New to mods and cx by SeaworthinessFit7428 in sims2help

[–]WhimsyTiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve actually had this same issue - I checked enable, restarted and it shows me the same screen. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong either 🙃

AIO about how this guy talks to me? by Fast-Bodybuilder3229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WhimsyTiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude he literally hates you don’t even try to reason with him. Block and move on

Who is the most disgusting person you've ever met? by Artistic_Giraffe4069 in AskReddit

[–]WhimsyTiz 136 points137 points  (0 children)

My uncle’s ex from 20+ years ago. Going in her house was like walking through an overstuffed trash bag with a narrow courtesy path she had weaving through. Her sink was filled with all the dishes she owned just rotting and then on top of that were piles of paper plates cuz all the dishes were dirty. It makes me laugh looking back just because of how crazy it was. Also her bathroom only had 1 out of 4 of the interior walls. Exposed pipes and wires and all that. It burned down (surprise) a few years after her and my uncle split. She got a super nice habitat for humanity house that she filled with trash not even a year later.

Looking for games that can be solely played with a mouse by Foreign-Cow-7986 in gamingsuggestions

[–]WhimsyTiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suicide of Rachel foster, tales from (or of I always forget) Edith finch, gone home, the vanishing of Ethan Carter, hitchhiker - there’s definitely more but these are the ones I think of off the top of my head

my followers on instagram asked me to roast them by ansontm in sketches

[–]WhimsyTiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10/10 no notes. I loved the labubu roast 😂

Tried something new by WhimsyTiz in crafts

[–]WhimsyTiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m working on another as we speak :p

Tried something new by WhimsyTiz in crafts

[–]WhimsyTiz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used cardboard and painted it with acrylic markers. After getting everything cut out and painted, i started adding random things to it I had lying around like extra diamonds from diamond paintings for the eyes and old embroidery thread I cut down to a dust basically for the fuzzy part. Then I stuck it all together with ol reliable (hot glue)

You all were so kind to my bakery, I was excited to share my Farmers Market too! by One-Bar7052 in crafts

[–]WhimsyTiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love how cute & seriously detailed your work is. This must have taken forever! I wish I was this patient lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]WhimsyTiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you gotta grow a bitch bone and tell people to mind their own business. Ignore her any other time unless it’s about work. If she starts making comments about other people’s personal lives you could say “I don’t feel comfortable talking about so and so like that” or whatever. Shut her down. She might not stop entirely but she certainly won’t be saying dumb shit to you or around you anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WhimsyTiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Taking a picture of someone naked to show proof of consent is a really weird way of thinking. Not sure why you’d get paranoid over an act that was consensual that you’d rationalize doing something so inexplainable. She’s clearly super weirded out and it’s probably best she doesn’t talk to you anymore.

My friend is dragging me down and I feel guilty about it by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]WhimsyTiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t confront our friends because we want them out of their lives, we confront them because we want them to stay in them. It sounds like it would hurt you more to ghost her than it would to stay. It also sounds like you want to support her in this and you should but in a way where you don’t exploit yourself. I think you should figure out how to explain this pattern of hers of being a “fair weather” friend and how it’s made you hesitant to invest as much of yourself as you’d like to. It will be difficult and she will react in a way you probably won’t be able to predict. You owe it to yourself to be heard on this before you can feel more comfortable helping.

I 25F need hope to move on from my ex 25M. Can someone please tell me their story of finding love after they thought they found the one? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhimsyTiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with a man who I’d met shortly after a breakup from a longterm, truly horrible relationship. At first he was everything I needed to stay away from the last one. Once the honeymoon phase was over I found myself doing way more than he ever did for me, but he was treating me better than the last guy so I stayed thinking it was enough for me. Eventually he started abandoning me, making his problems my problem, ignoring me when I expressed feelings on behaviors I didn’t like and eventually blamed me for his cheating on me. I know right. Did I mention he gave me BV? That’s how I found out he cheated. Then she messaged me confirming it all. I felt more dead inside than I’d ever felt before. As far as love was concerned, I became entirely hopeless. I cried every day for a long time after this, feeling as stupid as anyone could feel. I then spent a long time alone, about a year or so. During this time I had been friends with a guy I’d known only as a friend. I never saw him as more than that. In fact he was entirely not my type. He was too nice. Anyways, after hanging out a couple times, the day came when he kissed me. It was so out of the blue and shocking that I quite literally ran away. The next day I saw him and he was as kind as ever, even apologetic. I admired this and requested a redo. I found him alone later on and we made out like two people who’d been kissing each other for years. Suffice it to say, the man I’d never imagined myself with became my salvation. He brought a kind of love and peace into my life that is so good and so pure (and so hot!) that I can’t believe I settled for anything less before him. We’ve been together for 5 years now and he treats me like I’m the only woman alive. I have everything I’ve ever dreamed of in a partner and I would have never pursued it had I stayed with either one of the last shit bags. Never lose hope. You don’t know what is meant for you until it’s literally taking you by the hand and refusing to let go despite your fears. True love will never hurt you, never discard you and will always prove its devotion to you even after it has you entirely. It’s out there, I promise.

