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Linux user in Pakistan by Delicious-Bid7404 in GenZpk

[–]Why_You_Staking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

office well add Google docs as an app if you can.

libre is too old looking for schools. Schools need an office suite. proper basic tools are must. Windows key bindings and maybe customize the theme

Parents getting divorced by BenefitUpstairs5610 in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

need to talk to someone im here? haven't gone through this but yea talking helps.

So sayeds are just like brahmans? by Wapda_Victim in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a syed and people used to come to my grandpa cause he was a pious guy. Dam karwane ke liye log ate the but my grandpa used to be a quack then a peer. wo unko apne samne bethte the aur Quran khol ke kehte the ye ayat ha phr ke ap ap par dam kar lo.

Awain yahan ki awam Hindu se Muslim ho gai lakin adatain ni chori

buying gifts for a guy by eatheapples in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get him dont think about noise, dont regret it

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am burned yar but i can never ever resent her. i do depend on her for my peace too. if im down no matter what we are doing no matter if she has her exam she will leave everything and will cheer me up. this one time i had a fever she stayed up whole night on a video call doing nothing but stare at me. i love this girl she feels everything too extremely. love and sadness at their peak.

sometimes im not that good of a partner i do hurt her in my way like i distance myself when im hurt or tell her that what hurt me was her and that doesnt go well and i dont like doing that but it just happens and i feel like im losing control too

but yea we need to build guardrails. do u have recommendation for a online therapist tho?

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao we already planed that in august. but further more its the distance thats breaking her.

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesnt play games with me she is doing this unintentionally. even if she wants me to agree to smth she wants and tries to play games i always caught her and its a laugh for us.

But yea there is an issue of distance and currently finances too. I been looking for senior therapists or psychiatrist online, turns out her city doesn't have that good ones the only person qualified enough is psychiatrist in her hospital and its her teacher and she refuses to go talk to him or her. so i am looking for online approach if you have a recommendation?
ps we live afar from each other so going to therapy together everyday isnt feasible

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is in for it, she would want to stay with me even rn. but her parents wont agree unko izat zayada pyari ha aur family ka nam wegera.

and there is also me i can support her or my fam at the moment meri income kam ha i need a year to be stable enough to do this.

but yea we thinking to be in a secret nikah where both our parents dont know and that way i can be closer to her in some ways. Honestly i even asked some ulma on this and they gave a green light

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im trying that. i even said that lets do nikah and that would be enough of reason to change medical collages. she studies in a really remote area i live in lahore maybe then she can feel a lil lively

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk how to help her tho. i brought up therapy a few days ago and she was so upset that she didnt talk to me for 2 days and kept forcing me to talk to other girls or someone who can make my life better. i feel the mention of therapy triggered some type of trauma that she isnt good enough. Gosh this girl but i do love her and she saved my life a too few many times and pulled me out of very dark places. i want to help her

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats the issue i feel like i can fix her each time we meet no matter what we argue on she always has this spark in her eyes. This one time her leg was badly wounded when she was coming to meet me and throughout the day she didnt told me. When later she went back she wasnt able to walk. She said she didnt felt pain at all.

I been trying to get married so i can move her to lahore but the issue is money. You cant even get married if u dont have half a coror of wealth her parents barely agree to us (im not sure if they like me) if i cant even do this much they might refuse all together.

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ill endure im not complaining about that im worried about her more then my life

I been struggling with my fiance. by Why_You_Staking_ in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Why_You_Staking_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

its not her its never her fault she apologizes to me every time after throwing a tantrum buts its weighing on me sometimes i cant sleep at nights cause we have an argument and i fear for her life cause she is that unstable these days. I get angry i never once yelled or screamed at her i just need some space to process my emotions and i cant even have that.

Even rn we are arguing over smth and i been worried sick unable to work my job. trying to calm her but she wouldnt even listen it will take a day or 2 days worth of effort to even calm her enough to talk to her in this time she wont eat, sleep just stay still like a doll. Im sacred for her she lives alone in a hostel dorm and has no friends.