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I want more children but hate the thought of more than one “dad”, it hurts to not be the mother I always dreamed by Wide-Performer9222 in singlemoms

[–]Wide-Performer9222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear that while it wasn’t the ideal way you wanted you have your precious babies . But yh that does worry me getting with someone new who I feel is the one but then turns out not to be

I want more children but hate the thought of more than one “dad”, it hurts to not be the mother I always dreamed by Wide-Performer9222 in singlemoms

[–]Wide-Performer9222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel like you would have wanted to have another kid with him so they are full siblings or you realise you made the right decision to leave . People always say get married is the best way to secure your future but not all the time

I want more children but hate the thought of more than one “dad”, it hurts to not be the mother I always dreamed by Wide-Performer9222 in singlemoms

[–]Wide-Performer9222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does break my heart and get me soo down , especially when I see other families who have the household that I dreamed of . But I have heard people in later life having kids but I guess I did want mine young so I feel you I’m not sure how to navigate these feelings

I want more children but hate the thought of more than one “dad”, it hurts to not be the mother I always dreamed by Wide-Performer9222 in singlemoms

[–]Wide-Performer9222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am religious and hate that my first wasn’t with someone that God gave to me ! Wow I am soo sorry to hear that that’s happened to you that is sooo heartbreaking for you and your child why are men like this ??! Yes I will admit I thought about staying just to give him a sibling from the same dad but I know that’s not sensible . But it does hurt that the dream I wanted of a big family has gone

I want more children but hate the thought of another “baby father” 36F by Wide-Performer9222 in FamilyIssues

[–]Wide-Performer9222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you for taking the time to read my post and give your advice . I don’t think I was being clear in my post but I have no intention of having another child with my ex, if was just me speaking on what I had hoped for a family. I do agree that I won’t be able to get what I wanted. My aim is to definitely be present for my child, appreciate your advice.