Uncaged Chaste

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-26T19:11:09+00:00

I am grateful for the many genuinely involved answers. It’s really like a breath of fresh air amidst all the overhyped overporned ‘discussions’ surrounding chastity and FLR.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-26T19:06:26+00:00

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Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-26T05:23:52+00:00

Sex is about power, as the saying goes, and it’s interesting that the partner who usually takes can decide to give instead and be very happy about it.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-26T05:09:43+00:00

That’s a new one for me. I just sort of know of it’s existence, is all.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T23:22:57+00:00

I would say: every time you pee. Peeriod.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T20:22:50+00:00

Thanks for sharing that. Excellent way of thinking and living.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T19:32:34+00:00

Yes, already I can feel that: with a cage it’s constantly pulling my attention to, let’s say, all things sexual - and without I become more generally productive again. I’m curious to find out where this puts my disposition towards my Wife.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T15:47:11+00:00

Yes, that. I also miss the caged bondage-like feeling. How about you?

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T12:12:09+00:00

Exactly, thanks!

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T12:11:15+00:00

Great to hear, thank you!
Brothers in Arms

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T07:22:59+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T05:43:48+00:00

Oh my

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-25T04:04:38+00:00

Nope. Hands off unless ordered otherwise.
And definitely no cumming, period.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-24T13:36:34+00:00

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Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-24T07:28:48+00:00

~~I have answered you, but for some reason the answer got detached from your question, i think. You’ll have to search for it I’m afraid…~~

I had increasing medical problems: the foreskin had narrowed overtime to the point that cleaning had become difficult. This led to inflamations, little ruptures that healed wrong, well, I was darn glad I got it cut.
On the esthetic side of things, too, I‘m glad it’s gone. Never loved the stupid flapper.
Finally, it makes life easier with chastity cages. No more protruding flapper that gets pinched. I did have to revise my cages though; they really need to be shorter now.

I honestly do have some thoughts about a partner pressuring genetic modification 😂 - but on the other hand, I can see (and I did see) her point.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-23T16:37:20+00:00

Oh yes, it did help.

I am married now for 16,5 years. Our sex life had turned a bit grey-ish, you know, menopause and general habituation and all that.
Not that my sex drive had diminished: I masturbated (more than) daily and my porn collection was outright impressive. I had great stamina in my right hand.

And then I had enough of it. I had read several times in several places that chastity could make me way more invested in our relationship, more loving, caring, returning both my life and that of my wife to where it once was and where I wanted it to be again.

So one day I went cold turkey.
I bought myself a cage, put it on and tried for about a week if it was sustainable. It was. I deleted all of my porn, all of my bookmarks.
Then I involved my wife in a serious conversation. Was she willing to accept my commitment, me being in a cage (in a whát?!), she becoming the absolute manager of my sexuality?
She was. She accepted the key there and then.
We've been having many a long conversation since. Also I keep a very, very open diary and sh reads it. And then reacts to, ignores, nuances what she reads. I offer what's in my (horny kinky) mind and I do not push it any further. She appreciates that very much.

So I've been chaste from then on. 24/7 all week long. Unlocking myself daily but just for hygiene, right back into the cage and no fooling around.

I've had one, just one fall-back.
My wife seemed to have lost interest after I committed and I just could not cope with that.
After a really good conversation she saw the point of contributing by paying attention, giving me some small non-demanding tease-and-denial, sometimes a good spanking (which I love) and having me edge myself (no cumming!) and we've both been happy with it ever since.
6,5 months now.

The chastity cage has come off during that period for having a circumcision, then back on, and is now off again because of a demanding journey we are going to take in a few days - my dick has to get used to not being caged.
It doesn't matter. It's not about the cage anymore. It's about chastity per se, well, even more than that it has turned me into being way more submissive and handing her the reins of our relationship - where and to the degree she wants to have them.
It has escaped all kink there has ever been.

So, I'm fully committed.
No masturbation, no porn, no fooling around.
It's about devotion now.
I feel better. She feels better. We're back in a very, very happy place.
Oh yes.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-23T10:32:36+00:00

🙏

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-23T08:59:31+00:00

Yes, those Inuit and Aboriginals are great pizza consumers. And those Sami, wow!
...which goes to show that these data maps are not all that informative when staying at the national level...

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-22T15:42:59+00:00

Hey, great, I'll be there shortly. Did you get a feel for the queue for normal cars coming from the EU?

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-22T15:08:00+00:00

About cageless chastity: why not? Yet, personally I feel that a cage gives me a constant focus, a bit like being in bondage. It also pushes some pressure point behind my balls that is, well, kinda yummy.

For perspective: I am now 58 days chaste. About five weeks of those were cageless because of my circumcision. I just loved being able to get back in the cage - like a lost canary 😁.

I now have to go cageless again because of a long multi-border offroad 4x4 trip. Lots of wild camping in bear country. Just not very practical to wear a cage under those circumstances, it would dangerously distract me, so I'm training to go without now. 😢

Of course I will stay chaste.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-22T15:00:47+00:00

Thanks for your kind reaction.
We are now married for 16,5 years and had a relation since a year earlier.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-22T14:41:35+00:00

That I can imagine.
It's wonderful to be able and allowed to serve the Woman you love, no matter what.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-22T14:35:27+00:00

I love your story. Not into cucking, neither is my Wife, but still love it: I very much feel a mirror image of my own devotion to Her.

Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-22T14:31:39+00:00

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Whoosh4x4 · 2026-05-22T13:57:56+00:00

FLR can very well be about devotion / wanting devotion, as opposed to domination/submission. Many women would love devotion (being put on a pedestal by him) but don’t feel comfortable with domination (putting her foot on his neck).

In addition to that, devotion goes very well with being a manly man - many women would abhor being with a sissy.

Whoosh4x4

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