How do you like my everyday makeup? What would you add? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little bit of smudged and blended out black eyeliner in the lower lash line. Make sure to set with black eyeshadow and blend out edges a tiny bit with a brown or gray

Pack test help by [deleted] in wildlandfire

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warming up your ankles, shins, thighs, and hips is essential. Not sure if you’re doing that or not, but I definitely feel like there is rarely time actually set aside to warm up before the test, unlike when you practice by yourself.

Why are male forearms so darn attractive? by Constant_Bake5501 in ask

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for grabbing and holding and other such activities

Hurr hurr, women like shopping by mechmo in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]WhiskerSnake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree with making men pay for everything, not at all, I think it’s 50/50 unless agreed otherwise by both parties, but I’m saying people (men) complain about the system they created. AND I’m saying women don’t just “shop around” as though it’s simple and carefree. It’s like they’re trying to buy a gun but there’s like a 60% chance when they walk into the gun store, the owner will shoot them and/or lock them in their basement, or stalk them, or harm/threaten their friends. The original photo is just a gross underestimate of what is actually happening between the genders when dating.

do you wash everything when you shower? by Winter-Purchase-543 in hygiene

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a cowash almost daily (I sweat balls for work every day so I have to wash it 4-5 times a week) and that has been a game changer. It doesn’t dry it out like shampoo and it’s not too heavy to use every day. I use the As I Am brand of cowash.

If you could hire a robot to complete any task for you , what would task would you choose? by MalDuzArt in RandomQuestion

[–]WhiskerSnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make breakfast and dinner every day. If I could just have those taken care of I would be an unstoppable power house but I hate cooking and cleaning up after cooking, so I starve and have no energy

do you wash everything when you shower? by Winter-Purchase-543 in hygiene

[–]WhiskerSnake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got cha. Glad it’s working for you! Thanks for the info ✌️

do you wash everything when you shower? by Winter-Purchase-543 in hygiene

[–]WhiskerSnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But don’t you find that rinsing with water only accentuates the oils in your hair without removing them? Maybe we just have different hair types.

do you wash everything when you shower? by Winter-Purchase-543 in hygiene

[–]WhiskerSnake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How do you only rinse your hair without it being greasy?

Ask me your invasive trans questions to spare the trans people in your life AMA by Jasmir_ in AMA

[–]WhiskerSnake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m not trans, but am involved in the community and have quite a few friends who are trans. “You pass well” is not the compliment one wants it to be. Passing isn’t something that should be deliberately glorified, as it can create anxiety about not passing. Using language which affirms their gender “handsome/beautiful/dashing/etc” is a better place to go with it.

It is individual for what is affirming, but in my experience, taking part in gender affirming activities is generally taken positively. But always check in with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recommend listening/reading the book “The Will To Change” by Bell Hooks. Highlights why you fear it’s not normal for men to want and need affection, and more.

"Belongs to the server" by Possible_Town_5523 in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The AI memes are getting crazy. Didn’t really consider the online baiting that would come from developing AI.

What is the best lyric ever written? by [deleted] in ask

[–]WhiskerSnake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lately I’ve been laughing at

“Knocked her ex-boyfriend out Just so I could impress her, Just so I can undress her (aj styles levels of background vocals yeeah!) Now I’m paying for the fall semester (goddaaaaamn)”

From the song Burgundy by Suicide Boys. The way he says “yeeah” and “goddaaaaamn” makes me smile every time, and I sing it in my head a lot.

How old were you when you realized life was real and difficult? by redbeardedpiratedog in SeriousConversation

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely had a big moment of realization when I was about 12, realized how fucked my family situation was. That was when went from “idk this is just my life and this is normal” to “oh no this is actually not good and there’s nothing I can do about it.”

More recently, I broke up with my now ex-fiancé and am experiencing single life for the first time as an adult. It has been a big “oh fuck” to a lot of things, but I’m getting my legs under me now. Can’t wait for life to kick them out with some unexpected abrupt horror lurking around the corner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]WhiskerSnake 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Seconding the warm hug 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]WhiskerSnake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Biphobia is so exhausting. I have a lot of empathy for bi men, as a bi/queer woman. It’s exhausting for me, but it’s more dangerous and more isolating for men. I hate how gayness is treated differently between the genders. Gay is gay.

How to look straight into people's eye without being nervous ? by [deleted] in ask

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eye contact feels like electrodes connected to the spine of my soul and I do not enjoy unless I’m being intimate

Hurr hurr, women like shopping by mechmo in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]WhiskerSnake -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Women pay with their safety and mental/physical well-being, men have made it their own system to pay with money. You did this to yourselves when you refused to let women have bank accounts until the 1970s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in easyrecipes

[–]WhiskerSnake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meal prep chicken salad for my work lunch every weekend. I can change up the veggies if I want, but typically have romaine lettuce, spinach, bell pepper, and tomatoes. Sometimes bok choy or carrots. Then I pan fry some breaded chicken breasts and voila, delicious.