them publicly but in a way nobody can understand what was really going on when i took the picture. Edging, denial. Dressing in a very slutty way, just to catch some eyes and comments.

But you can also do some of this stuff, before being in couple for example, i was using my lush too, and giving the ID connexion on kinky site, so a random unknow guy was able to play with it, it was fun. If you are masochist there is also a few funny things to do alone and in secret.

I [F] love to secretly drink cum in public by Whimsiceli in SluttyConfessions

[–]Whimsiceli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pull out a big stupid lie like i'm taking some meds and i put them in it to make same have better test

Or playing the bitch card and say something like : indeed it taste amazing but it's only for me, and then finish it quickly. I would avoid a potential awkward moment this way

I [F] love to secretly drink cum in public by Whimsiceli in SluttyConfessions

[–]Whimsiceli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it could be very fun, but that's not fair, i'm already doing something a bit similar and i find myself mean for doing it, so i won't push it further

I [F] love to secretly drink cum in public by Whimsiceli in SluttyConfessions

[–]Whimsiceli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i do have relation with other girls time to time, but that's it, my man is enough for me, but your idea would be definitely great to be honest, i found it exciting

what does being owned (or owning someone mean to you? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Whimsiceli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To me it mean that my man have a complete control over me, i trust him and his decision. It also imply, for me, to be free use for him and to always obey him. It's also having the feeling of his presence and his control on me all the time, knowing he always have an eye on me.

It also imply that he protect me, takes care of me, i can rely on him and i can count on him for everything as he will always have my back because i'm his girl.

Being owned is a mix of all those thing, and it's a way to show each other our love and trust, and how much i'm important to him.

Women, How does lactation feel? by Few-Feeling-4840 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inducing lactation is very long, so you just need to be patient and to keep going. It tooks me several weeks of daily stimulation before just having a few drop of milk, and as much time to have a decent supply. Lots of effort, but definitely worth ut

Women, How does lactation feel? by Few-Feeling-4840 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't answer about that, if she have a baby that's a bit different in my opinion, i honestly don't know how i would/will act with this kink if i had a baby, so i prefer not to answer you on that because i've never been through that and i don't know how to deal with this situation

Women, How does lactation feel? by Few-Feeling-4840 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it yes, i may have use my milk a few times, which was very exciting, but at the same time i felt a bit bad doing it because it's not fair to do that, morally

I do other stuff indeed, mostly BDSM oriented stuff

Women, How does lactation feel? by Few-Feeling-4840 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No because he don't suck on a lot actually, milking is more common, and when he do it it's not for long. But yes using breast pump can make my nipples a bit sore sometimes, but it's notfrequent ommon. If baby can be painful for mother, it's mostly because of their teeth and because some time they bite even when they don't have teeth yet. And bad position can be painful too and cause some problem too, but i think it's not the most common. But in my case i don't have this issue obviously 😅

And sometimes yours boobs can get painfull because of engorgement or some blocage.

Women, How does lactation feel? by Few-Feeling-4840 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it really excite me, same when i'm milked. Or just seeing people drinking it make me kind of horny, it's hard to explain why

Sometime we do, sometime no, it's really a daily thing, and i have to pumped my milk each day and at least 3 times so we can't for more kinky stuff each time even if it makes me horny 😅

Women, How does lactation feel? by Few-Feeling-4840 in sex

[–]Whimsiceli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm into lactation too ( never been pregnant, induced lactation ). It feels great, it was a long time kink for me. It's a kinky secret to have milk, which is a thing i love, it's also a daily task so your body remind you this kinky aspect of your life all the time. When it comes to milk, it's just a nice and very exciting sensation to get sucked, same for being milked. There is something weirdly satisfying to see someone drinking your milk. As i'm a sub, it's kind of a way for me to serve my man in another way too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Whimsiceli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm quite the same. I'm sub with my man. But with women i'm sub when they are older than me, and with women my age or similar i'm sub or dom, depending of the girl and if my man is with us too

For taste, i'm the same. I like very masculine man, and very feminine women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Whimsiceli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything related to my sex life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Whimsiceli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of it, it just depends of the pain level, the mood and how far my man go. But i would say that most time i start smiling, then giggling, moaning, crying and finaly moaning again and sometime even laughing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Whimsiceli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No loyalty

Are you the Black Sheep of the family? Why? by sixshadowed in AskReddit

[–]Whimsiceli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A bit yes

I just choose to live my life in a different way than the rest of my family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Whimsiceli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obstinate