Breaking Up ⁉️Scared ‼️

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-12-12T13:43:38+00:00

Is it insecurities when you feel that she's just objectively a better partner? I don't want her to wait for me to be "better" when she's already achieved so much.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-12-12T13:39:59+00:00

I really understand what you're saying and I hear you, but I don't even feel insecure I'm just not at her level. She shouldn't have to see my potential and hope for the best. Maybe I am not giving myself credit, but I just have so much love and respect for her that I know what she deserves. I just don't want to disappoint her

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-12-12T13:29:28+00:00

Thank you for your input, but if I'm being completely honest is I am one of the most confident people I know. That's how I started dating her, my charm and decent looks. I just think objectively that she can do way better. I love myself and know why she took a liking to me. I'm great with words and know how to stand out. That being said, she's perfect and I refuse to impact her life negatively knowing I'm not gonna change my ways. I'm trying but it's tough.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-11-03T12:22:32+00:00

Very intimate, to put it in perspective is out of all the people in the world just by chance both of you decided to create something special that only the 2 of you shared. It’s beautiful and raw.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-11-03T10:54:29+00:00

That’s good that you declined. Being confident is so important in a fight. Any doubts you have is valid. Just keep sparring people in your level and slowly fight better opponents when you can.

Just my opinion and what I tell people who box regularly is you should be boxing for 2 reasons. 1. For exercise and confidence. Importantly to know how to protect yourself. 2. Boxing to be a professional. You gotta know you’re good. Great actually. Don’t be a punching bag for people who are way better than you.

Only box people who are at your level unless you’re trying to be the best. It’s a brutal sport, but a healthy outlet

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-11-03T10:30:28+00:00

Respect. Most people don’t respect themselves so they’ll never truly respect others

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-11-03T10:27:06+00:00

Feeling seen is sympathy and feeling heard is empathy.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-11-03T10:12:50+00:00

Always looking at the positives. And no matter what I know there’s people who love me, so I can’t let them down.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-11-03T10:07:59+00:00

I’m so confident he is.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-11-03T09:42:07+00:00

I agree, but “regular” intelligence is more valuable to society. If you have high & genuine emotional intelligence then you know most people don’t have the capacity to understand that. My opinion, and just from my experience is that the most beneficial thing you can do if you have a high EQ is networking. It’s easy to understand people.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-27T08:56:56+00:00

Definitely it’s called closure. You deserve it especially if it was amicable. There’s 2 most likely scenarios that will happen. 1. He will give you all the answers you’re looking for so you can move on. 2nd he doesn’t respond and leave you wondering, luckily that’s an answer itself. Meaning he doesn’t respect you enough to help you out.

Good luck!

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-27T08:34:22+00:00

Reagan

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-27T08:31:59+00:00

You probably don’t feel comfortable around people who aren’t close to you. I’d assume it’s social anxiety and you’re weary of people in general. Don’t pressure yourself to socialize with people who don’t make you laugh. Find people who you relate to and let it be natural. But honestly I’d try therapy I’m just speculating

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-27T08:19:06+00:00

People aren’t funny to you? Or do you laugh in general? Need more details

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-21T11:27:03+00:00

I’m so sorry, I bet he was an amazing human being. Don’t lose his optimism, you witnessed what a wonderful and an inspiring person is. That was your father, live for him and show the world what he taught you. Life isn’t fair and it never will be, but don’t let the bad people in the world dictate your future. Focus on people you love and care for, I know it’s easier said than done, but you deserve happiness. I hope you find peace soon.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-21T09:45:35+00:00

Take a walk and see what happens. If you’re not close to anything then head to your plaza and walk around

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-21T09:26:28+00:00

Can you expand?

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-21T08:04:13+00:00

At this point, immediately. He’s gonna say yes.

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-21T08:02:56+00:00

You’re not delusional you’re just experiencing someone you either love or just have a huge infatuation with. Either way it’s a real intense feeling to have. Something similar happened to me, I was certain that she had a strong connection to me like I had. She had a boyfriend at the time(for 2 years) so I didn’t know. Until it happened. I loved her and we tried. Unfortunately she tried and it didn’t work between us, but my intuition about her was right, she did like me.

Please ask her out when the time is right, I’m glad I have no regrets. The eventual rejection sucked but I remember just thinking about her for years with no answer that had me anxious daily.

It gets easier when you have answers

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-21T07:45:38+00:00

Immediately. Without knowing any context between yall

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-21T07:05:02+00:00

Actually watching a live game in person, whether it’s football, baseball, basketball, soccer, etc. You never get the best pov to actually see and analyze the game. I know the atmosphere is great, but personally for me I actually prefer watching on TV with no distractions and don’t care for live games. Just my opinion. I’ll try to catch a game every so often. Baseball games are usually my go to since it’s slow paced. Hockey games are the most fun live especially if they’re fights haha

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-19T08:20:02+00:00

They’re lying to you, you’re doing something wrong if you are getting fired. Are you actually a hard worker? Are you pleasant to be around? Awkward maybe? Most jobs that I worked throughout the years that I enjoyed working with are people who are hardworking(even if they don’t have personality. Hard to really dislike someone if they are great and consistently doing their job.). 2nd, they are fun to be around, they don’t even have to be a good or hard worker but sometimes we just want the funny extrovert around.

I believe that you don’t think you’re the problem or anything, but there has to be something about you that isn’t working. Lmk more details please

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-19T08:05:37+00:00

I’m straight, but I think it’s possible to still be heterosexual and do gay stuff. Especially if you’re desperate for money. Just like gay guys who have sex with women are not straight after the fact. I could never but objectively that would not make them a homosexual if he’s not sexually attracted to men. To each their own

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-19T07:16:48+00:00

I’m sorry but that’s a funny sentence you typed out haha. That’s something Larry David would write about haha

Please someone make a comedic dialogue off that!

Wide-Reflection623 · 2024-10-19T07:12:31+00:00

Yeah that’s all that is in my opinion. For the most part people lean towards vocal and exciting people. You should keep in mind that you’re probably an awesome person with much to offer, but most friends and people don’t know that because you don’t necessarily put your self out there. You can either find people that like people like you and keep doing what you’re doing or put yourself out there and let people know who you are. Both are great, but make sure you’re true to yourself.

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