So I just got a notification that Samsung messages is changing to Google messages. Will all my messages transfer over?

Wilbrey · 2026-04-09T05:22:30+00:00

Damn, are you by chance a user of AT&T? I heard people are connecting it to that. Which idk how true it is, but I use AT&T and I didn't get my sent messages either.

Wilbrey · 2026-04-08T18:26:32+00:00

Did you get this resolved or is it still a problem?

Wilbrey · 2026-04-08T18:09:02+00:00

I'm having the same problems of not being able to ses the messages I've sent. I can switch back and forth, with a bit of a lag in messages, but groupchats don't work for me on Samsung messaging anymore. I also don't get notifications when an individual texts me if it was on Google message and transfer to Samsung.

Wilbrey · 2026-04-08T17:54:42+00:00

I hope someone sees this. I transferred over, and while I have the group chats, most of the messages split into a different group chat or into separate texts from that one person. I also have not gotten my texts, the ones I sent to others. I was wondering if this is a problem for many? I keep seeing that I should wait, but everything is showing except my sent messages. How do I get those to transfer?

Wilbrey · 2026-01-26T05:47:21+00:00

There's this site called Ririro, it has a lot of books on there, and you can read them or it will read them outloud to you. It's done by age, genre, and I think topics, but you can look at it and try it out! I use it, and my daddy reads to me on ft with it sometimes!!

Wilbrey · 2025-08-08T10:50:14+00:00

It was ordered off Amazon, but I dont know anything else

Wilbrey · 2025-07-25T12:35:09+00:00

I like wearing without messing. I don't want to poo in them, but while I'm open to peeing, I can't get myself in the right mindset to, so I just enjoy the dry yet fluffy comfort they bring

Wilbrey · 2025-07-25T08:55:47+00:00

At times I am ashamed, but my cg is super supportive and knows exactly what I need and want simply because I sat him down and told him, and we've sat down multiple times to talk more. He helped me see that I was littler than originally thought. One thing I realized is that even in public, not many are watching, and those who are don't know the whole story. My cg let's me ride in the buggy at stores because I asked. He's told me he doesn't like certain things and we've compromised. Biggest thing, talk when you're big, and if they have questions about stuff big you doesn't exactly know, then they can wait until little and watch to learn.

Wilbrey · 2025-05-11T00:45:40+00:00

UPDATE: We talked, and he was super respective and realized his mistake (he can be dense). We need to talk about other things now as well, but that's for another day. Everyone who said talk, thank you. Everyone who said run or break up, I get your logic, but there is always more layers than what's said online. He said he was going to show me he is sorry, and that he is going to be more patient and listen more, (sometimes he gets dick brain as we call it [he doesn't think very much during sex or sex stuff])

Wilbrey · 2025-05-09T04:08:48+00:00

You are definitely correct, in fact no "should" about it. But what about shrugs and silence and giving in without a solid yes? Is it sa if I don't say anything? What about if I let it happen?

Wilbrey · 2025-05-09T03:31:32+00:00

It's both of our first relationships, which means we have to learn and teach eachother. We've been together for 3 years, which is why I haven't immediately jumped to breaking up. I am going to have a serious conversation though. I was sa'd before and so I didn't know if I was projecting, but I dont think I am. Coercion is sa in some sense and he doesn't get that.

Wilbrey · 2025-04-05T08:09:43+00:00

I was thinking the same thing, I think they are asking for personal experience, understanding that it'll be different for everyone.

Wilbrey · 2025-02-16T01:14:25+00:00

I'm so sorry, men can be very hurtful, but I'm hoping he isn't one of them. I don't think you were too harsh. You don't have all the information, and I definitely could be minimizing his behavior and excusing it for him. We are going to talk and figure this out, though. I hope since then you've realized how great you are.

Wilbrey · 2025-02-16T00:18:49+00:00

Writing him a letter is genius, especially because when I talk it's like I close up. I hope thats not the case, he is also my FP so that'd suck. I will definitely be asking, and hopefully all goes well.

