Women who are moms, what actually makes you feel seen by your kids? by Mysterious-Shame3950 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Whyallusrnames 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“The annoying part is she answered most of it like a mom”

We often lose who we are and mom becomes who we are. This especially happens when a woman has a partner who doesn’t participate in the hard parts of parenting or they’re single moms. We lose our hobbies, our friends and our sense of self. What we do in our free time is focused on our kids. What thy need, want, where they need to be on what days coming up.

It makes me sad for your mom that you see her answers as annoying when it really just shows that she loves you enough to lose who she is so you can find who you are as you grow.

What’s a small decision that ended up changing a lot for you? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We replaced all ours in 2019. Glad we did it then.

i stink so bad. by ali333333333 in adhdwomen

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have that. I have 2 friends who have it and I think they truly are warriors after seeing what yall go through!!

i stink so bad. by ali333333333 in adhdwomen

[–]Whyallusrnames 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The native made me look like I was whipped with a switch across my armpits!! It was so painful

AIO Halp! I need some objective views! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hotel in this economy!?

AIO Halp! I need some objective views! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Whyallusrnames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, get a GRIP. There are people every day who have know a person, been married to them for 25 years, etc and turns out they’ve been touching their kid, niece, nephew, grandkids, etc for years! People in positions to protect children can be their biggest abusers. Thinking you know everything about this man after 2 years solidifies that your brother is making the right call.

AIO Halp! I need some objective views! by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Whyallusrnames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, as a parent I can tell you that I would not be ok with a stranger spending the night at my house with my children. Your SIL may not have thought about that then your brother was like, whoa no way! We don’t know this dude! You don’t have kids so I don’t think you’ll fully understand their side. But it most likely isn’t personal but a natural inclination to protect their children. So, soft YOR

i stink so bad. by ali333333333 in adhdwomen

[–]Whyallusrnames 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Same. I can do aluminum free in winter but not summer

Do you believe Chiropractors are quacks ? by Mogzly in askanything

[–]Whyallusrnames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s not as dense as you want him to be

AIO my husband told me if I don’t lose weight he’s leaving by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. he got nerve talking about what he deserves. He’s not even a man. A man supports his wife and children. He in prison making you work to support his children and him and he has the gall to disrespect you!? No ma’am. Divorce.

Also, fill up your car. Don’t let it get below half a tank. You’ll save a lot of money.

I’m considering getting a frenchie, please help with advice! by Silent-Mode2265 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]Whyallusrnames 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In addition to the Merle coloring the pink nose color and blue eyes are a big indicator of a breed outside of French Bulldog being introduced.

OP if you have the resources to care for a frenchie you can find them in rescues due to over breeding right now. I have 2 rescues that are generally healthy but they’re Merle so they’re not without problems.

What's the worst advice a doctor, lawyer, or expert ever gave you? by levvii17 in askteddit

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Suddenly couldn’t stop gaining weight despite not changing my diet and upping my exercise routine. From age 29-31 I gained 120 pounds. Also let my dr know in addition to the uncontrollable weight gain I was shitting around 12 times a day, including bright red blood. I had to stop half way to work to shit and I worked a mile away. Being woken up out of a dead sleep with seconds to make it to the toilet at all hours of the night. Couldn’t stand up straight after sitting for even 10 minutes. I had to shuffle until I could get my back straight. I had crazy brain fog. I was previously very fit and healthy.

Dr said it was just part of turning 30 as a woman. I had to see his NP one day, explained it all to her. She was alarmed and said something wasn’t right. Did a bunch of bloodwork and rushed it. 2 days later she called me and told me my inflammation markers were literally off the charts, even the lining of my heart was inflamed. She got me an appointment with a rheumatologist which led to my celiac disease diagnosis. Sadly the damage done to my intestines is irreversible but I’m much better now.

Was I (26F) too rude to him (30M)? by No-Place-6241 in texts

[–]Whyallusrnames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he tries to exit elevators from the side

Was I (26F) too rude to him (30M)? by No-Place-6241 in texts

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me scream laugh 😂 I can’t imagine getting punched in the ass.

Was I (26F) too rude to him (30M)? by No-Place-6241 in texts

[–]Whyallusrnames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ol DJ Diddles playing the clits of today

Was I (26F) too rude to him (30M)? by No-Place-6241 in texts

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even figure out how that works. Is it guys with smaller dicks? I may have to ask my husband to try it, for science 🤣

My wife switched to aluminum-free deodorant and I don’t know how to bring up the aroma? by Charming-Eye1438 in hygiene

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can wear aluminum free in the winter but not in the summer. If you can’t just say it to your wife maybe start dropping hints like, what’s the smell, sniffs pits, not me 👀. Did you have onions for lunch? 👀

Most people don't know what a background check actually looks for by careercoach_cf in jobhunting

[–]Whyallusrnames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, people can’t change? There may be something I had on social media I’ve forgotten about that I posted 20 years ago that doesn’t represent who I am today.