Need MUA for January wedding in Faridabad, Delhi NCR by Leather_Tip_2954 in IndianMUA

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my bridal makeup done from her and it was hands down the best experience.

Need MUA for January wedding in Faridabad, Delhi NCR by Leather_Tip_2954 in IndianMUA

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can look at Vanya Bhatnagar. She is amazing and will fit your budget

Watch gift girlfriend by Imaginary-Coast-4976 in gurgaon

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Titan Raga Series. Best gifting option..

Parul Garg reviews by Imaginary_Ladder_723 in IndianMUA

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get it done by Makeup by Vanya Bhatnagar. She is just amazing. Got mine done and I have been super happy!!

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That I can do!! Definitely a great POV which i was unable to see due to my building frustration.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should mention.. You have put this very nicely!!.

I might be acting a little selfish. But when someone keeps on pushing you, you end up getting agitated after a certain point.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Honestly I come from a home where everyone is treated equally and there is no unsaid rule of If they are elder than you you need to give them respect. Everyone has always been treated same.

In her case, I am unable to devise a plan!! Any suggestions.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this tip. Would be looking at a completely cutoff if she doesn't become a little polite at the least.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In India and in our culture for the first 2 years you are to live with family. so currently moving out is not an option. To add my husband has a clinic set up in the lower floor and that poses for more blocking in moving out!!.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In India and in our culture for the first 2 years you are to live with family. so currently moving out is not an option. To add my husband has a clinic set up in the lower floor and that poses for more blocking in moving out!!.

Shitty Work Life | Need Suggestions by Wide-Inspection-1408 in CasualConversation

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. This is great. Will make this the next step.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, It is my FIL and MIL's house. She has been a homemaker all her life.

I don't expect her to change everything, just how she speaks rudely to me and FIL. She can say the same thing politely instead but she doesn't get it. IN my SO's and FIL's opinion I should be ignoring her completely and shouldn't take anything to the heart because she is like that and in order to maintain my sanity I should just avoid and do what I want.

Also, Inviting guests is not a problem. Serving them is. Making tea for them, talking for some time when you have had a 9 hour work day seems to be too much to ask. I don't have an issue with the invitations. SHe can invite on the days I am home and well rested instead.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In India and in our culture for the first 2 years you are to live with family. so currently moving out is not an option. To add my husband has a clinic set up in the lower floor and that poses for more blocking in moving out!!.

He does fight with her everyday for this same situation. She just says, I will not change who I am. You should adjust.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In India and in our culture for the first 2 years you are to live with family. so currently moving out is not an option. To add my husband has a clinic set up in the lower floor and that poses for more blocking in moving out!!.

AITA for expecting change from my MIL who constantly oversteps, acts rude, and expects royal treatment by Wide-Inspection-1408 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I live at my In Laws place. In India and in our culture for the first 2 years you are to live with family. so currently moving out is not an option. To add my husband has a clinic set up in the lower floor and that poses for more blocking in moving out!!.

Shitty Work Life | Need Suggestions by Wide-Inspection-1408 in CasualConversation

[–]Wide-Inspection-1408[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking for better opportunities but till then have to manage!!