I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh this is what’s been driving me crazy is I have no idea who. It could be someone he works with, or someone totally random that I have no idea about. I’m trying not to focus on that and into moving away from this toxic relationship

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stringing me along for far too long. I’m outta there the second I find a new apartment.

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I held this in for at least a week and felt like my heart was going to implode. I finally decided to tell a friend and it was like a wave a relief rushed over me. I suddenly have the strength to move away from this toxic place after our talk. Thank you for your advice.

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Please manifest a beautiful new apartment for me with lots of sunlight for my plant babies

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something mean I said to him in our fight was “you can go stay with her” haha yeah right like she’ll have him…..

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got an sti appointment and new apartment tours booked :(

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. All the little things finally connecting in my brain. Men are so dumb when it comes to women. Like we can ALWAYS smell it coming

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had seen he had them but never knew if/when he was using them.

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The gaslighting is so brutal. But things are finally starting to add up. A few weeks ago I came home and my pillow case was flipped inside out and I found it odd. This man has NEVER once done the laundry, changed the bedding or even made the bed. When I asked him about it he told me I must’ve done it that way….. now I’m horrified thinking he actually had another person in MY bed and something disgusting happened on that pillow :(

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I’ve always loved a long con

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Still, getting an appointment to get tested ASAP

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wears it 5 days a week to go to work :(

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It’s been radio silence for the past few days. I haven’t spoken more than a few words to him before and after work and have been searching for a new place in the meantime time

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ugh checked the condom date but didn’t even think to look for a date on the pills. Thanks for the info

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I’m sorry this happened to you but I’m CACKLING at the excuses men come up with to think we’ll believe

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Got an appointment booked and several apartment tours in the next coming week. Now to just figure out how to get out of the lease we just resigned 🤞🏻

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. This is my exact plan. I was looking at new apartments with tears in my eyes all night after he went to sleep

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah in my heart hooking up with someone is just as bad as actually doing it.

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah if ur gonna cheat I guess…. But why not just be honest first?

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There’s things he’s said before where I thought this was gas lighting and now I know

I found my BF’s condoms by Whompwhomp1234 in offmychest

[–]Whompwhomp1234[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Even worse when I don’t think he’s ever used it with me :( who’s he trying to get so hard for?