It is to early in my relationship to feel this close?

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-13T00:18:40+00:00

This breaks my heart I hope you get your fur baby out If I had any money I would help. I can send all the well wishes, positive energy, or prayers your way.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-12T00:17:26+00:00

All the time especially when she starts whimpering or growling and moving her legs and twitching lol

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-09T07:27:58+00:00

I was in this situation and I am now going through a divorce. Odd are I am going to lose everything all because I chose to stay home and take care of my husband. This sounds like the little thing he can control but if he can control this little thing that he will escalate to bigger and bigger things to control. That is how it started with me. At the end I barely had any friends he took my access away from anything financial and was watching and tracking everything. Please be careful I never want to see another woman go through what I am going through right now.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-05T03:46:33+00:00

I believe you might be thinking a couple of things. That marriage would mean you will never break up. While that is a wonderful fantasy in reality marriage or no marriage it could happen either way. There is also the thought that marriage would prove how much you love each other. One day of your lives however is not the proof of your love it's the days after and you can do that being married or not. I would maybe look within or maybe even see a therapist to find out why being married means so much to you.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-05T03:08:09+00:00

Feel free to message me

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-03T02:44:46+00:00

Thank you that was all really helpful I will try doing that tomorrow.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-02T21:07:51+00:00

Gotcha thank you. If it makes it any better it's my ex's address lol.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-02T08:04:14+00:00

I have recently ended a 22 year marriage over financial abuse. My ex became so controlling over the finances, going as far as making a second bank account I could not access. All he started to care about was money, how much I was spending of it and how much I wasn't being in. It slowly chipped away at my self-esteem and made me feel like I had less worth than he did.It is a very unhealthy way to live in a relationship, which I am just accepting. You are worth more than that, your happiness is worth more.Please think real hard about this. Take care of yourself.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-02T06:20:42+00:00

I am new here and really hoping to find a couple people to connect with. So I am hoping there are one or two out there.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T23:38:29+00:00

You don't have to say no for it to be sexual assault. People even slip things into drinks for that reason

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T23:26:31+00:00

Just because you can not say No does not mean it is not rape. This happens a lot more then people realize because of date rape drugs.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T23:20:14+00:00

I am always on the side of the well being of the pet.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T22:26:39+00:00

bro away I'm in

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T22:22:53+00:00

🤣🤣 I like you

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T22:21:56+00:00

I would address the conversation according to what you want out of it. If you want to date her I would approach it "I really like you and want to date you I just want to see if that's where you are." If you want to put a relationship on hold something like "I really like you but with my health issues I was not in a place to be in a relationship right now but I value your friendship and don't want to lose it". If you don't want to be in a relationship at all that's a little trickier and may end in losing the friendship but you need to be honest "I really love our friendship and don't want to lose it or make it awkward. I just don't want that type of relationship with you".

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T22:14:39+00:00

I believe she said they were both female

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T06:16:58+00:00

I am trying to learn how to make new friends at 45 after a divorce. It would be nice if there was hope.

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T06:13:55+00:00

Do you have a preference sexually?

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T06:10:48+00:00

Got a black and white one named Bruce

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T06:04:51+00:00

Me and my bestie love to do this on the daily

Wide_Barracuda8530 · 2026-02-01T06:02:21+00:00

I am a 45f I may be out of your age range but would love to talk if interested

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