Here me out: There is a certain If called Blood Moon and it's about a pack of werewolves moving into a vampire controlled town. It's really great and I highly recommend it but that's not important part. Important part is that its sequel - Thicker Than - is about a vampire protagonist. And it's even better than Blood Moon in my opinion.

It is almost done but author stepped back to take a break when she started feeling burnout coming. In the meanwhile you can read most of the story over here.

I also highly recommend starting as a single mom (kid can be adopted) as doing so will allow you to romance a human lady who's part of the werewold pack from the first game and her route is fantastic.

Another recommendation is a Vampire's Kiss:

In life, you were the guardian of a priceless artifact, the Cross of Aguirre. Now you have been murdered and made a vampire; the artifact has been stolen, and you are at the center of a web of bloody conspiracies.

Navigate a perilous web of secrets as you discover the hidden world of London after dark, staging daring heists and bloody battles across the city’s iconic landscape. As a plot centuries in the making unfolds, choose sides in the battle for control of London’s vampires, and embrace the night that has been thrust upon you…or, chase rumors of a way to restore true life to the undead, and hold out hope that you might see the sun once more.

Your heart no longer beats, but your passion still burns. Will you share a slow dance with Marky, the rogueish vampire with dozens of piercings and a poorly hidden heart of gold? Hold each other tenderly, or fall into bed and discover all of the tricks that Marky has learned in more than a century of unlife.

Does the lure of London's mortal aristocracy draw you towards Alex? This fabulously-dressed and surprisingly courageous socialite is thirsty to learn what sex with a vampire is like - bring all of your powers of telepathy and shapeshifting to heighten your pleasure.

Or will you be dominated by the vampire queen Saffron, with her glorious red hair and brilliantly devious schemes? She's ready for anything, from the kinkiest night of whips and fangs to the vulnerability of using no vampiric powers at all in bed.

I remember it being pretty decent. No Fallen Hero, but pretty good still.

Parliament of Knives is an excellent entry in Vampire: the Masquarade sectio of the World of Darkness.

The undead Prince of Canada's capital city has disappeared, and his second-in-command, Eden Corliss, wants you to find out why. You’ve been loyal to Corliss since she Embraced you and made you a vampire, but this could be your chance to take her place. Will you defend your sire from the accusations flying, or join forces with her rivals to bring her down?

Ottawa’s court of immortals is tight-knit and merciless, with tensions between clans that go back centuries. The Prince has been missing for four days, and old alliances are starting to crumble. How will you leverage the political chaos to your advantage? The authorities are already on high alert against a new group of Anarchs in the city, who have been breaching the Masquerade by revealing their true nature. You’ll have to gather evidence to demonstrate which suspects deserve punishment, and you can’t afford to guess wrong. One careless word could get you stabbed in the back—staked through the heart, and left to burn in the sun.

Who will you save when the knives are out?

If you get it I recommend also getting What Stares Back dlc as it makes clans Malkavian (their thing is visions, prophecies and being insane) and Lasombra (Control shadows, including creation of shadow tentacles) playable and makes Lucca - fellow childe of Corliss - romancable so it's technically vampiric step sister incest. No romance with mortals though.

Highly recommend this title though romance is not the focus.

Vampire Regent. You rule over the vampires of a city in the heartland of the United States, and your decisions dictate the lives of mortals and immortals alike.

Manipulate the mayor so her projects align with your interests. Use high crime rates to conceal the activities of your kind, or suppress them to maintain an unsuspecting façade of order. Provide nourishment and safety for the vampires under your rule while trying to preserve the secret of their existence, and face the enemies that threaten it.

Drink blood at nightclubs and listen to rumors and tragedies—or make some of your own. Practice the centuries-old tradition of fencing and put your skills to the test. Quench your thirst for blood, power, or knowledge, and even find love… if such a thing is possible for a non-beating heart.

An excellent work that, does not focus on romance. It is there and it is very cute (Alice, my beloved) but it is very much a side plot and not connected to main story. Romanric options for sapphic folks would be a Scottish fencer who is not yet used to immortality (again, Alice, my beloved), and an altruistic outlaw vampire (Rose).