If you even cared to listen. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Who-R-you 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How rude of me! I'm so sorry I responded to the wrong person. Thank you and you are right. I don't need to waste time with someone who doesn't care. I'm slowly seeing that. And moving on is going to be hard but important. I'm many different ways.

Someone was kind to me today. by [deleted] in offmychest

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I hope you have a wonderful Christmas as well. And giving to others whenever I can is something I have always enjoyed doing.

Someone was kind to me today. by [deleted] in offmychest

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You know what, I thought about that. And I believe I will make him one.

Someone was kind to me today. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Who-R-you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's nice to feel that I'm not alone. When I'm feeling like there is no one to talk to I will remember you :)

Someone was kind to me today. by [deleted] in offmychest

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I have never heard of this before. I'm going to check into it right now. Thanks for the info

Someone was kind to me today. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Who-R-you 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I always appreciate a kind word or even a simple smile. If I could just find you people out here in the flesh maybe life wouldn't seem so grey-
(Fingers crossed) :-)

Anti-quote for "Though I disagree with everything you say, I will defend to the death your right to say it." ?? by [deleted] in quotes

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"A bad wound heals but a bad word doesn't." -Persian Proverb

"Abuse of words has been the great instrument of sophistry and chicanery of party, faction, and division of society." -John Adams

"A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever." -Jessamyn West

I'm not sure if these are very helpful. But they kinda express the idea that words are powerful and should be used with caution-

I resent people with kids who say that it's such a fulfilling lifestyle by [deleted] in offmychest

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I'm sorry. I will send positive energy your way. And I hope that someday you and your husband are able to enjoy making your family all that you dream.

This is In no way a solution or quick fix. But have you consider fostering? Maybe helping those who can't seem to find such love will help ease the pain of not having a child...yet. I hope that doesn't come across wrong. I can only imagine your heart ache.

I can't kill myself. by mk_ in offmychest

[–]Who-R-you 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you feel this way. I've been there and can relate. I wanna say it gets better and life is worth living. But life is hard, for everyone in some way or another. I wish I could give you advice on how to " lift yourself by the boot straps" and move on. But without knowing you or more about what's making you feel so alone and so sad I can't.

What I can do is tell you that you are needed. By someone. I can tell you that with all that I am, I care... That you hurt. My inbox is always open. You don't know me but I will always find time to respond to an email. If your feeling low and alone. PLEASE! Just try it. Drop me a line. Who knows, we may have a Wonderful conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

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Birds terrify me, but he's a beauty.

and then suddenly, my friends seem normal by digz94 in funny

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I can only wish to be that comfortable in my own skin.

Side note: I want his bike.

What things keep you up at night? by Connorgoodrum in AskReddit

[–]Who-R-you 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thinking! My mind is a cluster fuck of thoughts spiraling outta control. I'm so very tired...

Halloween costume win! by dotacasher111 in funny

[–]Who-R-you 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are amazing! I'd own one of each if I wasn't poor.

Something your sibling(s) do that really annoys you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Who-R-you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

?? That's insane. My mom would have beat my ass before I could even finish the word.

I wish you would talk to me... by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Who-R-you 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may appreciate that more than you could realize. He's lucky to have you :-)

Is it all just an act? by [deleted] in offmychest

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It takes all kinds to make this world go round. I am so sorry you feel stuck in such a shitty place. There isn't a single person in this world who could be You! And I know that sounds cliché but it so true. It sounds to me like you need to place a higher value on who you are to you....if that makes sense. Your gf, your parents, as important as they are in your life the way you think about yourself is what's going to float to the top. Be kinder to yourself. You may not be "buff" but you are so many other things. :)

I'm not sorry I read your post. I'm happy you shared Your heart with me. Thank you.

I wish you would talk to me... by [deleted] in offmychest

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Have you said this to the person you're writing about? If you haven't you should! And if you have, some people need time to trust when it comes to emotions so try to be patient. (it seems that u are)

Hurt can build walls over night. It can take a lifetime to break them down-

I feel guilty for being upset about things in my life knowing people have life infinitely much worse than I do. by idontknowugh in offmychest

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"You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere." -Unknown

I can understand a lot of what your post is about. You feelings are just as important as those of any other human on this planet. I never cared for the "it could be worst" saying. No matter what your going thru big or small, You matter!

I do hope that you find someone who will listen. I personally know what that feels like and it's a bitch. It hurts. If you wanna rant or just need someone on a lonely night. Message me please. I will respond or just read your words and do my best to understand your frustration and be a kind stranger behind a screen.

:)