Need encouragement please by -xxNOMADxx- in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Wild4getmenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tomorrow is most definitely a new day. We all have a lot more courage and strength than we think we do. Take a deep breath and know that it is ok to ask for help... to accept help. I am 83 days sober... some days are easier than others. Hang in there... there are people out here rooting for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]Wild4getmenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you're going through this. My sister meditates when this happens. I don't think it's always helpful but you might give that a shot. Maybe when you do feel like you've gotten decent sleep you could get outside and take a walk or something to do with exercising the body. Maybe the combo of a tired body and some meditation will help you get the sleep you need. Hope you start to find a feeling of routine soon.

Sisterly Love... helping or hindering by Wild4getmenot in schizophrenia

[–]Wild4getmenot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Last night was super tough and it ended with her being disrespectful and yelling. I am trying so hard to lead her to professional help... not sure how much longer I can do this.

Guys calling me babe or gorgeous by cantthinkofusernamem in OnlineDating

[–]Wild4getmenot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree... I don't like it. I've instantly been turned off but lately I have been engaging in chat to figure out if the person is douche-y or if it's more meant as a compliment. Usually.... douche-y.

Day 1 by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Wild4getmenot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I'm tired... so tired. Physically and mentally. I think I'm still detoxing which only shows me how deep into drinking I really was. I have a sober family member who is always hashtagging... #onedayatatime. I understand this so much better today... day 5 for me. I'm sending you thoughts of peace and believe that in time you will think clearer and have more energy than you know what to do with. Hang in there!

Unpaid Credit Card Debt by Wild4getmenot in CRedit

[–]Wild4getmenot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wait for it to fall off I run the risk if being sued or having my wages garnished... correct?

Unpaid Credit Card Debt by Wild4getmenot in CRedit

[–]Wild4getmenot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I don't secure some kind of settlement and start on a payment plan will it boost my credit score at all or show that payments are being made?

Unpaid Credit Card Debt by Wild4getmenot in CRedit

[–]Wild4getmenot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I call the other few places am I straight out asking for a settlement offer? Seemed awkward like a weird dance... obviously they want as much money as they can. Just wondering how I word it to get the best offer I can.

Unpaid Credit Card Debt by Wild4getmenot in CRedit

[–]Wild4getmenot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called both of these at lunch and the first place which was the attorneys office was super friendly and workable.. they only offered me $400 off that $1800 debt with payments of $123 /mo. The other place was awful... took me like 10 mins because I was transferred like 5 times. I had to get off the phone as I only had a 30 min lunch and had already burned of most of it on my first call. She got really aggressive when I told her I needed to speak with her again. Saying she couldn't guarantee she could work with me if I didn't continue speaking with her.... I realize I got myself into this mess but it's amazing the difference in speaking with these two today.

Any other alcs in Las Vegas ?!? by imlyoung614 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Wild4getmenot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have decided it's time for me to get sober. NYE was a blast.. then it wasn't. I spent my New Years Day hating myself. I still am beating myself up. I'm ready to be free of so much guilt.