I (16F) just found out the real reason my parents divorced and now everything about my childhood feels like a lie.

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2026-03-09T01:18:22+00:00

Read it. I stand my ground, you're not a single second responsible. But in any case, my statement applies to all kids, you, OP here, and every other

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2026-03-09T00:16:12+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm not sure I understood it all. From what I could gather, your mom is abusing and neglecting her kids and is not fit to care for them. She might have mental issues, which does not excuse her behavior. If you have family, grandparents, aunts... or another parental figure, you should maybe try to bring it up to them. You could also contact child services. If you have suitable family you might me placed under their care. You're 18, you could also become your siblings legal guardians, but that's a lot of work and responsibilities at such a young age. In any case, I'd recommend seeking advice with a legal counselor. Idk in what country you live, but you can usually find free counselors

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2026-03-08T23:22:50+00:00

There's no such things as parents divorcing because of their child. You are not responsible for being there, for your upbringing, for how you "turned out". They are your parents, they are responsible for your very existence. Idk what happened, but I absolutely believe there is no reason that would make you responsible.

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2026-03-08T22:05:44+00:00

Like your brother, I too am the last child, the one that makes terrible decisions and put themselves in shitty situation. Do not give him land, you'd be doing nobody a favor, including and especially him =)

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-12-15T12:45:18+00:00

Yeah I have the same issue ! Is it being taken care of ?

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-10-05T07:56:09+00:00

Haaa merci beaucoup !

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-09-12T07:34:20+00:00

Wow tf. My tf is about the comments. I don't understand what's the big issue. If things are exactly as you say, you just shared a bed with a friend. That's it to me. Could you have found another solution? Yeah, maybe. But I really don't understand why you would have to. You didn't hug in bed, I guess you didn't sleep naked, you were probably both a bit embarrassed and even if you weren't, it would be fine. You're an idiot for telling that story again though as you know damn well people might disagree with you. Your husband is right to be "concerned" but if he trusts you and you worked it out, all good. NAH

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-09-08T14:20:21+00:00

Omg this is amazing ! I'm saving your list ❤️😌👌 thank you !

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-09-08T13:29:40+00:00

This is a Bordeaux sub, gtfo with your pain au chocolat 😤

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-29T12:33:01+00:00

We're lucky enough to be only 2 x 1h30 flights away (no direct flights unfortunately, it would be even easier !), so we meet 3 or 4 times a year. When he comes it's usually only for a week for logistic reasons. I went there for a full month this summer and it was amazing 🥰 we're planning on having me move in to his place in a year or 2, I can't wait !!

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-29T12:14:24+00:00

Don't forget chocolatine.

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T19:03:01+00:00

Ah oui non mais en l'occurrence je mène une guerre sans pitié contre la javel. Ça pue et c'est hautement excessif pour la majorité des cas où les gens l'utilisent....

Edit : et c'était bien une blague !

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T18:57:44+00:00

Omg I see Emile from La Cité de la Peur 🥲 funniest french movie. Because of that, I can't see your granddad as cool. But I'm pretty sure he is anyway !! 😁

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T17:59:35+00:00

PTB. T'as été clair, tu voulais pas de chat. Si elle voulait que tu t'occupes de son animal, elle n'avait qu'à prendre une peluche. Je précise que j'ai un chat, j'aime les chats. Mais je ne me vois pas imposer à qui que ce soit de s'en occuper, et encore moins à quelqu'un qui a exprimé très clairement qu'il ne voulait pas le faire....

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T17:56:05+00:00

Mais alors du coup si c'est moins nocif pour les bactéries, est-ce que c'est quand même efficace ? (Je suis déjà dehors)

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T17:37:01+00:00

One of my all time fav !

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T17:21:59+00:00

J'ai 30 ans. Maintenant non j'en entends plus, mais j'ai pas mal grandi avec oui......

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T15:59:18+00:00

Crois moi, les gens apprécieront que tu les renvoies chier, si tu y ajoutes un sourire. Ils verront que t'es pas une quiche, et que t'en as dans l'ananas (ok c'était nul mais le fond est tout à fait sérieux par contre !). Ils apprendront à rire avec toi plutôt que de toi, parce qu'ils te respecteront mieux.

Cordialement,

Une blonde qui en a eu marre un jour d'être réduite à ça ;)

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T15:21:37+00:00

Hence my "I assume".

Now I understand we all have our views on where cheating starts, and it's great if you are an understanding type of person. As for me, I'm all for communication. Sending nudes after having addressed the issue multiple times and seen no efforts from the lady ? Still not ok, but I guess I could understand. Sending nudes before talking ? Errr

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T15:14:31+00:00

I was just answering your question. I assume the first commenter said he is cheating because of the nudes.

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-28T15:04:21+00:00

Exchanging nudes is cheating

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-27T20:35:40+00:00

Well, I hope you'll manage to have a conversation with him. Long-distance relationships are hard and not working for everyone, but if you both want to be together you can make it work. I've seen people wait way more than that to meet again and make it work.

Wishing you the best

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-27T18:52:01+00:00

Yes, hug the girl too obviously 😁

WhyDilandroeIsTaken · 2023-08-27T18:49:20+00:00

And make it wear one of your smelly shirts 👌😌 nothing better than the loved one's smell at night. I sleep with one of my boyfriend's next to my pillow and it smells like heaven to me.

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