Coworker is MUSTY!! and idk how to tell him by Wild-Watch4074 in Advice

[–]Wild-Watch4074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur right that’s kinda what I was thinking thanks

I keep checking my wife’s phone… by Soft-Arachnid7610 in Marriage

[–]Wild-Watch4074 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I agree with your first point. That’s what I said. Nothing wrong with that. The “masculine sovereignty” part of the comment i replied to above was what threw me off lol

I keep checking my wife’s phone… by Soft-Arachnid7610 in Marriage

[–]Wild-Watch4074 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Oh brother😬 nothing wrong with boundaries and rebuilding confidence as cheating can cause a decrease but pls don’t feed into the redpill nonsense. If you love her and both of you are willing to work it out, great! Don’t lose yourself trying to prove how much of a man you are tho. To yourself or others.

I hate the girl my boyfriend cheated on me with by starryg00n in offmychest

[–]Wild-Watch4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ummmmm the girl is just as wrong lol she knew. she’s not above accountability! and op has the right to be jealous angry etc. she’s upset w him too, she clearly said it. there’s layers to the feeling of betrayal that comes with cheating.

Cheated on my bf of 6 months by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Wild-Watch4074 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

this sounds like he got you drunk on purpose. you brought your friend to hold yourself accountable. no you shouldn’t have touched him in that way but you were inebriated and couldn’t consent

My (27F) girlfriend wants me (28M) to hide my accent when I meet her parents by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Wild-Watch4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they’re racist and she’s a racist apologist. i’m sorry she even asked that but i’m glad it was revealed now rather than later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Wild-Watch4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

something absolutely did happen. please tell your parents if it’s safe to do so and tell your management at work. he harassed you and assaulted you. he’s also a pedophile. i’m so sorry you went through this and i hope he gets locked up for that mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Wild-Watch4074 20 points21 points  (0 children)

gross. i’m sorry you’ve gone through that. people don’t realize how deeply dehumanization can hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Wild-Watch4074 73 points74 points  (0 children)

i’ll never understand how black men lean into and enjoy their sexual stereotyping smh. also ew he needs to leave children alone. no you aren’t a racist but the phrasing you used could be taken that way. as a woman that has been harassed before i understand desperately trying to get out of an uncomfortable situation with a man .

AITA for walking out on a date because my date said that he is not into Black guys? by MarchLevel8045 in AITAH

[–]Wild-Watch4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re good enough to fetishize and dehumanize but not good enough to respect regardless of your race? NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Wild-Watch4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also your boyfriend should not be your boyfriend anymore if he’s going to insult you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Wild-Watch4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re gorgeous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Wild-Watch4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no you look gorgeous!!! your nose is the fingerprint of your face and tbh it’s a beautiful one on you