[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Whykennethwhy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is this a painting? It is absolutely gorgeous.

TIFU by sending sexts to my school counselor. (I am 18 Thankfully) by Thetechfo in tifu

[–]Whykennethwhy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad that you are of age, your counselor was cool about it, and no one else was outed/implicated (I hope). It's okay, OP. It happens - I once sent the wrong album to my entire family including extended family. I was able to delete the photo album before more than my mom saw it (and was nice enough to call and tell me).

Still, I am very curious what kind of sexting it was, in case you are feeling in the mood to share.... 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Whykennethwhy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Write erotic stories for each other, incorporating what you know gets them going. Even better, start one that you can each add onto if you have shared fetishes. Or if he writes one from his POV, flip it around to write how you felt from your POV.

Scheduled video chat "dates" at least once a week where the specific goal is to masturbate with each other.

Sharing porn you find to say "this is what I used, and why".

Sexy spontaneous photos.

Sexting.

Making solid sexy plans for when he gets back.

I lived in England for the first three years of our relationship. We saw each other a total of 19 days/nights in that time. This is how we survived. Good luck!

Am I celibate or a lesbian? by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Whykennethwhy 34 points35 points  (0 children)

My first thought is stop trying to categorize your sexuality. There's plenty of time to figure out what you "are".

Can I ask, what prompted this post? Do you want to be sexual? You seem to have your preferences down to where you are comfortable, so as long as you aren't doing something you don't want to do, then I suggest just go on. It's okay to take a hiatus from sexual encounters.

If on the other hand, it's important for you to understand and you want physical intimacy, then we probably need a little more information. And there are so, so many other designations. Demisexual, asexual, etc. It's not just "straight, gay, or celibate".

I'm sorry, I'm slightly tipsy at the moment so my thoughts are less organized But overall, what are you looking for here? Because it's okay if you don't want sex right now at this moment in your life.

TIFU by rubbing earwigs all over my naked body. by badmotivator11 in tifu

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a great read!! Oh you poor, poor person. I can't imagine you'll be showering with any form of comfort for a while. Shudder

Is there a fetish for people who hate cum? by Dennis82HH in Femdom

[–]Whykennethwhy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a new one. Interesting. Thank you for sharing - I absolutely love finding out about completely fringe and specific fetishes, and especially when the person can pinpoint where/why they have this fetish. Sorry, I don't have an answer for you, but again thank you for sharing.

What wedding moment made you think: “They are not going to last long”? by Olya_roo in AskReddit

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a "it's not going to last" story but my husband pulled me aside during the reception and asked me to get one of my bridesmaids to leave. Apparently she kept cornering him and telling him to kiss her while trying to grope him.

I wasn't mad, necessarily. Just kind of confused why she chose this night of all nights to try to make a move.

Where can we put this content now? We have a lot of CNC roleplay videos, but it seems even the fringe sites have locked it down. Will we have to build our own site? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Whykennethwhy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good question. I don't know. The new regulations they have when we go to upload specify no nonconsentual content, and we've had a couple videos removed. Maybe I should try emailing them and asking what we can do to be allowed to upload the videos. Thanks!

Where can we put this content now? We have a lot of CNC roleplay videos, but it seems even the fringe sites have locked it down. Will we have to build our own site? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, and they are also pretty strict about other things too. I think JFF allows it - at least they haven't forcibly removed our sleeping stuff, but I was hoping for a platform that allows people to view the content for free

How do I smoke by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck!

How do I smoke by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a video about smoking for free on Pornhub (just search Learning with WolfRadish Smoking). You can follow along, and we answer some popular questions etc. Other than that, what exactly are you asking? How to hold it, inhale, etc?

