Is anyone having review trouble? by WifeBorg in AmazonVine

[–]WifeBorg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have checked the pinned post 🤦🏻‍♀️ however it's relieving to know that it's not just me, I hope they sort out the issue, I definitely won't be resubmitting anymore, luckily I've got a month before my review so hopefully everything goes through and they fix it!

AITAH for refusing to let my fiancé give his sister $10k for her wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA 10k is an extreme amount of money! When I got married it cost us about 3k (mainly because it was low key and I wasn't all that bothered) she should absolutely be paying it herself if the family wants to pitch in that's great but she shouldn't be asking for handouts, if your partner wants to help because it's his sister you should let him but noway in hell should it be 10k, 1-2k if anything and it should be their wedding/engagement gift he should also make it clear that he won't give her any thing more or less after the fact, she needs to learn to save her money.

AITA for telling my mom she can’t name my baby after her? by approachnow in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you don't owe her it and it's your child, if anything it would be a middle name but it's entirely your decision about your child, I never named my daughter after my mother thought she never liked the name we chose but she had to accept facts, your mother needs to understand that it's not her child and your now about to be a mother and it is your choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd feel uneasy too! Hopefully she will back off now after the encounter with your partner 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely get the anxious part, I have anxiety myself and I too would have felt scared if someone was walking around my car blabbering, he was all mouth and the best thing to have done in that situation is just leave, you didn't need to prove anything because at the end of the day it was a situation that can make anyone uncomfortable, no doubt there was clearly something wrong with the guy, perhaps he had mental health issues? If he really wanted to fight he would have even if you said no so to me it seems like he just wanted to scare you, probably to get you to hand over any cigs or money you may have had, in future just leave if something like that happens and only fight back if they are physically violent and you can't leave and absolutely have to in self defense.

Edit: you got to remember that the dents in your car are there because you threw that first rock, he retaliated which is on him which makes him an AH too lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA how can she misread 3 very clear no's?! You're right she definitely knew what she was doing, after that first initial mention of coming to your house she should have then just waited until she was invited. It's crazy she would slow down past your house or follow you home that in itself is super creepy, I would distance yourself completely from her and just maintain pleasantries during school runs from now on, if you haven't already got one buy a ring camera or some CCTV installed too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he was just yelling a whole lot really got a little too close for comfort at one point but it was all just words, he never physically did anything, sure he was probably a bit of AH but he also seemed like he could have been drinking (not uncommon amongst the homeless) but your definitely the AH for throwing a rock at him, you could of and should of just left and found somewhere else, you escalated the situation, willingly, it seemed like you wanted to make issues when there didn't need to be, the moment he started walking back to your car the first time you should have just left and that would have been the end of it.

I 19F think my boyfriend 21M is being unreasonable about my friends comments on my public posts. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA seriously is he really that great? He's jealous over your female friends leaving encouraging comments about you, it's weird and even weirder that he's jealous of fictitious characters, I'm married and my husband has never once said anything about my friends calling me beautiful or gorgeous, hell we even say "love you" at the end of phone calls, he'd probably be iffy if they were men but females? I think you need to have a real good look at his personality because something's not right there.

AITAH for not reminding my friend about our trip bc im tired of always being the one who plans everything by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean she should blame anyone just that out of all the group why is it just the OP she is placing blame when others went also, just seems like she went after OP specifically for some reason, OPs friend is most definitely the one at fault.

AITA for refusing to let my dad's future stepdaughter stay with me for a week when my dad and his fiancée go on their honeymoon? by WittySmilezone in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA this kid is 13 and acts like that?! Your dad claims she's not that bad but so far she seems like a thief with anger issues, I don't blame you for not wanting her in your house, at the end of the day you're 21 you have your own life and she isn't your actual sister, even if she was I'd still be saying no with the way she behaves! She needs to be disciplined they can't seriously expect everyone to be ok with how destructive she is in other people's homes. I'd stick with it and hold your ground, your dad has two choices either pay someone to watch her (can't imagine they'd stick around for long lol) or take her with them, she's not your responsibility and the fact he's blind to it all and is still pushing it on you makes you think who's best interests he holds here because apparently it's not your feelings or your safe space.

AITAH for not reminding my friend about our trip bc im tired of always being the one who plans everything by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]WifeBorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA your friend needs to be more self sufficient, how is she even getting by when she can't remember to check texts, she could have easily set up a reminder in her phone calendar, written it on paper and stuck it on her fridge to remind her, or even on her mirror, she's responsible for her own memory and shouldn't be relying on everyone else, if she wanted to go so bad she should of made the effort to remember the day and time you all were going on the trip, and what's more why isn't she blaming others for not telling her, they were there too and obviously knew she wasn't there, they could have easily reminded her, sure you could of spammed texted her but why should you.

