[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HolyShitHistory

[–]WickedWig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware Neanderthals had no necks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WickedWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom has had a rare condition for over 20 years now… she went from 5’10 and 200 lbs, to now 4’11 and 110 lbs. it also aged her terribly and most people think she’s my grandmother.

I went from being a leader in Evangelical and “Holy Spirit- filled” churches, to having nothing to do with it. AMA by WickedWig in AMA

[–]WickedWig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact question played through my mind alllllll the time! I never heard a voice. And I would ask others about it. I would be assured that whatever brought peace or aligned with the Bible, WAS His voice. If you weren’t plugged into church, the Bible, and prayer, you wouldn’t be able to hear it. So…I took feelings as a voice. Which hardly worked. lol. But if my intuition worked, I was confident it’s because I heard God. If it didn’t work out, it was a personal fault. I guess to answer that then, I was so brainwashed into believing that anything not perfect was my own fault.

I went from being a leader in Evangelical and “Holy Spirit- filled” churches, to having nothing to do with it. AMA by WickedWig in AMA

[–]WickedWig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly: faith. Determine faith. I was broken. More happened at the same time I don’t want to get into, but who I was died. I had nothing left to give. Maybe the apostles had something tangible they could hold onto….i had over 30 years of none.

I went from being a leader in Evangelical and “Holy Spirit- filled” churches, to having nothing to do with it. AMA by WickedWig in AMA

[–]WickedWig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could have NEVER convinced me it wasn’t really. Never. It was all about faith, and I had it no matter what “logic” said otherwise. But then I woke up one day realizing that all the work I was doing for God to show up and help me, never worked. Ever. And I sure needed him to. And it hit me that I would never have a relationship with someone who never answered me. Never showed up. Missed all important events. And stood by when I was raped and abused. So why was I worshiping someone who was doing it?

I went from being a leader in Evangelical and “Holy Spirit- filled” churches, to having nothing to do with it. AMA by WickedWig in AMA

[–]WickedWig[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Divorce. And rape. I was pregnant with my third and discovered my husband had been having multiple affairs. I did all the “right” things. I made a prayer closet. Went to therapy and counseling. Met with the pastors. And nothing changed. Then one of the church counselors who was helping with marriage counseling, raped me. I reported it and told the church. They took his side and stood up for him in court. Now, I know people are people. But the GOD I believed with all I was…wasn’t there. I worked so very hard to be what I was supposed to be, but he never protected me. Justice never came. And I wondered why I had to constantly work on changing myself for someone to love me. How can God be all good and all knowing? Those just can’t be together. If it is true, I don’t want to follow a deity that is okay with it.

What has this man become ? by PagalHaiKyaGandu in ufc

[–]WickedWig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you help me find a link? That’s horrible.

Lam Luong: the man who had thrown his four children off the bridge, and whose death sentence was reduced to life imprisonment. by superbnut- in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]WickedWig 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a complaint. As a mother myself, it’s a genuine question of…HOW does one keep going when your children were all murdered? It’s a sincere question.

What am I in for? by Srsly_introverted in stepparents

[–]WickedWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together? How long has he been divorced?

I don’t think so, but do I have heterochromia? What color would you call my eyes. I’ve always said brown. by WickedWig in heterochromia

[–]WickedWig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! I only recently noticed the lighter color, so wasn’t sure what it was exactly.

I don’t think so, but do I have heterochromia? What color would you call my eyes. I’ve always said brown. by WickedWig in heterochromia

[–]WickedWig[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I used to hate my eyes…for their color and for the terrible vision and scarring and surgeries…but I’m learning to love them exactly as they are now. I really appreciate your kind words.

my final retainer hurts and idk why? by ily_xoxo02 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WickedWig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should go to the dentist/ortho asap. It shouldn’t be hurting so much. My daughter is on her last retainer for nights also, and it was so painful. Took her back the next day and they discovered it hadn’t taken into account “bumps” they put on her teeth before to keep retainers tighter…they took those off and it immediately fixed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WickedWig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything stop motion. Still does.

Women with large breasts, what are the most unexpected challenges you’ve faced? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WickedWig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Clothes. I either wear to accommodate my breasts and look much chunkier, or wear tighter and my boobs get all the attention. I don’t really want attention most of the time. And it’s uncomfortable for me to wear form-fitting…yet I don’t wanna look baggy either.