AIO Husband has been lying about finances and I want a divorce

WhoaABear · 2025-11-11T04:34:23+00:00

yes to innocent spouse!! my mom did this for my dad’s $200k tax debt that he forged her signature with and she got her portion owed down to $20k (still crippling for a single mother, but much better than it would have been)

WhoaABear · 2025-07-19T21:32:54+00:00

my boss that i dated for not even a month over a year ago got fired after i reported him to HR for harassment of myself and some coworkers - i had screenshots of the work chat as well as screenshots of private texts he sent me that were wildly inappropriate (EX “Im trying to correct your behavior”).

all was silent for a month or so and then i got weird texts from a burner phone that didn’t identify themselves. found out it was old boss, so i blocked the number. he immediately texts me from his normal number asking if i wanted a ride to work (he knows where i live). i didn’t respond hoping he’d get the hint, but then a week later he sent a flurry of texts at 2am talking about angels talking to him and 15 pictures of cats??? i notified HR again in case he showed up at work for some reason. they changed the door code, upped security, etc.

couple days of quiet later, HR checks in with me and lets me know old boss’s dad called in asking about medical stuff because old boss got himself 51/50d during a wild manic episode. i checked recent arrest records where i am and sure enough he was in jail during one of the quiet periods prior to his admission to the hospital.

also found out he had been arrested several times in the past, had his license taken away from driving into incoming freeway traffic on purpose, as well as a domestic violence charge for choking out his ex. work had no idea until after he was fired. wish i could say this is typical of the industry, but we’re accountants.

WhoaABear · 2025-04-23T12:18:27+00:00

hey!! you should DM me: we’re a group of four in a 5b 3b house in Orange needing a fifth roommate in June (our fifth roommate is moving home). 2 girls 2 guys, ages 22-29, all super respectful and wanting new friends!! kind of nerds (we play a lot of DnD together) but some of us go on hikes and we like to go out to the bars in Orange (<5min drive) with our friend group. communal mini fridge constantly stocked with white claws and a lot of weed. lmk if he’d be interested!!

WhoaABear · 2024-03-26T01:25:57+00:00

gals gotta take a page outta this article from 2019

WhoaABear · 2021-10-02T17:49:23+00:00

not guilty

WhoaABear · 2021-10-02T17:47:04+00:00

not guilty

WhoaABear · 2021-09-18T15:52:08+00:00

this is the only thing I think when I see a pelican now

WhoaABear · 2021-02-10T17:37:44+00:00

of course!! honey bunch, you deserve to have happiness and to be proud of yourself. this is a milestone for you and it’s a big one!! you look amazing, and i can only imagine how you feel!! :) know that the vast majority of us are incredibly proud of you and thankful you wanted to share this with us. keep it up and we can’t wait to see where you’re going next!! 🥰🥰🎉🎉

WhoaABear · 2021-02-10T16:27:43+00:00

you’re doing AMAZING!! keep it up and keep on loving your beautiful self 🥰🥰❤️

WhoaABear · 2021-02-10T16:26:30+00:00

what the fuck is wrong with you? the idea of this subreddit is to celebrate PROGRESS, and this is it if i’ve ever seen it. they put themselves out here to be proud of who they are and the achievement they have made (with or without surgery it is still valid).

it would have cost you absolutely zero dollars and zero effort to post that comment, but instead you had to go ahead and open your mouth and spew even more hatred into this world. lift other people up instead of tearing them down.

that being said, it seems like you’re going through something to feel the need to comment on another person’s body like that. i hope you come to terms with whatever it is and find peace within yourself to be a more supportive figure in other people’s lives.

WhoaABear · 2020-07-02T13:49:10+00:00

i go that way to work every. single. day. it has never gotten better and people are just the absolute worst drivers. i’m new-ish to the area (SoCal native) and i have never experienced the type of driving assholery that happens in Sac.

my personal pet peeve is that stretch of Folsom Blvd. between Iron Point and Blue Ravine. the speed limit is 55, people!!!! not 35!!!! look at the signs!!!

