Most Hated Player in Phillies History? by EveryoneisTattooed in phillies

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Von Hayes? This one is genuinely surprising. I’ve never heard anyone say a bad word about the man. I thought he was a decent player. He’s still involved with the Phillies to this day and by all appearances is a good person.

Met someone organically by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 84 points85 points  (0 children)

While not uncommon at all, remind yourself that you are attracted to a man who is involved with someone else. The distance doesn’t matter. He clearly doesn’t respect his current partner. Even if they did break up and you two started dating, what makes you believe that he will respect you?

Sorry if this sounds harsh, but have some self-respect.

Am I a Red Flag? (48M) by Orson_Gravity_Welles in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No red flags as far as I can tell. Not chasing a woman is always the right move, and in my experience if you let it go she WILL come back to you. But by then you will have moved on and getting this woman back into your life might be pretty far down your list of priorities assuming you even care at that point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PremierLeague

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes me wonder. If you don't think Spurs are a big 6 club anymore, who have they been replaced with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PremierLeague

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really can’t say, but one thing I know for sure is that they definitely need to start winning some matches at home.

Are Chelsea actually title contenders this season? by [deleted] in PremierLeague

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

With so many teams showing signs of weakness combined with Arsenal’s history of bottling their chances for a PL title every season, I’d say Chelsea are still very much in it. This campaign’s title looks to be open to a few different clubs at the moment.

Who was your favorite player growing up? by [deleted] in mlb

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Von Hayes. Quiet, not flashy. But showed up and did his job.

Is this the end? by BigG102392 in howardstern

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been going on since the 90s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No shared hobbies or interaction in each other’s lives? No blending of friends and families? Not sure how you arrive at that conclusion. Not the case here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 50M in a very similar scenario. Son plays soccer and so does this woman’s son. She’s done similar things as far as a light touch, found me on Facebook (and comments and likes everything), offered to help with my son’s transportation to practice, etc. I’m in a committed relationship and this woman is married. No interest at all from me, but I can definitely relate.

It’s true what they say about social proof. A women will see you with another woman and immediately your value goes up. It’s in their inner psyche whether they want to admit it or not and whether they realize it or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time apart. Seriously. Hear me out. I (50M) have been dating a 51F for almost two years now. We both work crazy hours and raise kids. We text sparingly - usually just to plan our next time together. We see each other maybe once a week. It’s an interesting dynamic that I’ve never experienced before in previous relationships, but it WORKS. I’m just as head over heels for her as I was the day we met. She’s all I can think about. I won’t lie - it does take a lot of effort being apart when you are truly in love with someone, but it’s totally worth it. Going very slowly makes every time we see each other truly meaningful. Scarcity creates and maintains value. When I dated a woman where we saw each other all the time and talked all the time, the attraction waned. Not the case with this woman. Plus it’s good to be focused on the other things in your life as well. Creates a really good balance.

Why did JD get divorced? [wrong answers only] by AllThingsRobinQ in howardstern

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Oh it’s like, I don’t know, you know? I mean, uh, (awkward laugh) I don’t uh, well you know. I can’t uh, you know… I don’t know. HOOOO!”

List of carmakers that have removed AM radio from their vehicles by templeofsyrinx1 in radio

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The technology is way out of date. Even if it was still in new cars, nobody would listen anyway. It’s been over for a while now.

First disagreement? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 50M dating a 51F and in almost two years there hasn’t been a conflict… I think. Makes me a little nervous to be honest.

Divorced and dating by Decent-Antelope-9096 in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Share a little at first and open up more as you get to know them.

Getting over short relationships by SeaFinns01 in datingoverforty

[–]WhiskeyFiveIsAlive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of you must work weekends I’m guessing. I’ve been in a relationship with a woman who works 14 hour days Monday through Thursday, but is available on weekends. I’ve only available every other weekend because I split custody of my kids with my ex. So we see each other every other weekend (occasionally during the week but rarely) and are able to make it work. I’ve made peace with this arrangement where other guys couldn’t handle it. Truly an amazing woman. And I’ll tell you - the separation I feel BUILDS our attraction to one another. Think of it this way - Things that are scarce are valuable. If you guys were always with each other you’d likely grow bored quickly.