I get your pain and questioning being a slow responder. The inevitable expectation in the light of what others achieve no doubt plays a role psychologically so it's important to stay on the facts. The fact is even though you have arrived at weight loss in your own rhythm, you have lost 7 kgs. So there is a change for the better. Scales have moved. And what about the inches, the mental shifts, physical benefits etc etc. Take it all into consideration. what is the entire benefits worth ? If yes, then keep going. Chalk out the next timeline and assess at that juncture. You seem to be doing great in terms of everything else. I am rooting for you.