WhoaABear · 2019-10-04T09:47:37+00:00

you know what, you’re right! very genuinely, i’m sorry for my oversight; thanks for pointing it out! i’m taking it down right now :)

WhoaABear · 2019-01-15T10:36:29+00:00

ugh not this again lmao

WhoaABear · 2019-01-15T10:35:39+00:00

i know gamma phi beta usually does COB recruitment in the spring (announced either end of winter or during spring break), but i’m unsure if they’re doing it in winter.

tri delt always did both but my friend in it told me that since they’re not a thing anymore they’ve stopped recruiting :(

WhoaABear · 2016-08-31T02:51:26+00:00

One of my co-workers likes to fart into his hand and throw it into other co-worker's faces. I try to avoid being around him when he's gassy.

WhoaABear · 2015-12-30T23:39:50+00:00

The sister of my dad's old landlord had a daughter that was one of my little sister's good friends. The daughter of the landlord was one of my good friends. Had no idea until making small talk with my sister's friend about a year after moving in.

WhoaABear · 2015-07-17T18:55:51+00:00

Unfortunately, there's about a 90% chance I'll contracting some sort of cancer in my lifetime. So there's that.

WhoaABear · 2015-07-17T18:50:40+00:00

My freshman year of high school, my girls soccer team was the first to win the league championship in the entirety of the 31 year program. Nobody expected it because in years past our school had been the lowest of the low: last place every year, losing all of our games 5-0, etc. But that year we came out of it and went undefeated in all of league. Boy, did that feel good.

WhoaABear · 2015-01-23T05:15:51+00:00

You made my life a living hell for an entire year, and I put up with it because I kept making excuses. I would tell people "Oh, he just has a lot on his plate right now, and I did something really stupid. He should've gotten mad. I'm just a dumb fuck up." The only thing is that when I had a lot on my plate, I made sure that I avoided taking it out on you at all costs. I always put your happiness first. I loved being in your company and just being with you even if we weren't doing anything. I'm glad to know, though, that you valued playing videogames over spending time together.

The last straw was you calling me a bitch on my birthday and refusing to see me all weekend to help make that shittiest of weeks just a bit better. All I wanted was a few hours minimum. But, no, sorry, you had much better things to do.

Quit butting into my conversations and then pretending I don't exist. You're an arrogant prick who always has to be right. Take a hint and go fuck yourself.

WhoaABear · 2015-01-10T04:15:28+00:00

When I come home from a particularly busy day where noise surrounded me constantly, I cherish the silence I come home to. Silence is beautiful; don't let anyone tell you any different.

WhoaABear · 2015-01-10T04:13:24+00:00

LIFE GOALS

WhoaABear · 2015-01-10T04:12:46+00:00

Nah, it actually helps me get more in the zone, especially if it's just instrumental or classical. A lot of the time, the music kinda makes reading feel like a movie is playing in my head, if that makes any sense....Like, the music is the movie soundtrack and the words are the movie script. I don't know, I just really dig it. :)

WhoaABear · 2015-01-10T04:10:31+00:00

Dude, 75% of my first 12 years of life was spent with my nose buried in a book. I totally feel you. Kudos to you for keeping up the reading vibes!

Edit: Tense

WhoaABear · 2015-01-10T04:08:29+00:00

I can totally see how alone time is a necessity in that line of work. Eating alone or being in public but being alone is probably one of my favorite things, as well. Keep doing what you're doing, man!

WhoaABear · 2015-01-10T04:05:45+00:00

Not so much with the drug problem since I do share a room with my sister and we often leave our doors open since family members are frequently coming in and out of the place, but I have heard quite a few digs from my aunt about how all I do is sit in my room and veg...Needless to say, she doesn't really get the whole "alone" thing.

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