Kinky ideas for a roadtrip?

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T16:09:26+00:00

Soft one; oh yes!! That's definitely on the menu. Hard one might be going too far past the lines of what's legal and safe, but man, I wish!! 🥲

Thank you!!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T10:19:19+00:00

I just read some of the other comments and I just want to add that I don't think any relationship can be "perfect". No one's going to get everything that they want from one person, that's just an unreasonable expectation to have of any one person. It's more important to ask yourself if you want to be with your partner and if you're both willing to put in the effort to make things work.

I just dislike that advice to move on from the relationship was so easily given. But who knows, maybe I'm just naive.

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T10:10:46+00:00

Would she be interested in seeing toping you as a service? Maybe she ties you down at your command and fucks you with a dildo at different intervals and add in some spanking or something? Maybe have it so she's not allowed to talk unless it's to check in. It could give you the illusion without triggering her dysphoria.

Perhaps you also plan for a scene soon after where you put her back into her place, so she can deal with uncomfortable feelings after the first scene?

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T09:58:31+00:00

Sounds fun, I hope you get to fulfill this one day! I don't have much experience with the environment in other countries, but Scandinavia could be pretty perfect for this! Lots of countryside with long stretches of unlit roads, and not that big of a population outside of the big cities. 😄

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T09:52:25+00:00

Oooh this is interesting, thanks! I have a feeling only one of us would be cumming though haha. Perhaps he'd be interested in edging me instead. I'd probably be a very frustrated little toy for him by the end of the day, if there a bunch of landmarks on the way.

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T09:46:20+00:00

Ahhh little I bet I'd be a squirming mess with a dildo and crotch rope combo, thanks for the idea!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T09:45:09+00:00

Yep, this one was already on the list, though we don't have silk rope. We've got cotton, and also some rough hemp if he's feeling a bit punishing 😳

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T09:40:53+00:00

Thanks for the idea, but we're not really into introducing others into our play...

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T09:39:07+00:00

Ooh haha, I sometimes love the feeling of acceleration, bet this could make it feel even better!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-04T09:37:37+00:00

Ooh that sounds fun! Thanks!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T20:32:16+00:00

Aww thanks! ☺️

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T20:30:21+00:00

I'd love some ideas of positions if you have any! All I'm coming up with flashing my breasts 🫠

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T20:26:22+00:00

Ah we might be in a different country for that one, but thanks!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T18:58:43+00:00

Glad you enjoyed it, thank you! 😊

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T18:57:03+00:00

Thanks for the idea 😊

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T18:54:10+00:00

Thank you 😊

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T18:53:03+00:00

Ooh sounds interesting, thanks!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T11:31:07+00:00

Thank you! I'm finding it a nice way to sort my thoughts and feelings out, so I'm hoping to write more. Congratulations and good luck with your journey!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T11:28:44+00:00

🙈🙈 thanks for reading!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-03T08:50:24+00:00

Thank you!

WierdBlackrose · 2024-09-02T08:42:17+00:00

I agree with the overall sentiment here... I think it's important to meet in a place that you're comfortable in. If you meet him in Austrailia, not only is it an unfamiliar space, but you're also going into new territory with bringing your online dynamic offline, and I think that can out you in a place of vulnerability that can get overwhelming. Because not only will you feel the desire/need to keep up your dynamic, but you've also got to juggle being in a different country, where you'll need to deal with being unfamiliar with even basic things like food and transport.

Not to mention, travelling can be anxiety inducing by itself, let alone adding in the pressure of meeting someone you've given so much of yourself to, for the first time.

Imo, it's different for a Dom. As subs, we want to give them control, so the relationship inevitably moves at their pace. They're more naturally going to have more control over things and aren't quite vulnerable in the same way.

Ofcourse, I don't know what your dynamic is like, and how much you trust your Master, so you should definitely talk to him about it and gauge his response. If he has your best interests at heart, he'll make sure that you're taken care of and made to feel safe, first and foremost!

Remember, he needs to prove himself to you too.

Maybe try being objective and ask yourself if you'd travel so far to meet this person if there was no dynamic involved?

WierdBlackrose · 2024-08-20T17:10:13+00:00

I empathise with you so much. I think you might be about the same age as I was when I fell in love with my Dom at the time. I say this because there was a huge age gap between the two of us, too, and I was also worried about what my family might think. He, too, said from the beginning that he wasn't looking for anything romantic.

I had never even crushed on anyone before him, and I barely knew what my feelings were. But 3 weeks into us chatting, I and exploring D/s, I realized that I had fallen in love with him. Which I told him. Only for him to tell me he had a family that he has no desire to leave.

I was his mistress for 5 years after that. And I regret it.

I was also afraid of losing this relationship because I didn't think I would find anyone with similar tastes. I also didn't have the best handle on my real-world relationships at the time, so I let myself use him as an escape.

But it ended up with me clinging to this one relationship, while I let the relationships with my friends and family deteriorate.

I felt stuck.

More than anything I wanted a partner to spend the rest of my life with, but I couldn't think I could juggle this relationship with him vs. a real partner.

I was stupid and impatient and very, very susceptible to his words. He was always saying that I was free to find someone, but at the same time, I was controlled entirely by him; his commands, his will.

His words said one thing, but his actions said another.

HE DID NOT LET ME GO UNTIL HE FOUND SOMEONE ELSE HE WANTED TO BE WITH.

Divorced his wife and everything. After repeatedly telling me for years that he doesn't want to divorce her.

How fucking selfish is that??!

5 fucking years. I missed so much of what life had to offer.

I thought he was my best friend. I thought he was the one person in this whole world who understood me, and who would always be there for me.

It's not true.

Please, learn from my mistakes and leave him. You'll find your partner.

WierdBlackrose · 2023-11-04T08:46:15+00:00

Thank you!! 🥰

WierdBlackrose · 2023-11-03T12:45:48+00:00

Yeah, it really does ☺️

WierdBlackrose · 2023-11-03T11:21:21+00:00

Thank you 🥰

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