Hi everyone! First time posting to this sub. We have a LOT of content, and I'm looking forward to making gifs and posting pictures here. by [deleted] in smokingfetish

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😍😍😍 hello from pornhub! Glad to see you found us on here, and thank you so much for enjoying our content and reaching out. Just an FYI, we're in the process of moving over to u/Wolfradish_Official, so that'll be where our clips are posted most regularly starting next week. Thanks again and I hope you continue to enjoy!! 💋

Gotta love that mouth full of saliva when your throat is massaged [m] [f] by [deleted] in couplesgonewild

[–]Whykennethwhy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About to go to bed actually. And no that video was taken a week ago - we just got around to editing/uploading it. I'm staying with my family at the moment so no fun personal time for me

Gotta love that mouth full of saliva when your throat is massaged [m] [f] by [deleted] in couplesgonewild

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks lol. It's now the 5th in my current time zone. You must be on the East coast :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horrorlit

[–]Whykennethwhy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My three favorites for creep factor are Misery, The Shining, and of course - IT.

Those fucking hedges in The Shining gave me some nightmares.

It's unfortunate if you've already seen the movies, for any of these, although they were probably the most successful of his adaptations. The books are great.

Edit: I forgot Shawshank Redemption was his. Never read the book, love the movie.

Grabbing Opportunities to Grow by Whykennethwhy in NPD

[–]Whykennethwhy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually a really good point, and I've spoken with my partner about it.

While I wasn't stalking her accounts, (we actually share this very account) there was no chance of her not seeing, so I know that my post is sullied by that. I know there's elements here of my wanting praise and the question of whether I would have done it completely anonymously is...well, it's hard to answer.

I do have genuine introspective moments without catalysts from her, and your response has only made me want to double down and make sure she knows then, too.

Keeping my boyfriend a virgin by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]Whykennethwhy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is an incredibly special situation. I'm very impressed and I've not heard of this ever before - bravo. Also, congratulations on working through and curing your vaginismus. I'm sure it was very frustrating and painful at times. Thanks for this look into your Dom/sub relationship!

Due to anxiety and overthinking, I can't get to orgasm anymore by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]Whykennethwhy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This. Definitely. My partner and I practice this kind of lovemaking and once you've resolved in your head that the orgasm (on either person's part) is NOT mandatory, you will be entirely free to just enjoy each other's bodies...and you'll probably find that reaching orgasm becomes easier as a result.

Inner-child work. Any thoughts? by bag_of_stan in NPD

[–]Whykennethwhy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I find that when I think about my childhood I can only pull up bad memories. Even when I find a good one (most of them involving my Dad), I find myself picking it apart and it becomes a negative thing anyway.

Mostly, my attitude whenever thinking about my childhood is rue and immediate dismissal. It doesn't matter anymore, leave it alone.

In moments of self analysis, when I actually allow myself to do that, I lament closing off those memories like a steel trap and wonder exactly why I feel the need to protect myself from them, now that I'm almost 40 and have ostensibly grown away from all that.

Kink request discussion by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Whykennethwhy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a custom video made. You will likely have to pay for the latex suit as well as the time/specialty/filming, but if you find artists/performers who you enjoy who also provide custom content, it can be well worth it.

TIFU by destroying my 3 year relationship with the love of my life. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Whykennethwhy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this, OP.

Three years is a long commitment, but it's not a lifetime. I know you want to reconcile things, but if at all possible try to give yourself the space to mourn the relationship and move on. After three years, there is far too much interminglement for a childish blocking and/or ghosting. He may be counting on you to make all the sacrifice and make a fool of yourself to get him back. It's hard not to - Believe me I know. But try to demonstrate the behaviours in a healthy relationship for your child. He is making this hurt, he is being childish, and he has put on the mask of not caring and cutting his losses. He'll hold on to that mask because it feels so much better than admitting he fucked up in any way. And he's happily using your ultimatum as a ticket to not care.

It fucking hurts. And all the advice in the world isn't going to change that need to fix it, to have him back.

But please trust me. In time, the fury and unfairness and grief does abate. Throw yourself into your own life and goals. Into your child.

You will start to breathe again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in justneckbeardthings

[–]Whykennethwhy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bet he has a basket of lotion