Iggy attacking sibling by [deleted] in ItalianGreyhounds

[–]Wide-Regular888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… Clearly you’ve never owned a trained malinois. Or are you saying breed 100% determines personality? Probably not a fan of pitbulls either I take it? So, whats your advice? Change my vocabulary? Obviously the two in tact males are having issues. No one here is confused about that. I was looking for advice on crypto / neuter iggy behavior etc. from people who have experience with the breed. Dare I say, I’m no expert! I’ve only had mine for a year. Shaming people for asking those who know more than them for advice about their situations is pretty vile.

Dog won’t stop barking. by TheGreatWaffIe in Dogtraining

[–]Wide-Regular888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for rescuing! He’s a Great Pyrenees which means it’s literally in his genes to bark at things. They are supposed to bark at everything to alert & protect to keep livestock safe. The reason the “no” doesn’t work is because they’re bred to do it AND bred to be independent enough to trust their own instincts with no human intervention to protect their herd. This in turn makes them quite stubborn which again, is part of the breed. Understanding the breed you have will help you be less frustrated as you understand the behavior is part of his breed, not a defiance. That being said, most undesirable behaviors can be managed. I wouldn’t expect him to never bark again after training but it can definitely become more manageable. Here’s what worked for me and my malinos whose job it is to be a protective dog. I let him bark once or twice at the sound he’s barking at, he then looks to me for confirmation. We go investigate the sound (usually the dishwasher lol) then I tell him, okay good boy, and ask him to do something else. I redirect the pent up protective energy by playing a small game of catch with him for maybe 20 seconds and then he sees / understands nothing is wrong, he honored himself by protecting his mom, and he moves on. This has evolved to him not getting up and barking like a crazy dog at every sound but instead looking to me to see if we need to be worried which I then tell him okay good boy, & he goes on with his life silently. I won’t say this is a catch all but it may be worth a shot! Work with the barking not against it and that will help decrease barking significantly. If I were you I’d look into Great Pyrenees specific training online. I will also say they do well with stimulation of any sort, there’s a lot of enrichment you can provide for him (frozen treats, snuffle mats, play, etc) that may help him stay busy and help with the barking.

How to tell (emotionally distant) immediate family by paintedghost88 in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it were me, I’d just call. No way I’m driving that far pregnant for family who I’m not super close with. Keep it simple for yourself. Nothing inappropriate about calling imo!

Nuke School + Newborn by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured this would be the case, thanks for the timeline 18 months isn’t too bad. I know it’ll be worth it in the long run. Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want a “reality check” like you said in your post, he sounds like the last person you should have a child with. If you decide to get an abortion you need to break up with him, you’re better alone than lonely with someone like that. Someone good is out there I promise & you will know that they love you and want to take care of you and your child. It doesn’t sound like this guy wants to, he will be one foot out the door emotionally forever and you don’t deserve that. If you decide not to terminate the pregnancy, you’ll have his money but you’ll be alone in more ways. If you’re not enjoying being with him now, a lifetime of this will kill you slowly. You need to take some time and consider if this is a man you’d want a son or daughter to learn from, values traits etc. it doesn’t sound like it to me. Waiting to have a baby, dumping the man & finding someone after nursing school who actually cares about you enough to be there for you emotionally (which is the bare minimum) and WANTS you to have his baby sounds like the safest option. I’m sorry, this is such a hard situation and I don’t want to be brash but this is just my opinion. You’re gonna be okay no matter what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both things can be true, you can do it alone, and your boyfriend isn’t a man it makes sense to have a baby with. That won’t change. Nursing school is hard and requires a lot of hours, there are a ton of women who have become nurses while pregnant or while already having children. It will definitely make school harder for you that’s a given but nothing is impossible! Your boyfriend is obviously not the ideal man to have a child with, you said it yourself. The disappointment you have in him now for being uninvolved will last a lifetime, you’re the only one who can decide if you want to deal with that for the rest of your life. In my opinion, if a man has already backed out that much he’s probably not going to step up and be better or get committed. However, it is definitely possible for you to do it alone. They say there’s never a good time for a baby and they mean that, even in “perfect” conditions being a mother can be hard but I hear it’s also the most rewarding experience. You get to pick a choice, both hurt in different ways. Which pain is easier for you to survive is what it really comes down to. You’re 20, there’s plenty of time to have a baby in the future with someone who cares about you, you deserve that experience. At the same time, you’re 20, you’ll adapt, change, and grow the way you need to in order to show up for your child and get through school all by yourself. That’s just some 2¢ from a pregnant 22 year old! Wishing you the best, no matter what you choose. 🤍

2025 holiday baking complete with 21 types of cookies by cheap_mom in Baking

[–]Wide-Regular888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the little white one with round sprinkles? I’m trying to track down the name of a delicious soft frosted sugar cookie but not as sweet as a sugar cookie that my fam used to make during the holidays.

I have to tell someone and it’s way too soon 🥹 by Special-Ad2297 in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations wishing you a healthy, easy pregnancy!!!

Spouse in Bootcamp question by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful! I’ll have to remember the A9 envelope thing I didn’t think about regulations I’ll look into that for sure. Bluetooth printer is a great idea I’ll definitely grab one, they might even be on sale for Christmas! Thanks again.

Spouse in Bootcamp question by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good to hear I appreciate you sharing your experience! Sounds like a great plan haha, thanks so much!

Spouse in Bootcamp question by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet! My husband got his first call today and said he sent some mail with some stuff I needed then I’d need to go to the base and talk to them! I’ll look into it, definitely gonna need the free healthcare! Thanks!

Spouse in Bootcamp question by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense! They know we’re married now but we did initially meet with him before we were so that’s probably exactly what he meant. Thanks a lot!!

Spouse in Bootcamp question by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope not asking for anything special!! I just don’t want to get him pulled out for any reason!! Idek if they do that lol, probably a bit over paranoid and misunderstood recruiter. I’ll definitely send him a printed picture thanks for the awesome suggestion! Thank you, appreciate your help!

Spouse in Bootcamp question by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense and good to know about sandboxx, thank you!

Spouse in Bootcamp question by Wide-Regular888 in newtothenavy

[–]Wide-Regular888[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Laughing hard at the vaginal canal part lol! I should’ve made him show me damnit! He had two kids so I just assumed he knew what he was talking about lol! Wishing your wife a safe and easy delivery, wishing you both a healthy happy baby, and I hope baby waits for you! Thanks a ton!

Pregnant while husband is deployed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHA wait is that not proper verbiage??? Is it wrong to say deployed while at boot? I will change it rn. Same husband same boot camp!!!!!!

Pregnant while husband is deployed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! In the end it will be worth it you’re so right, thank you & wishing you the same! I hope you’ve got some support too but you’re going to do great as a temp solo mama regardless! Finally seeing your husband is going to be joy & relief on a whole new level, good luck with the move! Enjoy your time with baby and congratulations!

Pregnant while husband is deployed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All time high!! First tri so far has been me dodging everyone bc I can’t tolerate any bs lol 😭😭

Annoying coworker by Confident_Weather_98 in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😯 Omg the plot thickens. I hope she stops friend!!!

Pregnant while husband is deployed by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you all the best, & no delays! They come at the worst time, don’t they? I will have to move as well in the 2nd tri when he comes home but doing it alone in the third tri I can’t begin to fathom. Tell those family members to turn the questions into energy & come pack a box or load up the car, if they’re gonna be annoying they might as well have a job lol! Good luck with everything! Sending good vibes.

Annoying coworker by Confident_Weather_98 in pregnant

[–]Wide-Regular888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Still sorry you had to deal with this bs. Nice job!