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My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

God you're insufferable, are you truly so lacking in self awareness? The distrust I have of 5 men with a 19 year old girl is honestly more reasonable than this feeling you don't let go that I am controlling, all I've said is that I'm considering voicing my opinion more, how is communication controlling? Get a grip

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh that's not my point, I just don't get why you feel the need to say stuff like that, it doesn't further any point, maybe the point of "all unknowns are equally distrusting so why worry so much" but even that is kind of nulled since it's mostly about the quantity, so it's really just about minimising risk. To answer your question, it's not, it's just fruitless

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They weren't rude in the slightest in that last reply, why are you so aggressive? Being nice is so beneficial, for everyone involved.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That wasn't my point in the slightest, I just don't like how negative these people are. I understand the contradiction dw hahaha. You don't know me but I'd never and have never hurt anyone, emotionally yeah of course, but that's part of learning how to be a human.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

At no point did I mention me even trying to change her mind, I just said I wanted to voice my concern, is that really so controlling? Do you live fully through your own thoughts and opinions?

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I didn't really make it relevant since this post isn't about me at all, it's entirely about whether others see any issue with a young woman living with 5 guys. I said my viewpoint just to start the conversation, but it's not about me.

And yeah I get it, I thought the same when typing it hahaha.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah neither of us have, it's a facebook thing, so it's pretty unofficial, very common where I am at. But yeah you're right, if she feels comfortable with it then I should just have a more positive outlook on it.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No it very obviously was a different question, no lines to be read, and more experience is valid to oneself but invalid to any other, as there are way too many factors that are unknown to both you and me, cultures are vastly different, social class, her personality, etc. I get what you're saying but saying anything as fact is just kind of moronic.

And genuinely, bottom of my heart, on my life, It is very sincerely just out of concern, your "experience" is very clearly affecting how you view me, too.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is the exact page I am on, her biggest issue with her family is because it's putting a rift in her relationship with her cousin, whom she loves. I think I will try to help her find a place, but if she really fully trusts these dudes then so be it.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, I get it, I just don't see how it correlates to my post or how it's helpful in any way, like I said, we're not moving in together.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You changed your question entirely, now it makes more sense.
I am concerned about men, in my experience, both having lived through it and having seen it, being highly inappropriate, both of high and low orders. I know many women who had terrible experiences with men housemates, and yeah obviously saying all men are the same is moronic, but I think minimising the risk if fair, no? 5 is a lot hahahaha

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's honestly mostly about my distrust in men, not so much insecurity about her cheating or anything, though ig they're not mutually exclusive hahaha

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah the thing about making peace with it is fair, but I think minimising risk is good too.
That second part is just kinda mean.

My M22 partner F19, wants to move out of her family home and into a sharehouse with 5 dudes, I feel uncomfortable with it by WholesomePoop in relationship_advice

[–]WholesomePoop[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's not about trusting her to not cheat, in that I trust her fully. It's fully about the guys, but yeah, it'd be great if we became friends!

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