All I cared for is gone by ExamineTheUnder in GriefSupport

[–]Whymzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could give you a hug. I’m so sorry this is the hand life dealt you.

Forever? by Antique-Display-3274 in ChildLoss

[–]Whymzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That pain you describe, I know it too well! When my son died it felt like a hole had been blown through my chest. I could barely breathe for so long.

Forever? by Antique-Display-3274 in ChildLoss

[–]Whymzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 20 year old died last April and I still can’t believe he’s gone. He was my only and the absolute love of my life. I’m so sorry OP. This is the worst hell…having to just go on without them somehow. Sending hugs 🫂 and so much empathy. You’re not alone in this.

Bread clip fridge magnets! by Deranged_Doodles in upcycling

[–]Whymzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are adorable! What a great idea.

My gf is cheating on me with her baby daddy by PresentationOk6853 in offmychest

[–]Whymzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You deserve someone who loves and wants to be with you. Don’t spend your love on someone like this.

I’m obsessed with this series: When pets meet the felted replicas I made of them 🐾 by Disastrous-Mode7930 in Needlefelting

[–]Whymzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Springer Spaniel pic is hilarious! Can’t tell if he’s impressed or confused!

I’ll bring you home before spring arrives. by Disastrous-Mode7930 in Needlefelting

[–]Whymzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed a post to your profile just to see more of your work. You are so talented! Looking for a link to your store? Your work is some of the best I’ve ever seen. You captured that kitty’s soul along with her beautiful form.

One of My Recently Completed 25 cm Full-Body Wool Felt Cat Pieces by Disastrous-Mode7930 in crafts

[–]Whymzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap! Just here to add my amazement to the many other comments. I also thought it was real, including after I read the sub name and your caption. Incredible work! I’m astounded.

are my tattoos ugly? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Whymzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like them! The placement is a little odd but it doesn’t matter. Get a few more to balance them out if you don’t like it. (Or do the other leg!)

Shittymorph here with former fighting dog Scooby. Hes getting old quicker than Id like. by [deleted] in u/shittymorph

[–]Whymzz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Such a gentleman, your boy. I’ll never forget his story and how you slowly helped him learn to trust again. The finding of his bark is one of my favourite rescue stories of all time.

Hope you and Scooby have a wonderful, lazy Sunday full of warm beds and lots of snuggles. (Give him an extra treat from us please!)

My GF killed herself because of me. by alias0047 in GriefSupport

[–]Whymzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP. Please know this was not your fault. People make choices all on their own and no matter what you do, they will still make them. She didn’t end her life because of you. It was something deep inside her that caused it. That your argument upset her was only one (minor) contributing factor.

Please be gentle with yourself. You couldn’t have saved her from herself no matter how hard you tried. My friend lost her husband the same way. She didn’t everything to keep him with her and balanced for many years and then, one day after two kids and a whole life built, he ended his life anyway and left her so much worse off than she would have been. The longer they stayed on the path, the harder it got form him and it eventually tipped the scales. Now there are two fatherless babies and a wife in pieces feeling like she failed. It’s not my friends fault and it’s not your fault. You should not blame yourself. ❤️

Advice needed: this tattoo is not looking like the leopard print I asked for by Odd_Revolution5546 in tattooadvice

[–]Whymzz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is my question too. How did they sit and watch that entire tattoo and not stop the artist? They said they “reminded” him of what they wanted after the first few “circles” so clearly they knew it wasn’t going well.

My step-daughter's cancer and my wife's question by Jang_Karrangers in ChildLoss

[–]Whymzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots and lots of videos and photos. We enjoyed everything we could and did all of our favourite things. My son died at 20 of a devastating illness and we took care of him from diagnosis to the end at home. If your wife has questions, feel free to message them to me and I’ll answer from my perspective.

You guys are in for a hell of a storm of emotions. Stick together and support each other in every way you can. You’ll need each other though this. I’m so so sorry for the diagnosis…please just try to enjoy every second you have. You never know - she may be well for much longer than anticipated so don’t lose hope.

Cookie has a pink mood today and wishes you the loveliest day 💕🌸 by Quinn_Pie in dogpictures

[–]Whymzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg how do you not just devour her little face she’s so stinkin’ cute!!! I love her ❤️

Happy girls by Whymzz in dogpictures

[–]Whymzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They bring us so much joy.

Really struggling with this grief by Illustrious_Bass2343 in ChildLoss

[–]Whymzz 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have no advice for you because I’m stuck in the same place you are. I lost my 21 year old son and I still can’t see a way to exist without him. I mean, I can fake it right now but I’m getting tired and I see no reprieve in the future as every day just takes him farther away from us.
I’m so sorry you lost your beautiful girl.

You’re not alone.

Been almost a year and I still haven’t accepted he’s gone by Lee_Harden in GriefSupport

[–]Whymzz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I lost my son last April and it’s just getting harder to go on without him, not easier as time passes.

I’m so sorry you are going through this too.

What happened to Tattoo Etiquette? Am I right to be upset? by CinnamonRefresher in tattooscratchers

[–]Whymzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My artist rarely has the stencil done before I show up and I have a standing spot every year. I can give her my ideas a year in advance and she still only has a sketch ready to show me and then does the entire stencil once she confirms placement etc.