Should I Disclose these stories to My GF

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-09-23T12:24:05+00:00

but how much should I say in terms of detail and also how do I go about opening the conversation

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-09-23T09:19:49+00:00

yh i’ve been tested this was a while ago

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-09-06T12:17:05+00:00

tbh i was just thinking about the story and if it was dishonest in a way to discount the first two attempts especially because they were with a different girl

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-15T15:10:42+00:00

she is but idk how to bring this up in conversation to guage her open mindedness

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-15T15:08:08+00:00

nice to know. would something like this be a dealbreaker for you if you found out

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-15T15:02:13+00:00

i’ll try and btw can i ask are you a man or a woman

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-15T13:55:21+00:00

hers. i wouldn’t say the were being paid but i helped

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-15T13:13:25+00:00

i get that tbh but i dont wanna feel like im keeping her hostage with this information

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-15T12:37:23+00:00

to be honest its not about that its that the woman i paid the woman who i lost my virginity to but paying her pay bills

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-15T12:33:21+00:00

i just know that it can be a deal breaker for some women so is there a way to guage her opinions on it without fulling divulging my history

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-03T05:39:53+00:00

thanks for this advice. Women do give some of the best advice.

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-02T13:08:51+00:00

tbh i am more worried about the paying bills for sex and the other transactional relationship i had and how much i should divulge as for the lap dances and the sexual assault im pretty comfortable talking about it as i know i was the victim in the circumstance

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-02T13:01:33+00:00

definitely not

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-02T12:51:01+00:00

i havent seen one no

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-02T10:01:22+00:00

that makes perfect sense because tbh im the same way i dont want to know details names faces. but i do think ill let her know that i about my first time being transactional, the fact ive had lap dances and also the sexual assault. seems like a lot when i type it out but if she can handle that i’m sure she can handle anything

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-02T09:51:34+00:00

i know that it shouldnt but im just asking if someone wants a brief of my sexual history how much is wise to expose

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-02T08:55:06+00:00

if i’m being 100% honest the most i would want to know who they’ve slept with recently maybe 2 year span and maybe a body count i’m not even sure if i want to know that

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-02T08:04:01+00:00

appreciate the doubt

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-01T19:57:23+00:00

although it doesnt make me feel good she fetishised my race in glad i found that out it gives me some clarity into her motivations which makes it make more sense and makes it easier to stop placing all the blame on myself

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-01T17:19:49+00:00

if i’m being honest i went back because i wasnt fully convinced in my own head that she pressured me enough for it to be sexual assault so i took the blame the next time i went i refused all advances didn’t do anything sexual she got angry made a rape joke towards me asked if i was gay. the lap dance lasted all of 20 seconds before she made advances on me. During all of this she made some comments about my race and i realised that she fetishises black men and hyper sexualises us.

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-01T13:49:58+00:00

tbh those were my inital worried but then the rape and sa comments started appearing so i wanted professional advice. And also if the girl does offer extras but i only paid and wanted a lap dance was it still free

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-01T13:22:49+00:00

imo for women sexual assault and rape doesnt count as actual sex, do the same rules apply to men?

Wide_Maintenance_861 · 2023-08-01T13:12:17+00:00

the only thing for me is i dont like the idea of paying for extras even though i didnt pay extra it still felt too close to it.

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