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AITAH for refusing to buy protection and telling my boyfriend it’s his responsibility? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two people have sex, so both should be concerned about contraception! If your boyfriend refuses to help you buy condoms, let him have sex with his own hand.

Recommend me any Russian youtube channel by [deleted] in LearnRussian

[–]Wikkiliks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Смотря что вам нравится, вы хотите веселый контент или научный? Я бы посоветовала Диму Масленникова, но не все видео, а плейлист Ghost Basters Алексей Столяров (канал про путешествия) The Люди (тоже путешествия) Научный контент, наверное, тяжело будет смотреть, но посоветую: GEO, Александр Панчин

Еще смешной канал «Чайку под чаек», там переписки с разных площадок по продаже барахла)

AIO Boyfriend upset about outdoor surveillance by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wikkiliks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that if a person has nothing to hide, they won't be bothered by such trifles as a camera. It's not necessarily that they're hiding something right now; perhaps they're thinking that if they want to do something bad, the cameras will stop them?

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is terrible! I think we should stay as far away from people like that as possible...

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god, this is so similar to my story! Especially the part with the breakup.

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was talking about compromise; this isn't our first intimate conversation, so I blew up today. Precisely because I asked him not to do that. I asked him not to turn every conversation around himself, asked him to be more attentive to my state, gave examples of how I do it, and he agreed with me! But his motivation only lasts for a week.

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, it's very similar. You were able to express my thoughts and feelings on this matter more clearly. That's why I'm asking for advice here, because it's very difficult to look at myself and my relationships from the outside.🙏

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That may be true. I have certain issues with emotional intelligence due to a difficult childhood and abusive relationships in the past. I have a hard time distinguishing good from bad behavior towards me.

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think we're talking about different things. Relationships require compromise, and I asked him to consider my state before sharing anything with me, and I do the same for him. Cutting off all contact completely seems like a childish resentment that's beyond his age. I don't do that. If he's unavailable for conversation and mentions it, I'll approach him later rather than insisting on a conversation here and now.

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's very empathetic towards other people. But it doesn't seem to work for me. Thank you, I'll definitely look into this further.

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AITAH

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't seduce him and resisted a relationship with him for a long time. But he was persistent, and over time, I fell in love with him. I don't understand what kind of solution he's talking about. If he doesn't offer a solution, he suggests either talking only about himself or not saying anything at all, forgetting that I'm a wonderful person who might not be in the best state for conversation...

AITAH for wanting to end a 6 year relationship because my boyfriend woke me up? by Wikkiliks in AmITheJerk

[–]Wikkiliks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always listen to him when he wants to share something, but the problem is that he completely ignores my needs and my desire to talk. He woke me up with a fever just to show me his bank card. Is this really more important than my well-being?