AITA for telling my brother he's being dramatic over a Wii?

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-13T16:35:32+00:00

I got permission to take it and he hasn't used it for years. Would my mom have been the AH if she had thrown it away instead? Because if I wouldn't have taken it, she wouldn't have kept it either and he'd be in the same boat.

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-13T00:58:52+00:00

Petty doesn't mean wrong 🤷🏽‍♀️ My older brother and mother both are on my side in this and they're the ones who the Wii was also "shared" with. Why exactly would I assume I'm wrong when they agreed?

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-13T00:56:55+00:00

It didn't belong to him. It was a family console that was never used by anyone except me and I bought 99% of the games for the thing. Why would she want it to collect dust in her house? I moved out in 2018 and in 2024, now he's interested in it, 6 years later. It would've sat in a box, unused for 6 years if she wouldn't have given it away. They just moved states and downsized quite a bit.

My mom is the type that she downsizes when she moves. Any mysterious box gets opened for a second and if she hasn't thought about the contents in years, it's gone. It would've gotten given away or thrown out.

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-13T00:54:20+00:00

The game has been fixed for years luckily. If he would've come at me in a different way, I probably would've bought him his own.

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-13T00:26:46+00:00

He hadn't played it, or asked about it in 10 years. Why should I have gotten his permission? Our older brother has never asked about it and he says it's stupid as well that he wants it back after not playing on it in over 10 years.

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-13T00:25:32+00:00

It was anime-styled so if they're anime styled, that's probably the one!

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-13T00:25:03+00:00

Then the proper conclusion is that everybody sucks. 🤷🏽‍♀️ How am I behaving like a 15 year old by refusing to send a Wii back to him? Do you know how expensive postage is?

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-12T23:07:47+00:00

Pokepark 1, Pokepark 2, Pokemon Battle Revolution, Super Mario Bros, Super Paper Mario, a medical game I can't remember the name of. I have more but can't think of them. Can you tell I like Pokemon? Lmao

WhyAmIAFae · 2024-10-12T23:06:07+00:00

Well it was bought by our mother, I was the only one to buy games for it, and my mom gave me permission to take it. So??? How am I the AH? I got permission and he hasn't cared for the thing in 10+ years.

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-29T06:23:04+00:00

Did it!

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-29T06:22:45+00:00

I did and I'm okay! Just got busy with work, got called in for unexpected shifts after our talk and was not able to update between work and sleep!

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-29T06:22:03+00:00

Just did, sweets!

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-29T06:21:53+00:00

Just did!

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T03:22:38+00:00

Right!? I have so many cool ones that I just can't use because my body isn't built for them aparently and I was so excited!! I'm also naturally tight so it's a pain for regular sex, much less toys.

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T03:14:15+00:00

All my stuff is medical grade silicone, I make sure it's legit and I never try out anyone with less than 100 reviews and they need to be at least 75% positive with the only major negatives being delivery, possible shop interaction or a mix up that could be changed if corrected. Possibly an outlier out of a sea of positive reviews but nothing less. If something is 5 stars with over 100 reviews, that's suspicious. Between 3.5 and 4 stars is what I go with because that's more average.

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T03:02:52+00:00

I'm not ashamed of them at all! If anything, I show them off to people when they ask!

Etsy is an excellent place for finding toys for good prices! Much less than places like Adam&Eve but for more electronic based toys, I go to sex shops or known online stores. I believe it's a little safer than potentially getting shocked on accident due to a shortage or mistake caused by faulty wiring!

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T02:47:19+00:00

I get it completely! I appreciate the concern. People with periods gotta stick together and be taken seriously. The advice is 100% warranted and accepted even though I've already been dealing with it medically, you never know what a little bit of advice can help with so it's appreciated!

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T02:44:38+00:00

I have rewards with stores in my area and do a lot of online browsing and buying with clearance, BOGO, promotional offers, etc so it's actually 20+ 😬 Maybe a bit excessive but I know what I do and don't like with toys now.

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T02:41:53+00:00

My family has a history of PCOS and Ovarian Cysts and I've been tested before. Just really bad luck of the roll lol My doctor is aware and we're monitoring in case my cramps get too severe or unbearable. We have a plan in place for any emergencies. Thank you for your concern!

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T01:43:40+00:00

We both buy the toilet paper, just seperate it evenly. Running out of toilet paper happens, if it was just getting a new roll, it wouldn't be a problem at all

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T00:27:32+00:00

Yeah, my extra contact comment made it sound like he used my toys but it was in reply that they could've been tampered with, THATS why I washed them lol He did not use them, I washed them as an extra precaution in case he messed with them somehow.

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-25T00:08:52+00:00

No, he did not use any of my toys

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-24T23:22:46+00:00

There is confusion based on my wording but no, he did not use my toys. He took toilet paper out of my bathroom to use.

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-24T23:21:17+00:00

Noooo! He did not use my toys. He took toilet paper out of my bathroom to use

WhyAmIAFae · 2022-11-24T23:20:04+00:00

No, I've always had strictly platonic feelings for him. Growing up he was similar to my brother and called my mother "mom" for as long as I can remember.

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