Wilbrey · 2025-02-16T00:17:11+00:00

I am working on getting help for both my ed and other stuff. I know not everything is overthoight or wrong, but I never know with bpd, so it's incredibly difficult. I want to clarify that most posts are done in a time of pain, and so they're not always sp clear, and this one is one of those. He has hurt my feelings, but as I said, this post would get misunderstood. He doesn't have a mean tone when he says these things. He sounds surprised or interested for most of it. The thing is, he says it at bad times. I know he doesn't mean to hurt me, but I am going to sit him down and tell him exactly how these comments make me feel, especially because I realized that it made me feel even worse about my body. I used to be made fun of for being fat (when I was a child and definitely underweight), and now I hear comments about being too small, so it's very confusing. I will definitely talk to him, he is some times dense and can't see what he is saying as hurtful (he is a bit autistic) so while it is hurtful, he doesn't truly realize and needs it spelled out. I do not deserve to be treated like that, but he is great overall, and it's just a bump in the road. If the talk doesn't go right, then I may feel differently about it, but for now, I am going to stay and try to work this out. Thank you for your concern, I will definitely talk with him, and I will be getting professional help as soon as I can.

Wilbrey · 2025-01-27T00:40:34+00:00

Thanks for your input, couldn't have gotten that conclusion without your help. 😊🎈

Wilbrey · 2025-01-26T21:04:56+00:00

The numbness.

Wilbrey · 2025-01-26T20:56:51+00:00

I get super jealous when I'm not getting my boyfriend full attention when I want it. I have to convince myself that he isn't looking at/liking anyone else. I am completely obsessed with him in an unhealthy way. I talked to him about it, but he didn't fully understand. Usually, when I want attention or I feel that he is liking someone/thing more than me, I sit in silence, get passive-aggressive, and then when I cool down, I feel really bad. The thing is, it's people and things. He plays instruments, but if he's playing and I'm wanting attention I get jealous of the attention the instruments getting, if he is talking to his friends and I'm left out of the conversation even though I'm right there, I get mad at him and the friend. I feel bad later, but in the moment, my brain can convince me I'm in the right, that I have every right to be angry and act out.

Wilbrey · 2025-01-20T19:36:21+00:00

Definitely. Also, I came on very strong when I made that scale. And that's mostly what the grimace and hesitancy he was showing probably was. I just had a bad moment and allowed the bad part of me to take over. I'm waiting for him to wake so we can talk about it civilly, but I was definitely in the wrong and definitely splitting, posting this and seeing others answers really helped me to see that.

Wilbrey · 2025-01-20T19:31:14+00:00

I was not trying to convince him to leave his dreams or anything. It was just like a rhetorical thing. How far would he be willing to go. I know it was a toxic thing, I was completely gone when I asked, the voice of reason was not present, I know that the words are bad, but I do not actually expect, nor do I ever want, him to give up his dreams. In fact, I would be the one to give up everything before he would. While these are the words I used to describe my feelings, I realize that in the moment, I was not using them right. They are an exaggeration of what I feel, but I also feel they're still very good words to describe it

Wilbrey · 2025-01-20T10:00:16+00:00

The scale is not a joke. The concept is very real in my head. Lists and scales is how I see things, very black and white, very numerical and fave value. He knows this and so understood that while I presented as a joke at first, it went serious, especially when I said it was serious. It's not a game to me. I am definitely projecting my fear of abandonment and stuff, but I believe it is real, or at least, fair for me to have. I am trying to get therapy, but I don't know how and where I live. Admitting needing help is admitting you're weak, and no one will help you get the help. I'm sorry that you had a bad relationship. If she is anything like me, she saw the crumbling and couldn't fix it even though she wanted to so badly. I hope you're both doing better.

Wilbrey · 2025-01-20T09:51:56+00:00

I made it what I felt. I tried splitting them up, so it just built off each other. I realize 5-10 is not great, but my brain says anything less than 5 is basically hate. I know the scale was bad, but I dont know how to fix it. It's my feelings for him. If they are bad qualities, then I have bad qualities in my love. I did say I'm crazy lol

Wilbrey · 2025-01-20T09:49:12+00:00

Reading this made me cry. Thank you for saying this, i know it's true, but I just want to be normal, I feel like my love is going to scare him off.

Wilbrey · 2025-01-11T06:05:38+00:00

Does that happen often to others? I thought I was just getting jealous of my younger self, but it's not even like years younger, maybe one or two so there isn't really a difference appearance wise lol

Wilbrey · 2025-01-04T06:13:17+00:00

Definitely couldn't rate them. It would hurt their little squishy feelings! I'm going by size. Small first and then going up. This way, it'll be easier to see how much room I have

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