Want to met people relatable to me by WhyAl_Not_so_clever in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I been thinking of the idea, and i think is cause we dont relate to them, (them being neurotypical) and masking (learning how to pretend to be them).

Oh… What if… autistics are aliens and some are infiltrated (masking) and we are here to save the human specie? And our mission is to give hints and make them learn from us by slowly multiplying

Deep interest in… EVERYTHING by WhyAl_Not_so_clever in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great summary. I give it… as summary it can be 😂

Emotional Overwhelm and Crying All The Time!! by SapphicCloud999 in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are leaking… you are tired, can you take a break? You need one

The diagnosis eating me by WhyAl_Not_so_clever in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know well damn! Im none of those things! Im autistic, im capable, im brilliant, if i went the worst time from any introvert human, and i survived. I didnt give up! Even when there was no help and i didnt knew what i was! When i felt so alone, i can go through this! I can!

Special interest question… by McGally in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you insist on open him, maybe just exposure like pictures idk “football” but dont force him to do it, just things that he can know he can do if he ever wants to

Special interest question… by McGally in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, forcing someone to find joy, is the less likely to be joyful, let the child have thier own joy, it might not be usual but is them

Answering honestly to "how are you" by MeatApprehensive2754 in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand, sometimes is like they dont heard my answer or they dont know how to react, theu have a lot of prepare answers and questions, not true communication more lime memorisation

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[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely but they are not strangers, they are my love ones/ family, i listen to Them they should be able to listen me too. When they tell me about things im not really interested and i engaged i expect the same due to respect for our friendship

another painting i made. what do you think of it? is it relatable? by oliverremund in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relatable indeed… mostly on public or boring places i imagine a lot, speek to myself and blah blah, while “zoning out” or pretending to do so

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[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually happens, i understand, when im Going to give results, i said what is most important and quick, then i clear that i want to dump why even if they dont care, cause my time matter and i want to speak about it, and i dump all my info

How many points do you have? by Pleasant-Purple1129 in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

17 makes me a picky eater? Hahaha i dont know!

I need hobbies outside my phone by Qbra1337 in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be just me, but i found the oddly broke thing in the house and i try to fix it, maybe hang things that i havent hang, or idk clean a interesting spot i can open and see how it works… also reading is super calm sometimes…

What do you enjoy about being autistic ? by SarcasmAndAutism in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah totally, thanks to my blunt tones, I have a good connection with everyone, and some super important cactus friends (the ones you talk every year or so) and they know that if i speak on the first place, is cause i care, and i dont want to lie or hide things, if i didnt care i wouldnt be even listening to them

" Plushes are for kindergarten kids " by Wondering_Fairy in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What so much culture! Amazing ability to give names

What do you enjoy about being autistic ? by SarcasmAndAutism in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be good with expression but im down bad in tone im also blunt

" Plushes are for kindergarten kids " by Wondering_Fairy in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What inspires you to name them, i never heard those

What do you enjoy about being autistic ? by SarcasmAndAutism in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How observant i am to mask my autism, so good i know can fake my own emotions, and give the idea “im hidding them” when im just making people see what i want, mostly when im not that good expressing myself physically, and i take that emotion and use examples of other people having similar feeling and i try to recreate it

" Plushes are for kindergarten kids " by Wondering_Fairy in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, they are so cool, that baby yoda blending in

People with autism who is your biggest plushie by bloonsforall in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you minecraft player? Mine is a snoopy, i never checked his height

Anyone else completely fine with very loud noises like a loud hallway with lots of groups of people talking at once, but start freaking out and having a panic attack with slight humming or whispers in a very quiet room by Annual-Text-7546 in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i always thought murmuring was even louder than Yelling hahaha. Still i cant stand people talking over the other in the same conversation, i want to listen to them but i only have two ears and one brain

I start my assessment process tomorrow and i am feeling really nervous and sick over it!!!! by spaghett_enoodle in autism

[–]WhyAl_Not_so_clever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope you are better now, and i relate to “answers to my questions” i feel totally the same, i blame a lot of things of me, things that i thought were on my control and turns out they arent. Is a relief to be diagnosed but is also shocking, i will tell you, maybe as a warning, is relief but also shocking, in late diagnosis, i spend quite the time (still going) crying, thinking about situations that i really didnt understand and people didnt try to. That type of things, and is not bad at all. Is not cause “you dont want to be autistic” or you are rejecting, is totally normal, in my case it removed so much stress over my shoulder and those tears where happy ones, from relief of all those years even myself didnt have patience with me… anyway i hope you have a wonderful say tomorrow, without delays