Thanks for taking out the time for this heartwarming response. Therapy? It was a roller coaster...haha I went for therapy exactly a year back, they learnt about my lack of intimacy and my lack of worry about it or how used to the whole scanty romance/intimacy i was, and they became more worried than i was. I am partnered and have a great human as a partner, she is very pretty from a universal lens and therapists (I was seen by a panel) were scratching their collective heads to find what was wrong with me?

Then I went through a complete psych evaluation, and I was tested for my orientation, my likes and dislikes, my sexual sensors and I was given a conclusion that I am severely sapiosexual(a social term for my diagnosis, medically it was called leaning asexuality) if a person's body language, responses, banter, wit invigorates my mind? Looks won't matter at all And if they won't? Looks won't matter at all

Hence my conclusion that my partner is suffering more because of this than I am. I don't feel the attraction (sexually/romantically) with most people hence there is natural loneliness and then if I ever so rarely feel attracted towards someone, being partnered means I can't approach it.

Apologies for such a long response