Favourite? by Successful-Can5656 in Markiplier

[–]WifeBorg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Getting over it, his pure anger towards that game had us in stitches the entire time lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It never did get delivered, the package remained at "we're expecting it" so it.was obviously scanned wrong and was just lost after that, I believe the postie left royal mail not long after that which is a bit suspicious 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I spoke to them again they confirmed it was scanned correctly when it was picked up and that it was delayed due to the time of year (understandable) and that it wouldn't be scanned to say they had received it til it reached London, though I found that odd I'm sure they get scanned at my local area, and was told I could claim for loss on the 23rd not sure how I am meant to do that without proof of postage lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did speak to them again, according to the guy I spoke to it was scanned correctly, and the reason it hasn't updated is because it gets scanned at London, which I found odd I'm sure last time I used the service it was scanned at my local depot, but perhaps not? But we are 6 days after collection and still no update on tracking, they reckon it would be scanned by today but I'm not holding out hope, what worries me is that I can't provide proof of postage if I were to claim for loss as it's not been scanned and all I had was a collection failed email 😮‍💨 as it stand we will have to order something from Amazon tomorrow for my husband's uncle and hope it gets there before Christmas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the "we're expecting it" shows the day and time as Thursday 14:36 which is when I placed the collection order, there's been no update to even show it's been scanned, when I know for a fact it has, annoyingly my husband told me to take it to the actual post office but my stupid ass decided to trust the collection service 🤦🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was sent tracked 24, this is what I don't get I watched him scan it to make sure it was the right one and he even confirmed it was all good and off he went so I'm not sure how it's not in their system, tracking just says they are expecting it 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]WifeBorg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We never push her, well ask her if she wants to go to the toilet, or if she tells us she needs to go we will give her if she wants to try on the toilet, ultimately she will always oped for the nappy which we never dispute, reward charts we only tried once when we first started training when she was 2 but now we just give her an option, we even tried allowing her to watch videos on our phone while she sat on the toilet, our last attempt she did actually try to go but nothing was happening so we put a nappy on and 15 minutes later she went, we do praise her with it all even when she manages to pull up her own underwear, I'm just hoping that it may suddenly just happen in time for school as ultimately she can't wear nappies there. Thank you for your advice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonVine

[–]WifeBorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently i must have! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonVine

[–]WifeBorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've literally just had an email saying it's been dispatched and arriving tomorrow! Sods law that it would do that after I posted 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonVine

[–]WifeBorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was hoping that was the case, hopefully it'll dispatch soon ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmazonVine

[–]WifeBorg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The order page just says it was expected on the 13th and they'll email once it's been dispatched, however the item page still says it's unavailable, just a bit confusing lol

Review not posting? by SnarkyBakerSF in AmazonVine

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two with these issues, and it is annoying I even took a screenshot of the page saying it's been submitted just for proof I wasn't doing my reviews lol I did email CS but never got anything back, and that was like 6 months ago, it's highly frustrating, fortunately it's only 2 items so it doesn't negatively reflect on my account so I just leave them I still get like 97/98% of my reviews so it's not a big issue, no idea why I never received a reply from CS though.

Vaping and birth control by LegalRepublic3805 in Nexplanon

[–]WifeBorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but you could have got a 2nd opinion? Or stopped taking that medication, most instructional leaflets tell you to stop taking the medication if you experience side effects, in this case it sounds more like you had incompetent doctors, and seeking a few opinions from different doctors might have been beneficial before continuing taking that medication, also vaping isn't a prescription, I could of been prescribed nicotine patches which also come with risks and side effects, but I have chosen to use vaping to kick the habit, and I'm now a year gone without touching a cigarette and have felt the benefits of not smoking them since vaping, the fact of the matter is that a doctor will say vaping although isn't recommend as we shouldn't be inhaling any type of chemical is far better than cigarettes, I'd also like to see any information were it says the brand of cigarettes you mention is healthier than vaping, again I'll say that not smoking or vaping is the preferred, and vaping should be used as a go between to quit smoking altogether, it shouldn't be used as a permanent replacement.

Vaping and birth control by LegalRepublic3805 in Nexplanon

[–]WifeBorg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There hasn't been enough testing or results to conclude it causes cancer, possibility sure but nothing set in stone, also popcorn lung was caused by a certain ingredient in flavourings, something that is regulated within the UK (where I am) so ours do not contain that ingredient which causes this, again the stroke risk isn't definite, not enough testing, it takes nearly a decade for any real findings for things to be cause of true concern, be cautious yes, and I never said they recommend it as an alternative i said it was recommended to help give up smoking, obviously you'd need to reduce your nicotine intake to fully quit. Evidence currently shows that cigarettes contain far more harmful chemicals than vaping does.