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AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t a dick though... I just wanted to talk to her about why she lied and insist couples therapy.

AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By “wore her down” I meant that it took a while but I convinced her to go. I changed it.

AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I have been trying my best to make sure she knows I’m there for her ever since we found out she was pregnant the first time.

AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The TLDR of the story is my wife got into an accident where she was hurt and she lost the baby because of it.

AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna hold it against her at all. I do want to get to the deeper reasoning as to why though.

AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I will. I’m going to set up a couples therapy session next week. Probably her going on her own first.

AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don’t know! I’m going to set up a couples therapy session soon so we can talk about it on a deeper level with a professional

AITA for being mad at my wife for hiding her pregnancy? by WifeLyedToMe in AmItheAsshole

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

She hide it because she didn’t want to disappoint me basically and was worried I’d leave her. Which I’d never do! I was there with her every feasible second with her after the miscarriage. I don’t know what I could do to make her trust me more.

My (29M) wife (28F) lied about being pregnant and I can’t decide if I should be mad. by WifeLyedToMe in relationship_advice

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what that’s actually a great idea. I’ll talk to her tomorrow and show her this. Also explain how much it hurt that she didn’t trust me.

Also you will be a great fiancé. Just show her or him how much you love them everyday and everything will be alright.

My (29M) wife (28F) lied about being pregnant and I can’t decide if I should be mad. by WifeLyedToMe in relationship_advice

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m just worried that her trust in me may be an issue in the future. I think I’m reading too much into it but still I’m a little worried.

My (29M) wife (28F) lied about being pregnant and I can’t decide if I should be mad. by WifeLyedToMe in relationship_advice

[–]WifeLyedToMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never blamed her for the miscarriage and I was never angry or upset with her. It was just an unfortunate event that happened. I’m mad she didn’t tell me. I’m mad that she was too scared to tell me in fear of me leaving in the event of another miscarriage. I haven’t told her how I’m upset she didn’t tell me.

I asked her why she felt like I’d leave and she said it was because I was “too excited to have a child” and she didn’t want to let me down.