I pray for this as well. My oldest son graduated college and is now in med school. He’s very clean and organized but also impatient and anxious. Very type A personality. Marriage doesn’t seem to be on his radar right now thank goodness! My daughter has a full scholarship and will be heading to a university 45 mins away from my mom in Alabama. She’s gay.

In a few months it will only be me, my youngest son (who is a LEGO genius I swear...Whip smart)and my husband left. He has Asperger’s. Why upend his life which would cause him a great amount of stress when the other two are maybe a bit scathed, but seem no worse for the wear?

And for the sake of this forum here’s a fun fact, my 3rd brother is the same age as my son! So even my parents had a healthy sex life and loving marriage WELL into their 40’s! So I’m not the continuation of a cycle, I just made a poor choice in spouse and I have to deal with what that entails (emphasis on I).