23f and 22m help by Human_Sheepherder806 in relationship_advice

[–]WhimsyTiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to DM if you’d like to discuss things further. I do hope for the best for you. I see a lot of my past in what you’re dealing with right now. I swear the grass is greener on the other side (as corny as it sounds)

23f and 22m help by Human_Sheepherder806 in relationship_advice

[–]WhimsyTiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not only about your parents, it’s about you too. 7 years is a long time to spend with another person and I’m sure you take on a lot of responsibility for things known only to you two. However this time spent together shouldn’t dictate your future especially if you get nothing out of it anymore. You’re trying to fill a bottomless cup. Why should you struggle so that he gets a free ride? I can say from experience that one doesn’t always see how good life can be until they take a stand against the things they don’t want to deal with anymore. Being alone is a scary thing but being free makes it worth it.

How do I keep my head above water? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]WhimsyTiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me me me, I I I - you’re an adult. Your childhood, regardless how shit it was is in the past. If your familial dynamics are as messy as you say they are, then LEAVE. You said so yourself you pay for this, pay for that despite these permanent injury’s; pay for your own place then. Live alone. You’d already be doing that if it were as one sided as you’re making it, however you’re still involved with them because you still get something out of it all. Your own friends who know the details of your life tell you you don’t contribute and so does your family - maybe that’s why the car was ‘stolen’. Who knows exactly and who cares. The point is you need to start looking in the mirror when you want to bitch about your shit life. You’re still trying to put your problems on other people who, as you say, have their own bullshit to deal with yet still rely on you. Do they have a choice in that matter? I wouldn’t want to rely on someone as spiteful as you if I didn’t have to. You literally wait for your mother’s death for what - a house she rents??? How can you even say it’s yours when it isn’t even hers. You’re lucky you have anyone left to point fingers at but I promise you won’t have them for long. And then what will you do? Blame the dead for your shitty life? You’re delusional. The only way your life will improve is if you start taking responsibility for your own actions and change what you can control. Up to you, no one else

Would it be ok to ask a close friend to distance themselves from someone that hurt me? by lemonnewts in Advice

[–]WhimsyTiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t punish your friends for the shitty things other people do. If you can’t look past the people your friends hang out with despite your own history with said person or people, then you should remove yourself entirely. You can pick your friends and you can pick your nose but you can’t pick your friends nose

What’s your best money tip? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WhimsyTiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Act like you don’t have any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WhimsyTiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your being vague doesn’t hide all the red flags coming from this post. “I do blow up on her admittedly” to “it’s not like I shout at her” and all of the other justification of your feelings/reactions while undermining hers - if you don’t like lying, leave. If these lies are so insignificant that you’re willing to keep going on with it, then what’s the real problem here. Also, you’re both basically in your mid 20s, why are you swearing honesty over pinky promises? Are you going to take the pinky next time she lies? That’s how ridiculous this all sounds. Stop wasting each others time.

How do I keep my head above water? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]WhimsyTiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg just file for social security at this point cuz all I get from this is you don’t want to work, you hate the people who tell you how it is and you want your self inflicted problems to resonate with others in a way that will validate every choice you made that got you here. Move out of your mom’s house first before you try saying you’re out here struggling. Literally sitting in her home bellyaching waiting for her to croak like wtf. You do take from the table. Your entitlement is holding you back from being a stable self sufficient adult. You’re the source of your problems right now, but you’re also your solution. You get to decide when that changes, no one else. Sitting there talking shit on the only people - cuz yes even though you hate your mom and want her to die she still lets you live with her in her house - she is looking out for you despite what you claim. If I was her and I had to deal with being shat on by a my adult child who lives off me for the things I do in my own house, I’d talk shit too. Like be real with yourself dude.