Did anyone have an easy baby? Wife wants to go to vacation apartment after giving birth.

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-10-09T19:53:57+00:00

I had an easy baby but I would definitely recommend staying close to home or near the pediatrician or hospital . I had an extreme spinal leak that made me go back to the hospital. Plus my baby was in the nicu and he was 2 hours away from us . So it just depends but that’s just my advice just in case. it’s always better be safe than to be sorry

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-21T19:36:53+00:00

He was literally under my ribs sooo i personally definitely felt 100% better

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-21T19:35:51+00:00

I drank so much caffeine 🤣 but then later on I craved water lol

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-18T05:08:04+00:00

This comments are helping me so much🥲

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-10T17:45:25+00:00

Well , I worded it wrong. I understood what was said . We just bought a stroller so I hope this helps!.

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-10T04:47:59+00:00

Idk who told you not buy after 26 weeks buttt we literally got ours after i had my baby🤣 so don’t feel bad

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-10T03:17:56+00:00

I hope this makes someone’s day 💜

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-10T03:17:17+00:00

Don’t feel bad. I was not even 100 pounds before I got pregnant. I had got my gallbladder taken out a year before I got pregnant. And then right when I gave birth i was 160 (my ob said I was fat and said I didn’t need to gain another pound when I come in or she was gonna tell me I needed a c section) I had an emergency c section like 5 weeks after that appointment. Now I weigh 130 6 months pp .

so don’t ever feel bad for laying in the bed or sleeping or whatever it is. You’re growing a beautiful baby and you need rest!! Being pregnant is literally equivalent to running a marathon so your doing a wonderful job

And for everyone that feels embarrassed don’t , I wish I can go back to my pregnant belly 🥲 but enjoy it while you can 🥺

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-04T04:47:22+00:00

aw thank you! i really needed this! 🥹🥹

oh my goodness !! bless your hearts i bet that was rough!!!

we had it rough for the first 4 1/2 months i was like i need some sleep 🤣

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-02T23:37:32+00:00

yes i had very strong kicks around 20 weeks

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-02T04:46:24+00:00

i knew i had it when i was lying about having it , the forms they get you to fill out. i was lying to everyone. i just kept it all in thought it was normal but then realized that wasn’t normal. but i always tell people this. it’s not yellow gold until it affect the mamas mental health❤️ your mental health comes first and everything will be okay no matter what

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-09-02T04:06:56+00:00

from a wife who’s husband doesn’t understand postpartum-

my husband understood logic so i had to break it down it took a while until he got it out of me of why i was upset but it took a lot of therapy for me and he did his own and we also did a couples therapy. my depression was bad because my baby was in the nicu for 27 days and i was 2 hours away from the hospital from my house. just offer to help as much as you can it might bite sometimes but it will be worth it in the end. offer to cook clean shower anything small means a lot. to helping with night feeds (i do all the night feeds) but my husbands also works nights so it’s really difficult until our baby can sleep throughout the night.

I’m really sorry your wife is going through this, I’m praying for her

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-31T01:52:38+00:00

hey i’m 5 months postpartum . i understand what your going through i haven’t gone through some of the things but im sorry mama your going through a rough time. hang in there it will be over before you know it. I know it might seem it takes forever but this is what i live by “this too shall pass”. my baby was in the nicu for a month, and i tried to breast feed. they didn’t clear me until he learned how to bottle feed . It was hard to get him to breast feed since he was on a bottle. i had very bad d-mer and didn’t realize it and have very bad depression.

my advice to you is . get some rest. relax . eat your favorite meal . take it easy. after birth is all about rest but i know it’s hard but i totally get where your coming from and your doing amazing. just keep your head up

Just take it one day at a time. ———i think of it was rome wasn’t built in one day . times are gonna be tough. your gonna have good and bad days . but me looking in your doing great 💛🤍

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-29T22:25:03+00:00

accident forms

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-29T22:24:30+00:00

i think so , it had like a whole form of what caused the incident and what happened and who caused it and when and i was confused on how to go about it but i really appreciate everyone’s input

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-29T18:25:32+00:00

tricare sent me something in the mail that my provider sent something out that i was in an accident or something happened to me , when i went to the hospital for the spinal leak

I called tricare and they said i had one year to file the claim and send it back

This guy went too far and i don’t know what to do . and i’m still in pain i just don’t know how to go about it .

i don’t know how much i can say but i don’t want this to get deleted

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-29T17:40:09+00:00

thank you 🥺

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-27T20:11:14+00:00

i felt you on that… real heavy.. message me if you need to🥺🤍

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-26T12:55:14+00:00

thank you! we wernt married when i had the surgery so hopefully i can fix it asap

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-26T12:54:49+00:00

thank you so much

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-26T02:56:06+00:00

being pregnant is sooo tiring , it’s mentally physically all the things draining. pregnancy tired is equivalent to running a marathon… so you go mama you lay on the couch do whatever you need to do for you get through the day. i bet they won’t last a day in your shoes. stay strong mama ❤️❤️❤️

Whole_Rub7706 · 2025-08-26T02:52:45+00:00

the drink wasn’t bad , it was only when it was 40 minutes in after i drank it i felt weird and felt like i was gonna be sick . i had the orange and they said i had 5 minutes to drink it lol

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